The Ideal Mate

[Cath!]

I scooped this from another thread because it looked to be a subject worth delving into and Lukky has such a eloquent way of putting things.

Gotta love his mind....as well as his body!

Do other single/soon to be single men OR women feel the same way? Are both sexes actually looking for the same things in a mate?

Well, I've avoided this in other threads so by way of procrastinating, first two notes:
2) The answer is surely different for everybody.
3) I don't think "ideal" is anything but a target.


Right.
In my case, an ideal mate is a strong-willed, self-confident, communicative, and intelligent female, with an appreciation for music, nature, and diversity. I need somebody who can - and does - stand up to me when they disagree, else I will never learn anything from them.

Balance is necessary to an ongoing relationship, if there is too much power in one person then the give-and-take which I thrive on will not be present. I am sure there are those who prefer to be worshipped and looked up to, I would prefer to be inspired, supported, and told when I am being an idiot or an ass.

Ideally, further:
my mate should be playful, sexual, and social, interested in listening to children, capable of enduring my most opinionated friends and peers, and it wouldn't hurt if she had a flair in the kitchen and/or with interior design, where my talents are adequate but lackluster.

 

[Krankar]

lit suicide

the othe night, when you threatened lit suicide, I came to you. I poured my heart out, hoping to save you. I had no way of knowing it was a cheap trick on your part. and you didn't send help..


the perfct mate requirements include complete unequivocable trust, and you have ruined that.

Not that there's anything wrong with that...

 

[PowerOfOne]

Re: lit suicide

the othe night, when you threatened lit suicide, I came to you. I poured my heart out, hoping to save you. I had no way of knowing it was a cheap trick on your part. and you didn't send help..


the perfct mate requirements include complete unequivocable trust, and you have ruined that.

Not that there's anything wrong with that...

ROFL! I like it, Krankar. I think Cath/Bratcat, etc, has a thing for LukkyKnight. ROFL!