The Expanded Orgasm

Whatcha think 'bout EO?

  • Been there. It totally rocks.

    Votes: 11 57.9%
  • Still workin' on it, but convinced it exists.

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • Gimmick!

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • Undecided.

    Votes: 4 21.1%

  • Total voters
    19

impressive

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What is Expanded Orgasm? Most people have a pretty consistent idea of what an orgasm is: a big wave or even explosion of pleasurable sensation pretty much focused in the genitals (the word comes from the Greek orge, meaning an outburst). Sexologists tell us that physically an orgasm, for both men and women, is accompanied by a sudden increase in traffic over the sensory nerves in the pelvis and 8-10 contractions of muscles in the pelvic organs. Each contraction lasts less than a second. The salient features of regular orgasm include:

  • Genital stimulation
  • Major wave or explosion of pleasurable sensation
  • Felt mostly in the genital area
  • Brief - less than 10 seconds or so
  • Followed by a let-down period with temporary lack of interest in more orgasms
Some people (usually but not always women) can have multiple orgasms, climbing to one or more additional peaks shortly following the let-down period after a regular orgasm.

Things really start to get interesting with extended orgasm. Usually accessed by a combination of genital and G-area touch, a person in extended orgasm rides the waves of orgasmic energy to successively higher peaks but does not crest over and topple into the let-down period. Extended orgasm is like surfing a succession of ever-higher waves, and involves learning to ride the orgasmic energy for long periods of time, often over an hour. Think of filling a container in such a way that not only does the container become more full, it actually expands its own bounderies.

Like extended orgasm, the expansion can occur in time (expanded orgasms can last for hours). But the distinguishing expansion is in the sense of space. There is the sense of one's entire body having the orgasm, of reaching for an even larger body in which to put all that orgasmic pleasure.
 
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i don't think i would actually like it..... i like it short, but hefty.
 
The way a regular, short one can feel, I'm not sure I'd survive a much lengthier variety.
 
Well I've been nowhere close to an hour but I've had an extended orgasm or three! I had one the other night actually after an extended bout of foreplay and I came, and as I thought I was coming down, I didn't! I kept on orgasming, 3, 4 or more waves of intense pleasure exploding through my brain, my genitals, my chest...everywhere. I didn't time it, but I reckon it was a good 30-40 seconds, maybe longer and hubby thought he might drown.... ;)
 
hmm, not sure I've timed it, but i know after one of them extra value orgasms I feel that floaty, tingly bliss thing for hours and hours and hours. mmmmm...yummy!

Well occassionally anyway, I always worry I'm going to die in the midst of one, as I don't feel I am able to catch enough breath as I'm orgasming *L*
 
English Lady said:
... as I don't feel I am able to catch enough breath as I'm orgasming *L*

I'm more likely to feel that way just before crashing over the edge.
 
I'm still working on multiples. Hell, I'm still working on getting my g-spot to function. I kinda doubt I'll ever experience anything like this. Sigh.
 
sophia jane said:
I'm still working on multiples. Hell, I'm still working on getting my g-spot to function. I kinda doubt I'll ever experience anything like this. Sigh.

If you keep dating, who knows? If he won't help, I'll volunteer to help you get it working. :devil:
 
impressive said:
I'm more likely to feel that way just before crashing over the edge.


It's more right in the thick of it for me, I kinda become aware od the gasping and the moaning and the pleasure and I think to myself "I'm not breathing!" and I semi panic, butthen the orgasm keeps on rolling and I've just got to go with it *L*

SJ -I've only experienced this in the last oooh i don't know, year or so maybe and I've been with hubby for 8 years now. When we started out Icould only orgasm once by clitoral stimulation alone but gradually wwe got the g spot thing and then the multiple orgasms thing and then this extended orgasm which happens once in a blue baboon!!!!

So maybe it'll just take some more practising...keep at it :devil:
 
English Lady said:
SJ -I've only experienced this in the last oooh i don't know, year or so maybe and I've been with hubby for 8 years now. When we started out Icould only orgasm once by clitoral stimulation alone but gradually wwe got the g spot thing and then the multiple orgasms thing and then this extended orgasm which happens once in a blue baboon!!!!

So maybe it'll just take some more practising...keep at it :devil:


Let's hope so. Course I need someone for regular practice. :)
 
My orgasm has not not lasted an hour, but I definately get very long, extended ones. After the 1st one, the 2nd orgasm takes a little more persuasion and then I will experience, short tiny ones which take longer to get.

I do notice that it depends on how horny I am. There are times that I can be on the edge of an orgasm all day long! It's that wonderful sensation you get and you don't want it to stop, so you don't do anything to make it end, until, of course you get home and can do something about it!!!! :devil:

When masturbating, I can make myself cum very quickly (depending on what I am fantasizing about) the first time, the second one I try and make it linger a little longer.

EO's are AOK with me!!!
 
sophia jane said:
Let's hope so. Course I need someone for regular practice. :)

First time I got there was alone ... and it took a while. Well worth the effort, though. ;)
 
Followed by a let-down period with temporary lack of interest in more orgasms
Let down period? Not me. The first one always makes me want more- and I'm not talking about tomorrow. Maybe I've been spoiled; the so-called 'extended orgasm' is what I've come to expect. Hours though? Nope. Never done that. Fifteen minutes is more like it.

Think of filling a container in such a way that not only does the container become more full, it actually expands its own bounderies.
Does this just sound like pretentious nonsense to anyone else?
 
Penelope Street said:
Does this just sound like pretentious nonsense to anyone else?

Not if you think of the "container" as the genitals ... and the expansion of the container to refer to the entire body.
 
Damn, this thread's making me horny. Gonna have to see if I can extend myself tonight.
 
impressive said:
Not if you think of the "container" as the genitals ... and the expansion of the container to refer to the entire body.
Perchance the spelling error made me a overly suspicious. I'll downgrade it from pretentious to corny. ;) Seriously though, I can't remember when I didn't feel like an orgasm was about all of me.
 
Maybe it's a guy thing or something, but it just seems weird to me to talk about orgasms ouside of their emotional context.

When I think back on the best sexual experiences of my life, the quality of the orgasm is not what I think of first, or even second or third or anywhere near the top.

Orgasms are great, but they're like the cherry on the sundae. There's something weird about a seven-pound cherry.
 
dr_mabeuse said:
Orgasms are great, but they're like the cherry on the sundae. There's something weird about a seven-pound cherry.
Well, if you're used to that little cherry, I guess it might look that way. ;)
 
impressive said:
Ever had the aftershocks ALL DAY LONG?

Yes.

The day after my now-husband and I had sex for the first time.

I was in a daze. I kept trying to edit a paper but every time I thought about what had happened I couldn't function. I remember shuddering with this overwhelming rush of emotion, just like some damn bodice-ripper novel. It actually made me a little uncomfortable because the sensations were so intense.

That's when I knew I had to marry him.

:rose:
 
sweetsubsarahh said:
Yes.

The day after my now-husband and I had sex for the first time.

I was in a daze. I kept trying to edit a paper but every time I thought about what had happened I couldn't function. I remember shuddering with this overwhelming rush of emotion, just like some damn bodice-ripper novel. It actually made me a little uncomfortable because the sensations were so intense.

That's when I knew I had to marry him.

:rose:

Sounds very familiar. :cool:

We went to the county fair the next day, I get these rushes, go gumby-legged and then trip over my own feet. :eek:
 
Dr M love -If I think back on the moments when I've experienced these kind of extended orgasms I remember intense emotion! Alot of love, lust, heat and long, long, long sessions of lovemaking, the kind that are all about intimacy and love and expressing that :)

But thenI'm a romantic ;)
 
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