The Last Taboo..or at least a rare topic

Pinnochio

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I wasn't exactly sure what forum I should post this in, but I figured I'd just go ahead.

I am turning 25 on Sunday and have grown up with a physical dissability. In my younger years I just figured that sex was a very distant fantasy that I probably never would experience, mostly because many women my age still go for the physicaly fit men. The other day I was watching a show called The Sex Files on the Life Network. The topic intrigued me because they were discussing Sex and The Dissabled. In all my years of living, and viewing porn, this a topic that I have never come across. It made me feel better knowing that they are people out there that have a physical or mental dissability and have found people who love them for who they are. I really agreed the topic of the act of sex; most people aren't really after the physical orgasm, most of us can do that on our own, it is more of having a physical and mental companion; hugs, kisses, etc. This is exactly what I am looking for ina relationship; sex would be nice and I would welcome the chance to loose my virginity, but that is not why I yearn for a girlfriend. Anyway, I just wanted to share this thought with you all. Feel free to discuss this topic further or contact me if you would like to chat.

Until Then...
smartinpg@shaw.ca
 
Happy Birthday !!!


Never give up hope on having sex. Remember, there's a HUGE difference between making love and just a romp in the hay. The latter being much easier to get.

I'm sure there's a mate out there for you somewhere. No matter what the challenge is for you.


:kiss:
 
The most sensual pleasure and undoubtedly the best sex is a mental act... I think the best lovers are not physical but verbal in their seduction...

Often the vainest ones are the most selfish... life's too short to bother with them :)

I don't wish to get personal if you don't want to go there, but can I ask what your disability is?
 
I have Cerebral and Erbs Palsey, along with Scholiosis of the spine. I once didn't like being different, but now I cherish being unique. Hey, I am a guy who likes New Age music; how about that for unique.
 
Pinnochio said:
I have Cerebral and Erbs Palsey, along with Scholiosis of the spine. I once didn't like being different, but now I cherish being unique. Hey, I am a guy who likes New Age music; how about that for unique.
LOL... that's not so strange. What musicians do you like? Into the Celtic ones or just spacey stuff?
 
Sarah Brightman, Mike Oldfield, The Mediaeval Beabes, Era, Apocolyptica, Enya, Delerium, Dead Can Dance, and Enigma.

Those are the main ones, but I am sure there are others.

If you have messenger or something, we can always chat on there as well.
 
Happy Birthday!

Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday! I marked it down the other day and didn't want to forget...

Hope all your wishes and dreams come true today... at least the hot and sexy ones ~ :):rose: :kiss:
 
Happy Birthday

Hey Pinnochio, it's still your birthday where I live, so Happy Birthday!:kiss:

I had a very wise teacher I think I was in the 7th grade. I can't even remember what class it was, but it sure wasn't sex ed. Some incident sparked the conversation. Anyway I have never forgot what he said. And that was: All people are sexual people, it doesn't matter what age, what size, what race, if they are disabled, or are sick, or it doesn't matter how they look. They will all respond to sexuality. I have never looked at any one the same way again. I at one time dated a guy, a paraplegic, in a wheel chair. Let me tell you, he more than made up for not having the use of his legs.:D So, I have never again considered that a person with a disability could not be a loving, caring, sexual person.

I am sure you are destined to find the right one.
 
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