The Giving Tree, by Shel Silverstein

Jade

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Is it just me or is this on anyone else's top ten list of "My Favorite Children's Books EVER?"

I could start a sep. thread on books for kids... hehe but due to the nature of this board I will just stick with this topic for now.

I was driving in my car today ... and being that I have a big day tomorrow, got to thinking. Often, very often in facts, it seems that children's books are more likely to have some sort of a deeper meaning, not nec. a moral, but something akin to than, than an adult book.

Why is that? Do we feel that life has no more lessons once we are older? Are we ignorant enough to think that we have learned all there is to learn? Sure, I read a lot, but do I go off book choosing for spiritual and intellectual enhancement? I vote Nay on that. However, wouldn't it be nice, if perhaps the books had meaning anyway?

Okay Jade get to the POINT. Eh hem!!
Anyway, I began to think back on The Giving Tree... a book I have read often in childhood, and admittedly (*blushes*) even now on occassion.
I wonder... what WAS the meaning in that book? On one hand it seems completely obvious and on the other... it is almost as if there are literally hundreds of possibilities, as if the meaning is left for one's own personal self discovery.

For example the tree could be something akin to a mother... giving and giving all of herself to you until she can give no more... there for you for as much of your life as she can be there for. (Or, a father even right right). Notice how she nourishes the boy with apples and provides for him and yaddah yaddah yaddah you get my point by now.

But then again, perhaps it is about friendship?

Or perhaps it is supposed to be equivalent of a God of some sort? Nature, life everlasting even beyond death sort of a thing?

Hard to understand.

Maybe it was just about compassion, who knows?

Did anyone else read this story, and if so, have you thought about this, or am I just was too overanalytical for my own good?
 
what to read and what to believe

There are some books that make you wonder...then there are the ones that make you cry:( I think i like the ones that make you smile on a very bad no good day!!


I say all books are like people some just need to be opened up:p


HUGS and KISSES
Dragonlady
 
AN awesome book Jade

It is one of my all time favorite books, Jade! I still have a copy after all these years. At one time I could recite it byu heart (along with Green eggs and Ham)

I think the message of the books comes through on several different levels. the nuturing parent, our higher power, whoever that may be. It made me think about how we often take friends for granted, til they are not there.

I could write about the book for hours.
 
I used to read The Giving Tree to my son when I was pregnant with him (Along with Oh Baby The Places You'll Go (It's rewritten by Dr. Suess' wife), Given In Love, and various baby/parenthood magazines).
 
Jade...

In my Soul, I cried for days over The Giving Tree...A youth Pastor pastor played it at our "Youth" group one night...Find the Singer series if you can...
 
Love "The Giving Tree". It was one of our favorite books. My son gave it to me for my birthday years ago. He said it was the perfect book to give a mom who gave to everyone else.
 
It is my # 1 favorite book....it still touches me so.... . I love Shel Silverstein...my daughter is sitting behind me reading "A Light in the Attic" right now.......My all time 2nd favorite book is "I'LL Love You Forever"....I have never been able to read this to my children because I cry so much. It about a mothers love for her child & how she takes care of him when he is weak & small....then his love for her when she is old & weak.....ohhhh see...now I'm gonna cry!!
 
WANDERING THRU THE CRYSTAL FOREST

Wandering through the crystal forest I wonder,
Who else has seen the glowing neon trees.
With their multi hued, shimmering leaves
Glittering, sparkling in the cool breeze,
as the evening shadows come.

I think that I'm alone until I see
Others who've been there all along.
The beautiful luminescent globes of Soul
and translucent ghosts in Roman robes.

All enjoying sights and sounds in
the Crystal Forest of Cal ~A

How do you describe this
inner world of glass like trees
bearing fruit of giant jewels
That vibrate love and light?
You can see and feel at least
a million miles away.
As if a mile has meaning here

Where thoughts will send you to the stars
way past Jupiter or Mars.
To talk with Fubbi Quantz or Master Tarz
Maybe a friendly tree will
drop a sapphire
in your pocket
for you to grow and nurture
until it turns into another tree.

Those with greedy hearts
Will sell it for a million bucks
to those who can not visit
The Crystal Forest of Cal~A
Those of loving thoughts
will plant their seed
and feed it carefully.

That's how the forest grows
You see.

So if you see a sick old man
by the road as you leave
His pockets full of tarnished coins
so heavy he can not walk, just crawl

Look around
I'm sure near by you will find
a dull gray rock
That was his seed.

Further on you'll find
the little girl
with a locket
that holds her star.

She'll share it with you
if you'll play
with her awhile
and share a smile.
or two.

She can't go far like you or me.
for fear she'll lose her star

Come back my friend
whenever you want
and see
how big your tree has grown
as others share
what you've sown.

2000© by http://www.couch-potato-james.com
 
Yes, giving tree gets me every time I read it.
Hope to have a child some day that I can read it to...
 
Adoratrice said:
My all time 2nd favorite book is "I'LL Love You Forever"....I have never been able to read this to my children because I cry so much. It about a mothers love for her child & how she takes care of him when he is weak & small....then his love for her when she is old & weak.....ohhhh see...now I'm gonna cry!!

I love this one, too. My nieces have the "Giving Tree" and "I'll Love You Forever". I didn't know either of these books would tug at the heart strings so the first time I read them. I ended up crying, of course. Still do, can't get through them with dry eyes.
 
Cheyenne said:
Adoratrice said:
My all time 2nd favorite book is "I'LL Love You Forever"....I have never been able to read this to my children because I cry so much. It about a mothers love for her child & how she takes care of him when he is weak & small....then his love for her when she is old & weak.....ohhhh see...now I'm gonna cry!!

I love this one, too. My nieces have the "Giving Tree" and "I'll Love You Forever". I didn't know either of these books would tug at the heart strings so the first time I read them. I ended up crying, of course. Still do, can't get through them with dry eyes.

These are the two greatest children's books. I had to be the one to read "I'll love you Forever" just for that reason, Adoratrice. When they were a little older could read but still liked to have me tuck them in, we wore out a set of "The Narnia Chronicles" by C. S. Lewis. By far the best series for young people. Gave a set to each member of our joint families, as they had their children.

[Edited by Samuari on 10-28-2000 at 11:13 PM]
 
Thank you Jade for posting this, I grew up with Shel's daughter-she was a very close summer friend and we spent hours reading her Dad's stuff. I now read them to my son and have given The Giving Tree to all of my closest friends.
Sadly Shawna died very young and I miss her still-she was still in elementary school when she passed and for years I was too sad to read his works because I missed her so much.
Man now I am going to cry.
 
Wow...

ANiceGuy said:
WANDERING THRU THE CRYSTAL FOREST

Wandering through the crystal forest I wonder,
Who else has seen the glowing neon trees.
With their multi hued, shimmering leaves
Glittering, sparkling in the cool breeze,
as the evening shadows come.

I think that I'm alone until I see
Others who've been there all along.
The beautiful luminescent globes of Soul
and translucent ghosts in Roman robes.

All enjoying sights and sounds in
the Crystal Forest of Cal ~A

How do you describe this
inner world of glass like trees
bearing fruit of giant jewels
That vibrate love and light?
You can see and feel at least
a million miles away.
As if a mile has meaning here

Where thoughts will send you to the stars
way past Jupiter or Mars.
To talk with Fubbi Quantz or Master Tarz
Maybe a friendly tree will
drop a sapphire
in your pocket
for you to grow and nurture
until it turns into another tree.

Those with greedy hearts
Will sell it for a million bucks
to those who can not visit
The Crystal Forest of Cal~A
Those of loving thoughts
will plant their seed
and feed it carefully.

That's how the forest grows
You see.

So if you see a sick old man
by the road as you leave
His pockets full of tarnished coins
so heavy he can not walk, just crawl

Look around
I'm sure near by you will find
a dull gray rock
That was his seed.

Further on you'll find
the little girl
with a locket
that holds her star.

She'll share it with you
if you'll play
with her awhile
and share a smile.
or two.

She can't go far like you or me.
for fear she'll lose her star

Come back my friend
whenever you want
and see
how big your tree has grown
as others share
what you've sown.

2000© by http://www.couch-potato-james.com

This was Beautiful...
 
Amazing how we all remember the same books. "Love You Forever" is the other book that I adore. I got it from a friend when my son was very little. We liked it because so few books focus on mothers & sons. I keep it with other of my son's favorite things in a chest by my bed. I know that we will always be there for each other, just in a different way. We also loved the Narnia books, the Nimh books & Willy Wonka books. It is rainy & yucky here, this kind of day always makes me kind of melancholy, but remembering these books makes me feel better.
 
yep Good Book make great old freinds, and they are so easy to share.
 
Wut's the One with the Ponds?...

teresafannin said:
Amazing how we all remember the same books. "Love You Forever" is the other book that I adore. I got it from a friend when my son was very little. We liked it because so few books focus on mothers & sons. I keep it with other of my son's favorite things in a chest by my bed. I know that we will always be there for each other, just in a different way. We also loved the Narnia books, the Nimh books & Willy Wonka books. It is rainy & yucky here, this kind of day always makes me kind of melancholy, but remembering these books makes me feel better.

Oh yeah, I remember now, The Magician's Nephew...Narnia Begins...But I always wondered wut am I gonna do when I get Old? Till I read the Final Battle, and it also relieved me of my fears for not agreeing with Christianity
 
Re: Wut's the One with the Ponds?...

insideShiraz said:
Oh yeah, I remember now, The Magician's Nephew...Narnia Begins...But I always wondered wut am I gonna do when I get Old? Till I read the Final Battle, and it also relieved me of my fears for not agreeing with Christianity

HUNNH!
 
Re: Re: Wut's the One with the Ponds?...

Samuari said:
insideShiraz said:
Oh yeah, I remember now, The Magician's Nephew...Narnia Begins...But I always wondered wut am I gonna do when I get Old? Till I read the Final Battle, and it also relieved me of my fears for not agreeing with Christianity

HUNNH!

Are you reading the narnia books by C. S. Lewis?
 
No, I'm Drinking with him Right Now...

ReepAcheap is gonna spank you with his Sabre right now...
 
I love The Giving Tree that has to be one of my all time favorite children's book.

I think it is the story of love, if you love someone unconditionally then you will do all that you can for them no matter what the consequence is... even if it means becoming a stump to sit on for the rest of your life....


I also love "I'll Love you Forever" Adoratrice, I am like you, I can't make it through the book without crying. And, when I read your post and thought about it, I got all choked up... DAMN BOOK!

another favorite of mine is "The Velveteen Rabbit" I love that story.
 
That Damn Mouse

insideShiraz said:
ReepAcheap is gonna spank you with his Sabre right now...

Never did have any manners! But he was so full of courage that it didn't matter. If only his friends were the same. for its age group, definatly the best group of stories.
 
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