The girl at the lingerie store

GentlemanToBe

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So, a few years ago my wife and I started a tradition that we've come to call “Trophy Wife Day”. I plan to post in detail in the future about what exactly Trophy Wife Day entails, but it essentially boils down to a day devoted entirely to her sexual objectification (to her great pleasure, I might add). I know there are likely some in the crowd that are offended by the notion of such a day, but I hope you'll reserve judgement – or perhaps first consider the type of life she must lead if we seem only able to find one day for that sort of thing each year.

Trophy Wife Day usually culminates the way you might expect it to, and usually, for us, that involves some lingerie. In the past, my wife has taken it upon herself to choose the lingerie – she has surprised me with something new every year – but this year I've decided to take on that responsibility, and present my favourites to her as Christmas gifts.

Now it's not that I've never purchased lingerie before, it's just that I've never felt completely comfortable in doing so. I'm guessing I'm not alone there, but I'll leave it to other men to speak for themselves. In any event, as I continue to try to improve myself as a man, I have decided that this is the sort of thing that one shouldn't fear. So today, I went and picked her out a few really sexy numbers, and I have to say I really enjoyed it. Perhaps the most enjoyment came from how I was treated by the women who tended to me at the store. They were very welcoming, helpful, and flirty. They made the whole thing fun.

So it wasn't until a few hours after I'd gotten home, and was reflecting on the experience, that I really started to think about those women. Anyone who knows anything about my sexuality knows that I am very cerebral. I like a woman with an active mind and an active imagination, and I'm always curious what's going on in her head when things start to get sexual. This natural tendency of mine has gotten me incredibly curious about the minds of the girls in the lingerie store. What do they think about when men come in to buy lingerie? To they laugh, inwardly, at our varying degrees of discomfort? Do they wonder what sort of woman we're buying for, and whether she'll even be interested in our purchases? Do they flirt because they feel it helps them make their sales, or do they do it because it's fun, and makes them feel sexy?

What do you think? Is anyone as intrigued by these sorts of thoughts as I am?
 
hmmmm

dont over think it

I am sure your wife loves you buying lingerie ...most women I think really enjoy the idea that their partner finds them sexy and loves the lingerie and toys you buy them

the girls in the store are probably thinking the same but not about you unless you happen to be a model or Actor or just very hot looking
 
I'm with the OP on this one. The thing that I like is that those girls seem so comfortable discussing the various merits of this piece or that one.

"Do you want a push-up bra or maybe one that is see-through?"

God, here I am worrying that they are thinking I'm some kind of perv and I'm not really married and I'm actually going to go home and whack off to this stuff (not that there's anything wrong with that for those of you who do). No, they seem truly interested in helping me find the right thing. I just think it's cool that we both know that the whole purpose (from my perspective anyway) is to ultimately get to the fucking (with my wife, not the salesgirl), and she's cool with that.

Love it.
 
So, a few years ago my wife and I started a tradition that we've come to call “Trophy Wife Day”. I plan to post in detail in the future about what exactly Trophy Wife Day entails, but it essentially boils down to a day devoted entirely to her sexual objectification (to her great pleasure, I might add). I know there are likely some in the crowd that are offended by the notion of such a day, but I hope you'll reserve judgement – or perhaps first consider the type of life she must lead if we seem only able to find one day for that sort of thing each year.

Trophy Wife Day usually culminates the way you might expect it to, and usually, for us, that involves some lingerie. In the past, my wife has taken it upon herself to choose the lingerie – she has surprised me with something new every year – but this year I've decided to take on that responsibility, and present my favourites to her as Christmas gifts.

Now it's not that I've never purchased lingerie before, it's just that I've never felt completely comfortable in doing so. I'm guessing I'm not alone there, but I'll leave it to other men to speak for themselves. In any event, as I continue to try to improve myself as a man, I have decided that this is the sort of thing that one shouldn't fear. So today, I went and picked her out a few really sexy numbers, and I have to say I really enjoyed it. Perhaps the most enjoyment came from how I was treated by the women who tended to me at the store. They were very welcoming, helpful, and flirty. They made the whole thing fun.

So it wasn't until a few hours after I'd gotten home, and was reflecting on the experience, that I really started to think about those women. Anyone who knows anything about my sexuality knows that I am very cerebral. I like a woman with an active mind and an active imagination, and I'm always curious what's going on in her head when things start to get sexual. This natural tendency of mine has gotten me incredibly curious about the minds of the girls in the lingerie store. What do they think about when men come in to buy lingerie? To they laugh, inwardly, at our varying degrees of discomfort? Do they wonder what sort of woman we're buying for, and whether she'll even be interested in our purchases? Do they flirt because they feel it helps them make their sales, or do they do it because it's fun, and makes them feel sexy?

What do you think? Is anyone as intrigued by these sorts of thoughts as I am?

I was always curious about that. Till I dated a girl who worked at a sex shop then I herd ALL about it. They get everything from the honest "good guy" who like you is just looking for a "for you for me gift" or a "just for me gift"..no shame. All the way to the total fuckin creepers......make no mistake those girls can spot a weirdo from a mile off. Every situation is different I guess.
 
I would imagine that anyone working in that environment would quickly become very relaxed about it. I'm sure they spend all day helping somewhat nervous and awkward men pick out sexy undies for their wives and girlfriends. They certainly couldn't think of all those customers as creepy weirdos.

Putting people at ease would become second-nature. Being a little flirty might help that along, or it could be a way to boost sales. Either way it's probably all rather routine, and sadly not as sexy as you might imagine.
 
I think it would be fun. Of course, I get a kick out of turning guys on so that's me. I wouldn't over think it, either. They're probably flirting both to make you feel at ease and to make the experience fun. I guess I also think it would be fun because its so different from my real life. I wish I could just break down the barriers and work somewhere totally unexpected (of me) like that.
 
I'm always hoping they are not realising i'm buying it for myself ;)

A) they arent ignorant of sizing

B) they try not to scare you off because they need the sale and I have NEVER had a negative vibe from any straight girl on either side of the sales counter.

C) do them and yourself a HUGE favor and just quietly mumble that its for you. Its ok to admit to them you feel awkward. I promise you they will delight in helping you.
 
Thanks everyone for the great responses.

Just to clarify - it's not so much that I'm curious about what they're thinking about me (though that is part of it, I guess), it's more about what they're thinking in general, about the job, about the connotations that go with it, about how the reason a place like that exists is almost purely sexual. There are few other places in the world - certainly very few mainstream places - that are so completely sexual.

Her role is essentially to help me find the thing that will turn me on the most. There is something hot about that for sure.
 
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