The flip side: Would you pay for it?

[Iris]

Sorry if this got covered in the other thread. Just my preference but once a thread gets over about 50 replies I don't have the patience to go through it any more. Must have ADD or something.

Question is: have you ever wanted someone so badly you considered (or did) offer them money, gifts, etc to sleep with you? This can include taking someone out to a fancy restaurant or something along those lines hoping it would increase the chances of gettin' some.

I never have actually done it, and I'm sure I never would, but in my mind I've tossed around the idea just a couple of times. There was someone a few years ago when I just started college that was a total jerk, but he was about THE hottest thing I'd ever seen. He had a serious girlfriend - don't ask me what she saw in him other than his looks - but I would have given almost anything to have sex with him. Nothing else...just one night and then never speak to him again.

I always kind of wanted to see the look on his face if I had just walked up to him and said "I want you. I'm willing to pay for one night with you. How much would you like?" I would never have the guts - or money - to actually do it though.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Nope, never going to happen on my side of the fence

Either they want me or they dont... either way I'll survive...

 

[Isabella Thorne]

The Price You Pay

well you know what Iris luv ... i did ask that question about mid-way in that damn fucking long thread that takes so long to read ... lol ... so long that no one answered that question ... lol ...

... so i was thinking about what you said ...

and in a way i guess i have been guilty of attempting to buy sex ...

i tried so hard to meet a famous rock star once ... i gave a photographer who was going to shoot him a valuable (to me) piece of rock memorabilia in exchange for the chance to meet the rock star ... but damned if that photographer didn't cheat me .... he took my payment and never delivered ...

and when i say "meet" the famous rock star ...you can be certain i would have fucked him too if i was given the chance ... i was ... and probably still am ... totally in love with him ...

so i ask you ... does that count?
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Oh the price you pay, oh the price you pay
You can't walk away from the price you pay
~Bruce Springsteen~

[Edited by Isabella Thorne on 03-03-2001 at 12:21 PM]

 

[Problem Child]

Isabella

Could that rock star have been....The Boss?

 

[Iris]

and when i say "meet" the famous rock star ...you can be certain i would have fucked him too if i was given the chance ... i was ... and probably still am ... totally in love with him ...

so i ask you ... does that count?

Yep. But I'm sure you're not the only one who's done that.

 

[Charly]

Probably I will get a lot of guff for admitting it, but I did pay for it one lovely night in Florida, and it was terrific.

I called an Escort service listed in the yellow pages after a long day of business meetings. It was partly curiosity, partly lust.

I was asked what my preferences were. Ithought it over and said someone in their thirties, who dressed like a girl, by that, I mean no jeans, but something lacy and sexy. Sorry, that's my pleasure.

I was astonished to meet an attractive girl, dressed attractively and with a big open smile. She laughed and said she had had to do a bit of searching but had dug out garter belt and matching undies at last! And liked the request, she said. The only sort of offputting part of the date was her call to the agency to "Check In" a natural safety requirement.

She said, by way of explanation that she had been divorced six months ago after her husbanc started dating someone from his office and she found out. She thought about it and decided that she might as well get paid for it and lined up with the Escort Agency.

We found a lot to talk about, had some wine and food brought up and then had a long night of terrific sex starting with the pleasure of undressing her down to very pretty white lace panties and garter belt and a bra that she apologised that it didn't match but looked gorgeously full of beautiful breasts, plumply exceeding the capacity of the cups by a tiny amount. She was great.

I sometimes wish I had kept her name, it was that good of an evening.

Hope this doesn't ruin my reputation.

 

[CRaZy]

I never had the chance to but in my single days I would have paid for sex. I was so desperate sometimes. Hell, I'd pay Panadolboy for sex if I thought it would help!!LOL.

In my teens, I travelled all around Asia and Europe with a lesbian, heroin addict from the United States (you meet interesting people in backpackers). She never had trouble finding supplies until we were in Tibet. One night we were staying at a monastery when she subtly asked about her needs. The head monk invited us to his sanctuary for a not so holy ritual. Being a lesbian, my friend wasn't a particularly active participant. So, yes, you could say I've fucked for heroin. Probably upset Buddha too. Never gonna reach Nirvana now. Sigh.

 

[Blackbich]

Well, my roommate is a really hot looking guy and I'd LOVE to screw his brains out. Since I'm paying half the mortgage each month, I guess if I ever got him I'd be paying for it - LOL. If he's as good in bed as he looks, it'd be worth it!!!

 

[Samuari]

nope

I've never been at that place, but then my needs are pretty simple, too. It did occure to me that you could ask the converse:
"Would you have sex with some one if they paid you?" Would it matter who that someone was? or would you be willing to work for an "escort agency" and take what ever clients they found for you?"

Maybe this should be a new thread?

 

[bluntforcemama]

Well... I'm not shy..

...so if I saw a guy who was really hot, or just had something about him (like some guys do), I'd be willing to walk up to him and offer money.... wonder if he'd have me, though. Suppose it depends on how much money I offer him, right?

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Meet Me Tonight in Atlantic City

It did occure to me that you could ask the converse:
"Would you have sex with some one if they paid you?" Would it matter who that someone was? or would you be willing to work for an "escort agency" and take what ever clients they found for you?"

Maybe this should be a new thread?

Sam ... you're breaking my heart ... you didn't read my thread???? .... <tears rolling wildly down my cheeks as i dab at my eyes with my lace hanky>

Crazy ... you never cease to amaze me ...

Charly ... that was a very brave post and it reminded me so much of that scene with Tom Cruise and Rebecca DeMornay (sp?) in Risky Business ... it sounds so hot ... i wonder how hot it was for her? how much was an act? did you ever think of that? maybe it wasn't an act though ... maybe she really does get off each and every time ...

ahhhh Problem Child ... yes ... you have seen through my thin veil of secrecy ... my heart even skipped a beat just reading your post ...
____________________________
Everything dies, baby that's a fact
But maybe everthing that dies some day comes back
Put your makeup on, fix your hair up pretty
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
~The Boss~

 

[Charly]

Re: Meet Me Tonight in Atlantic City

It did occure to me that you could ask the converse:




Charly ... that was a very brave post and it reminded me so much of that scene with Tom Cruise and Rebecca DeMornay (sp?) in Risky Business ... it sounds so hot ... i wonder how hot it was for her? how much was an act? did you ever think of that? maybe it wasn't an act though ... maybe she really does get off each and every time ...


____________________________
Everything dies, baby that's a fact
But maybe everthing that dies some day comes back
Put your makeup on, fix your hair up pretty
And meet me tonight in Atlantic City
~The Boss~

Dear Isabella,

Very good question and quite logical. I could not find any inconsistencies in her behavior or her conversation that would suggest an act. If so, it was really an amazing acting job and with a perfect scripting. I thought about it a lot, and couldn't find anything out of pattern. It was unhurried, with lot's of touching and fondling and a lot of personal aspects to the onversation. Her nipples were deliciously responsive and she was already moist when my fingers fondled her through her panties. I treated her like a date, not a professional and her behavior was consisent with that. It was really one of the more erotic, rather romantic sexual memories I have. And that is a fairly extensive and varied list spanning some twenty plus years of activity. As you can see, I think of it with quite a lot of pleasure.

I dunno, did I just happen to get lucky? Two people happening to be in just the right mood at the same moment? What do you think?

 

[Docgtvt]

i traded shades with joan jett...does that count?



"do you wanna touch, do you wanna touch, do you wanna touch me there? there? there!"
------------gary glitter
made famous by joan jett

 

[Docgtvt]

isabella, want some candy little girl?
wink wink nudge nudge....know whadda mean?

 

[Cheyenne]

Nope, never paid. I'll admit I've been curious about escort services once or twice, but I'd never have the guts to actually call one. If you expand the definition of "paid" to giving gifts, then I think most of us have to say "yes." I'll give a more expensive, nicer Christmas gift/birthday present to someone I'm interested in. But it will also have more thought behind it, to try to make it the "perfect" choice.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Tom Waits for No One

Welll... Charly dear .... i think that yes perhaps in your instance there could have been chemistry between the two of you ... i mean i guess a hooker can be genuinely attracted to someone, too ...

but i am sure that not all experiences are like that ... i mean really ... it could be some 350 pound 5 foot guy who hasn't bathed in a week who calls that escort service and gets the same girl you did ...

oh Doc luv ... i love rock and roll ... put another dime in the jukebox baby ... heyyyyyyy wait a minute ... i thought you said i was sweet enough ....
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Christmas Card From a Hooker in Minneapolis

hey charlie i'm pregnant
and living on the 9th street
right above a dirty bookstore
off euclid avenue
and i stopped takin dope
and i quit drinkin whiskey
and my old man plays the trombone
and works out at the track

and he says that he loves me
even though its not his baby
and he says that he'll raise him up
like he would his own son
and he gave me a ring
that was worn by his mother
and he takes me out dancin
every saturday night.

and hey charlie i think about you
everytime i pass a fillin station
on account of all the grease
you used to wear in your hair
and i still have that record
of little anthony & the imperials
but someone stole my record player
now how do you like that?

hey charlie i almost went crazy
after mario got busted
so i went back to omaha to
live with my folks
but everyone i used to know
was either dead or in prison
so i came back to minneapolis
this time i think i'm gonna stay.

hey charlie i think i'm happy
for the first time since my accident
and i wish i had all the money
that we used to spend on dope
i'd buy me a used car lot
and i wouldn't sell any of em
i'd just drive a different car
every day, dependin on how i feel

hey charlie for chrissakes
do you want to know the truth of it?
i don't have a husband
he don't play the trombone
and i need to borrow money
to pay this lawyer
and charlie, hey
i'll be eligible for parole
come valentines day

~Tom Waits~

 

[bluntforcemama]

There's a story somewhere on here about this subject, actually. A woman pays a male escort, and eventually it becomes a routine, and she falls for him.... I can't remember the title though. Anyone know?

 

[angie girl]

Probably I will get a lot of guff for admitting it, but I did pay for it one lovely night in Florida, and it was terrific.

Well bless you Charly. You are aparently the only man who ever paid for sex except six million hookers are are there making a living? What gives with that.

I have met guys who have paid for sex, but of course none would admit it to anyone other than in confidence. Which is cool, I unnerstand. But they each had their own reason, their own timing, and none a them was a creepoid who I'd disrespect for it. Most said they had a great time, maybe like you described.

But they all have one thing in common, but I ain't even gonna go there, cause my lil ass would be trashed up and down the halls of Litty. But bless you Charly.

 

[Siren]

Charly was that YOU?

 

[angie girl]

really?

Let's hook up again....call me at 1-800-Free-4-you.

so funny Siren...or are you really the one? lucky lucky Charly huh?

and Charly? you can reach me at 1-900-ALL YOU COULD WISH FOR, $3.95 a min...

 

[Samuari]

Professional services

One of the things that I have been curious about is that in most other aspects of our life we expect professionals to be better at providing thier service than amateurs. For sure, some of us are better at sex than others. So does it follow that the hooker is better than the girl next door, or our spouce? Is fucking a craft that becomes an art with study and practice to develop native talent?

Recreational sex can be a lot of fun, good sweaty excerise. But for me, at least so far, the best sex only happens with a strong emotional comitment. It becomes allmost telepathic, with your partner knowing the exact spots to stimulate, exactly how to stimulate them, for exactly how long; with you knowing that they know, so that you can relax and enjoy it. And of course, you know the exact same ways to do her. Increadable.

Can a Professional compeat with that?

 

[Charly]

Story of my life, Siren

I called an Escort service listed

I knew we would meet up again some day.
After my night with you, I knew noone else that paid
for me would ever compare...so I started giving it away
for free...I just couldnt charge anyone after you.

Let's hook up again....call me at 1-800-Free-4-you.

Dear Siren,

So, we meet again at last.
And NOW you cut your prices!!!!!

No matter, you're still a dish.


Charly
1-900-LETSDOLUNCH

 

[Derya]

yes and I got ripped off big time

I've made three trips to Las Vegas. During the first two I was very intrigued with the possibility of hiring a male escort, but was with friends on both trips who wouldn't consider such a thing seriously, anyway. On my third trip I was traveling alone,so I decided to indulge my temptation. Well what a mistake that was. I had decided I didn't really want to fuck the guy (worry about disease etc), but wanted a sensual massage and the sexual attention and seduction. I figured if I'm paying I get what I want. Well he could tell I was "green" from a mile away and that's exactly what he got from me too "green". On top of the high fee I paid the agency, he coerced me into a large "tip" up front, did nothing (actually was making fun of me for being skiddish)and stayed maybe a third of the time he was supposed to. I did confide in a couple of people upon my return from vacation and they said I probably could have contacted the agency and expressed my disappointment etc. and they would have been accomodating considering that prostitution is such an active and professional business in Nevada. Well I wasted more money on that complete nonevent in a 1/2 an hour than in a whole night of gaming. Chalk it up as a lesson learned.

http://megsplace.com/dolls/hatnature.gif

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Re: Story of my life, Siren

Originally posted by Charly [/B]

Charly 1-900-LETSDOLUNCH [/B][/QUOTE]
Charlyyyyyyyyy -

Leave your number on my wall
And maybe you will get a call
If I needed someone
~The Beatles~

 

[Siren]

Now that we know who we are........