Endlessly
Corrupted Innocent
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Whoa, two threads in two days, this has GOT to be a record for me.
Hey hey hey, this is just me bitching. So my NMBSO (non-monogamous barely-significant other) and I have been bonding over the last few days-- we've finally been discussing the parts of our relationship that have been rough to voice, and he actually took off the stupid little mask of apathy that has been driving me crazy since day one of our relationship.
It's starting to look like I'm in control, and for once, instead of being bored by it I'm falling in love with him all over again. (we've been together, on and off, for something like three years.)
So all of a sudden this weekend-- he doesn't have time to talk to me. Never answering ICQs, always distracted when we talk, very odd for him. So he calls me to wake me up this morning, and it was a pleasant surprise. He tells me there are pics he took last night that he uploaded, and to get online to see them.
So there he is, strutting his stuff in a new leather jacket--
And there are suitcases in the corner.
And a girl's hairbrush and deodorant on the counter.
I mean, Jesus H. Tap-Dancing Christ, I don't CARE if his females come visit him, we have a very open relationship when it comes to that sort of thing. But goddamn, don't males understand that SNEAKING MAKES THINGS WORSE?
If he had just TOLD me when I asked what was keeping him busy, I would have been cool with it. But NOW I get to confront him about something that wouldn't have pissed me off if he weren't ACTING like it was such a big deal by not telling me. I thought we were past stuff like this.
Meh.
Thoughts?
PS: Now he's telling me they're TDY suitcases. I'm not going to bring up the female accoutrements that are also blatantly obvious-- he wants to have secrets, fine. He just lost huge amounts of respect with me, though. *sighing disgustedly*
[Edited by Endlessly on 02-11-2001 at 10:00 AM]
Hey hey hey, this is just me bitching. So my NMBSO (non-monogamous barely-significant other) and I have been bonding over the last few days-- we've finally been discussing the parts of our relationship that have been rough to voice, and he actually took off the stupid little mask of apathy that has been driving me crazy since day one of our relationship.
It's starting to look like I'm in control, and for once, instead of being bored by it I'm falling in love with him all over again. (we've been together, on and off, for something like three years.)
So all of a sudden this weekend-- he doesn't have time to talk to me. Never answering ICQs, always distracted when we talk, very odd for him. So he calls me to wake me up this morning, and it was a pleasant surprise. He tells me there are pics he took last night that he uploaded, and to get online to see them.
So there he is, strutting his stuff in a new leather jacket--
And there are suitcases in the corner.
And a girl's hairbrush and deodorant on the counter.
I mean, Jesus H. Tap-Dancing Christ, I don't CARE if his females come visit him, we have a very open relationship when it comes to that sort of thing. But goddamn, don't males understand that SNEAKING MAKES THINGS WORSE?
If he had just TOLD me when I asked what was keeping him busy, I would have been cool with it. But NOW I get to confront him about something that wouldn't have pissed me off if he weren't ACTING like it was such a big deal by not telling me. I thought we were past stuff like this.
Meh.
Thoughts?
PS: Now he's telling me they're TDY suitcases. I'm not going to bring up the female accoutrements that are also blatantly obvious-- he wants to have secrets, fine. He just lost huge amounts of respect with me, though. *sighing disgustedly*
[Edited by Endlessly on 02-11-2001 at 10:00 AM]
