The Gspot Orgasm: Share your story

[DarkDreamz]

I Am a 31 m (straight) wondering what experiences people have had:

I have given and gotten bucketfuls over the years (sometimes literally). I've learned for both men and women the biggest step is knowledge. If you don't know what to expect or are to nervous to talk about it you may deny yourself one of the most wonderful experiences imaginable; both giver AND receiver--male or female....or solo after you learn how.

The biggest obstacles for women are an inexperienced partner and also, doing it correctly but afraid of going all the way becAuse of the sensation of having to piss.

On the flip side,men have a predisposition about having something in their ass. I fought with this myself earlier in my "career". Don't do this to yourself guys. Furthermore, all of you beg to have anal sex but don't, or don't more than once, because you need to be willing to balls up and see what it's like on yourself first. Assholes aren't like porno scenes at the beginning. They need to relax to enjoy anal, and it takes time.

Don't be shy. I've had many gspot o''s and every one was fucking incredible. Be willing to do this--talk, help others, ask questions. Be willing to do this and I promise you will never forget it or the enjoyment your partner gets--or you get alone. You either have none or they become a part of your sex life. This will open many doors for couples who have trouble talking or expressing their desires. Once you find trust here, comfort when she thinks she may piss or the guy finding it while a finger or two is up his ass. It opens the door to the fuck circus.

My starter:
My orgasm during a prostate (gspot) stimulation makes my legs shake And I usually come so hard I almost pass out every time. Its incredible.

She loves it because she is taken and overwhelmed. She doesn't squirt like some but she gushes and it lasts forever and multiples are very very easy--like 8-20+. Although when our game is off it may only be 3-5.......haha, I earned it--we earned it.

I have to admit, we recently had to separate because I have to move to Florida. I spoke present tense, but only because the memories are burned in mind--until replaced by another.

What is on y'all mind? Go!!!!!

 

[Tryharder62]

it lasts forever and multiples are very very easy--like 8-20+. Although when our game is off it may only be 3-5.......haha, I earned it--we earned it.

20 plus orgasms. I'm sorry I have to call that one.

 

[Lancecastor]

20 plus orgasms. I'm sorry I have to call that one.

I can't remember ever not giving a woman more orgasms than she could count.

Okay, so I fuck autistic chiks....but still...

 

[LiFeNdEaTh]

Okay, so I fuck autistic chiks....but still...

^ hahah someone sig this shit!

 

[DarkDreamz]

32 is the record. It was not uncommon to have over or around 6-8. Mind you, many of those were done orally. Gotta have a silver tongue in case you feel like your having a trigger happy kinda day. Haha.
The next step is to call her. But I need validation from no one. I appreciate you keeping me in check, but I can't help but ask aren't on occassion having that many? Once their first one fires women plateau in their orgasmic response and are basically on the verge of orgasming if giving a slow down and start slowly over again. Men have this slow down but the spike is so sharp we need a longer "refractory" period. After we peak we drop so fast we have to start back at square one or further.

There shouldn't be any problem giving a woman 2-4 orgasms-before you even use your dick. She can orgasm in up to 6 different ways. Your tongue covers 2 sometimes 3 of those types (clitoral, anal, and sometimes nipple orgasms--never seem that). Then you have your cock which can give all 6....nipple not being likely. The other 3 are vaginal, cervical, and g spot.

Change it up keep yourself guessing. Communicate. Know each others body. And be willing to "take" a woman. Overwhelm her. Listen with your eyes closed, pay attention with your fingers as the touch her. But most important is:

"to turn a woman on, you 1st have to turn her off"

That means her Amygdala, this is the stress regulator in the brain. A woman CANNOT come if her Amygdala is active. Stress kills orgasms right now. Also note, a woman's Amygdala trickles when her feet are cold. Ever notice how she rubs her feet together in bed. The coldness of her feet triggers stress via the Amygdala and her brain is everywhere but focused on "it".
Hence the term "she got cold feet".

 

[Tryharder62]

32 is the record.

She faked some. I wear shoes and socks. My feet are warm.

 

[DarkDreamz]

I studied Psychology while I got my degree in marketing. My specialty field chosen was female sexual psychology. Haha. I'm am bragging a little, but I worked my ass off trying to master that shit. I assure you it had been worth it. You must always pursue perfection if something is important. Perfection exists only so long as you chase it. The moment one believes they've achieved it, they are the furthest from it.

It's like "the edge". Nobody can, with any sense of honesty, say theyve pushed themselves to it. The only ones who truly know "the edge" are those who've approached it furiously.......and fallen over. But............after I neared on 140 mph, the wind began to sting, making my eyes water. No room for error as you reach the eerie calm, and a song plays all around you--somehow in the distance growing toward you.

I stop in a thunderous halt, confused, and badly shaken.

"No......Not today old friend."

The edge is still out there.

(paraphrasing ) Hunter Thompson

 

[Lancecastor]

I think you'd be a good new friend for Vetteman.

 

[Tryharder62]

I'm not trying to argue and welcome to lit if you haven't already got another personality on here. It is beyond my experience I guess.

 

[Aquagal]

32 is the record. It was not uncommon to have over or around 6-8. Mind you, many of those were done orally. Gotta have a silver tongue in case you feel like your having a trigger happy kinda day. Haha.
The next step is to call her. But I need validation from no one. I appreciate you keeping me in check, but I can't help but ask aren't on occassion having that many? Once their first one fires women plateau in their orgasmic response and are basically on the verge of orgasming if giving a slow down and start slowly over again. Men have this slow down but the spike is so sharp we need a longer "refractory" period. After we peak we drop so fast we have to start back at square one or further.

There shouldn't be any problem giving a woman 2-4 orgasms-before you even use your dick. She can orgasm in up to 6 different ways. Your tongue covers 2 sometimes 3 of those types (clitoral, anal, and sometimes nipple orgasms--never seem that). Then you have your cock which can give all 6....nipple not being likely. The other 3 are vaginal, cervical, and g spot.

Change it up keep yourself guessing. Communicate. Know each others body. And be willing to "take" a woman. Overwhelm her. Listen with your eyes closed, pay attention with your fingers as the touch her. But most important is:

"to turn a woman on, you 1st have to turn her off"

That means her Amygdala, this is the stress regulator in the brain. A woman CANNOT come if her Amygdala is active. Stress kills orgasms right now. Also note, a woman's Amygdala trickles when her feet are cold. Ever notice how she rubs her feet together in bed. The coldness of her feet triggers stress via the Amygdala and her brain is everywhere but focused on "it".
Hence the term "she got cold feet".

A cervical orgasm? That just made me cringe.

 

[DarkDreamz]

Very funny. Yes, admittedly she did. But I caught her. A woman fakes when her mind is worrying about it. She's not in the right head space. I doubt a woman would fake multiples. There are visual cues that are undeniable when she comes though. My mouth was on one of them a lot of the time....wink, wink.

I've been in a bad head space and had to stop in the past. I can relate with that. But women aren't brutal like guys can be and will try to pad the male ego. If you don't think it's true wait til you see an angry woman drop viscous words about a guy in the bedroom. They don't often. It's a trump card.

We talked when it happened. I told her I understood. I said it doesn't need to go down like that. Just be honest about how she feels. And we shook house from then on. Now we only had sex when we NEEDED sex. Like once a week, never more than twice. But in doing so the anticipation is great. Once we both broke and attacked each other it was an event.

"It ain't so much the thick dick, it's the Bic that creates the lit wick. For a quickie is just a "turn". Nice, but it's the slow burn for which they'll yurn."

That's the line that I made up around two girls I met once upon a day. I said it as I was walking past and overhearing their stories about bad sex. (They all have plenty.) I said it in passing but with a smirk. I heard all of them go silent.

I knew what happened. They were all talking about bad sex, then branch to the one guy they all ranked like a God. They all had it in common. Lots of ordinary with one or two extraordinary. What my comment did was deviate from being like every other guy who uses one of a dozen lines heard a thousand times. Women get hit on all the time every day.

They all heard something different. I changed it up. Their minds got lost justifying if that one comment meant I was one of the next great ones. Confidence, an ability to understand women, unpredictability are very alluring. Sex is 90% mental. You're better off choke slamming her than making her stare at the ceiling. (as long as its out of lust and not malice or anger).

Now I'm in the circle being referred to as one of the great ones. Nobody is born with it. Talk and observe. If you can shove your dick in her body or ask her to blow you then there's no reason why you can't discuss sex or fantasies openly or say the word "come" without shying away.

 

[DarkDreamz]

Very funny. Yes, admittedly she did. But I caught her. A woman fakes when her mind is worrying about it. She's not in the right head space. I doubt a woman would fake multiples. There are visual cues that are undeniable when she comes though. My mouth was on one of them a lot of the time....wink, wink.

I've been in a bad head space and had to stop in the past. I can relate with that. But women aren't brutal like guys can be and will try to pad the male ego. If you don't think it's true wait til you see an angry woman drop viscous words about a guy in the bedroom. They don't often. It's a trump card.

We talked when it happened. I told her I understood. I said it doesn't need to go down like that. Just be honest about how she feels. And we shook house from then on. Now we only had sex when we NEEDED sex. Like once a week, never more than twice. But in doing so the anticipation is great. Once we both broke and attacked each other it was an event.

"It ain't so much the thick dick, it's the Bic that creates the lit wick. For a quickie is just a "turn". Nice, but it's the slow burn for which they'll yurn."

That's the line that I made up around two girls I met once upon a day. I said it as I was walking past and overhearing their stories about bad sex. (They all have plenty.) I said it in passing but with a smirk. I heard all of them go silent.

I knew what happened. They were all talking about bad sex, then branch to the one guy they all ranked like a God. They all had it in common. Lots of ordinary with one or two extraordinary. What my comment did was deviate from being like every other guy who uses one of a dozen lines heard a thousand times. Women get hit on all the time every day.

They all heard something different. I changed it up. Their minds got lost justifying if that one comment meant I was one of the next great ones. Confidence, an ability to understand women, unpredictability are very alluring. Sex is 90% mental. You're better off choke slamming her than making her stare at the ceiling. (as long as its out of lust and not malice or anger).

Now I'm in the circle being referred to as one of the great ones. Nobody is born with it. Talk and observe. If you can shove your dick in her body or ask her to blow you then there's no reason why you can't discuss sex or fantasies openly or say the word "come" without shying away.

 

[DarkDreamz]

Now that's funny.

Yeeeaah....d..ddd.d...definitely used to drive this car. Bbbuuttt only on Mondays.
Course then the seats used to be brown, now they're just pitiful red. Y..yyeah.

Course now I have to go back in for fish sticks and it's nearly 13 minutes to Peoples Court.

 

[DarkDreamz]

In reference to the earlier post about an autistic girl.

I did a case study on a man who could only orgasm into a leather glove. Weird huh.

 

[marshalt]

WTF is an orgasm?

 

[dolf]

this has to be the unsexiest sex thread on lit.

 

[DarkDreamz]

I love it!! WTF is an orgasm. Too damn funny! We are blown this shit up like an 80 mph drive in a a Ford CLI-Tauras. Hit 88 mph and instead of time you only go back to the shop in the future.

On a latter note since this thread is shot. I wanna say that Biff Tannen is the greatest villain of all time. Maybe so I dont get in a nerd war--just under Darth Vader.

 

[Tryharder62]

Very funny. Yes, admittedly she did. But I caught her. A woman fakes when her mind is worrying about it. She's not in the right head space. I doubt a woman would fake multiples.

Well they can. Do Kegal exercises, jerk and moan. Simple.

 

[dolf]

Well they can. Do Kegal excercises, jerk and moan. Simple.

can & have done. men never know the difference. ever.

 

[Spontaneous1]

Well they can. Do Kegal excercises, jerk and moan. Simple.

oh yea?

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

20 plus orgasms. I'm sorry I have to call that one.

I can happily state it is possible. Not a frequent occurrence but possible none the less.

 

[Tryharder62]

I can happily state it is possible. Not a frequent occurrence but possible none the less.

That needs some serious details.

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

That needs some serious details.

*giggles* once I'm in the headspace that allows me to achieve that details become blurry. And to be completely honest I'm not certain of exact figures, I often lose count after 10, but there have been times I stopped counting and had at least that many more.
Unless I'm not completely into things I am disappointed with less than 5. Then again, I can also cum without touching myself with the right tweaking of my imagination.

And there's too much information divulged for one night. *blushes*

 

[Riles]

A couple of these comments were worth the read of this thread.

Lordy...I remember my first G-spot "O"! It was self induced with a toy made for just such play, and I was being talked through the ''instructions'' with an old Lit playmate. The funny part was that when it finally happened, I dropped the phone and disconnected our call, so he kinda missed hearing the payoff of all that hard work.

Man....that was almost 10 years ago. Where has the time gone?

 

[gabriel16]

G spot toys orgasms

Yes it is quite lovely to see and feel and induce.

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