The Lion and the Lioness

[Lustfuldevil]

This is my first thread post and a confession of sorts of my greatest fetish. It might not even be a fetish in the sense that there's nothing "abnormal" or "special" about it(well, to most other people anyway). And my virginity might make me even more naive than perhaps I should be.

But I've viewed the bedroom as a jungle so to speak(or more eloquently, a sanctuary for myself and my lover). If females generally desire a lion, then I can be that lion. However, there's one thing I long for in exchange.

She must be a lioness. Romantic metaphors aside, I basically love being just as submissive as I am aggressive. In love, everything must be equal(or near equal). So if it's a Power Relationship, I want her to exercise just as much power as I do. Hell, it's even kinkier if she's even more aggressive than that.

In a sense, I long for a soulmate type of relationship. That one person you could never live without and the one person who understands you even more than you could understand yourself.

Above all though, she has to be a natural. I don't mind a little mental pushing and shoving, but if she's uncomfortable with the role of a lioness, it makes me feel as though I'm forcing it on her.

Which of course is not equal. Thoughts on this "fetish"?

 

[NiceNastyMann]

Uh, sounds normal to me. Sorry.

You are not looking to switch back and forth, from being totally submissive to totally dominate. Nor are you looking to always be submissive or dominate. So that kind of takes you out of that realm, in my oh so humble opinion.

Having an active, willing, excited and inventive partner is for a large segment of people a desired goal.

You aren't missionary-man-on-top-that's it vanilla either.

It's a reason why the thread is Fetish AND Sexuality. You are firmly in the latter. Enjoy!