The Friendzone, Entitlement and Women as Prizes: A Men's Rights Perspective

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The Friendzone, Entitlement and Women as Prizes: The Men’s Rights Movement DOES Have Something to Say About This

Radical feminists have recently made a major issue of the Friendzone and the (almost entirely phantom) menace of men supposedly feeling entitled to women’s affections because they’re friends, they did something for her, they were nice, or some other reason mostly made up in the paranoid fantasies of fearmongering radical feminist demagogues. In reality, the vast majority of men are completely used to, and in many cases satisfied, with putting out enormous amounts of effort to make themselves worthy of affection, and expecting absolutely nothing in return.

And this is where the men’s rights movement has a legitimate grievance. As much as feminists are involved in complaining about the ‘Friendzone’ word, and entitlement, and the fearmongering propaganda that men collectively feel women owe them something, we’ve got something to say about this, too.

The men’s rights movement would actually have nothing at all to do with entitlement, or women supposedly owing men anything, and the idea of women as prizes is absolutely, hilariously right out. Here’s why.

First of all, the entire concept of courtship is, quite often, a contest. Men are pitted either against each other, or against a high set of standards, for a woman’s affections. He has to have some minimum standard of social status in order to qualify as a mate. Women expect men to be brave and have the guts to make the first move, and while men will go up and talk to fat women and ugly women, women will only ever make the first move if the guy is in the top ten percent of men. Men do not mind women who don’t have a job, but 3 out of every 4 women won’t date a man who doesn’t have a job. They say it’s not about money. Sure it’s not. And the fact that women don’t date short men isn’t about superficiality, either. (Cue eye-roll.) In fact, women are actually pretty brutal in their views about short men.

Put all of this together and what facts come out? Men are judged by women by their socioeconomic status: their jobs, their willingness to exert themselves for a woman, their height, in essence: their position in the male hierarchy.

The institution of Courtship is, basically, a giant contest, in which men are compared to and pitted against other men, or against standards that women refuse to be (and are usually not) held to themselves. But yet at the same time the feminist say women are not prizes. Ask yourself this: what lies at the end of a contest? You guessed it, a prize. No sane person goes into a contest just to participate and not WIN anything. Women say they’re not prizes, but they treat men as contestants, and they lie and say they don’t… but the evidence is overwhelming.

And this is where the men’s rights movement comes in.

Our opinion on all of this is not that hey, it’s a contest, so we should win something when we measure up. Nope, our view is, the contest is bullshit and we will not play it. We will not be held to standards that women aren’t being held to, and the women who try to hold us to this, are not worth dating or pursuing.

Women aren’t prizes. But on the other hand, men aren’t contestants. The institution of courtship is a rigged game that must end.
 
You sound like a totally fucking pussy bro and thats why your all butthurt that girls wont fuck you girls only fuck guys that have confidence and confidence comes from accomplishing things and having a big cock thats why Scotty gets crazy amounts of pussy because Scotty accomplishes things and Scotty has a big cock a girl wants to know that at the end of the night you have the confidence to smack her in the face with your cock and if you dont have that confidence bro she aint going to cum and once she knows that you go right into the loser friendzone

Scotty
 
If you could make some guys' sense of entitlement totally phantom if my life, I would really appreciate it.
 
So many quarter truths and simplifications, as usual. Plenty of women approach plenty of men who could by no means be described as being in 'the top ten percent' (and of what, anyway? Earnings? Cock size? Body shape?)
 
You sound like a totally fucking pussy bro and thats why your all butthurt that girls wont fuck you girls only fuck guys that have confidence and confidence comes from accomplishing things and having a big cock thats why Scotty gets crazy amounts of pussy because Scotty accomplishes things and Scotty has a big cock a girl wants to know that at the end of the night you have the confidence to smack her in the face with your cock and if you dont have that confidence bro she aint going to cum and once she knows that you go right into the loser friendzone

Scotty
I'm married, for one.
And if I was single, I would rather fuck a sex robot than any woman like the bitches you're talking about.

You can keep those creatures. Really.

But we all know you're not a jock and you got nothin, dude. Your kid ain't even yours, son.
 
So many quarter truths and simplifications, as usual. Plenty of women approach plenty of men who could by no means be described as being in 'the top ten percent' (and of what, anyway? Earnings? Cock size? Body shape?)
On what planet again? Not on Earth, bub.
 
On what planet again? Not on Earth, bub.

I thought I lived on Earth, and I've been approached plenty of times. And no, before you say anything, this is not some attempt to fish for compliments. I'm not quite that desperate.

Perhaps it is more a US phenomenon? Much about the American 'dating scene' seems extraordinarily conservative from a European point of view.
 
I am a young, hot female. Finding an old dude with more cash than love cannot be that difficult. Nothing new here. The old dude will carry forever the chance that she is only there for the money. The young hottie will not forever remain young. Possible not remain hot, either. She will carry forever the knowledge that she may have been (just another) commodity.

Nothing new here.

Adults make choices. Don't worry about what is none of your business.
 
I thought I lived on Earth, and I've been approached plenty of times. And no, before you say anything, this is not some attempt to fish for compliments. I'm not quite that desperate.

Perhaps it is more a US phenomenon? Much about the American 'dating scene' seems extraordinarily conservative from a European point of view.
Perhaps it is a US thing. We are QUITE conservative here. Our feminists are also Conservative - though they think they're far left. (See: the Horseshoe Theory.)

The thing is, women in America live by 2015 gender rules. Men are still held to 1940s standards. And in America, feminists will NOT let that change.
 
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