The Essential Tantra

[WriterDom]

When we embrace all of our sexuality,
we honor our spirituality.

When we embrace all of our spirituality,
we honor our sexuality.

When we embrace both, we celebrate God.

Kenneth Ray Stubbs, "The Essential Tantra"



A wonderfully erotic book written almost in poetry.

Do we have any practitioners of Tantra here?

There are some really good sensual ceremonies outlined in the book that could easily fit into a bdsm relationship.

 

[Cirrus]

I've looked into tantra, and my personal opinion is a resounding "meh". I, and this is JMO, don't really see the difference between Tantra, and just being sensual with your partner. I've looked over a lot of the massages and excercises, and wasn't all that impressed. I can't remember the names, but there are massages focused on the male and female genitals. That's just pretty much mutual masturbation, right?

 

[Lancecastor]

Tantra with chakra sauce...

....is yummy.

I think that the sort of stuff that involves what some call extended foreplay could easily be described as a d/s orgasm denial scene or a tantric session.

Lance "The United Nations of Love" Castor

 

[MissTaken]

I don't know much about Tantra as a practice, but find myself tantalized by the "Goddess" role that is played out.

 

[seXieleXie]

i've read a bit about tantric practices, but not the book you've mentioned WD. personally, i am not in favor of such prolonged orgasm denial i'd go nuts

 

[WillowPuss]

... personally, i am not in favor of such prolonged orgasm denial i'd go nuts

I frequently do!


I am researching aromatherapy at the moment ... just to add a little something when I give Him a massage. (And I have heard tell that it could help with my arthritis too ...)

willow

 

[Lancecastor]

Uh.....

personally, i am not in favor of such prolonged orgasm denial i'd go nuts

.....that's the whole idea.



Lance

 

[MissTaken]

i've read a bit about tantric practices, but not the book you've mentioned WD. personally, i am not in favor of such prolonged orgasm denial i'd go nuts

I love it.

Begging to orgasm and not being allowed to as the tension builds.

Hmmmm ....

 

[Lancecastor]

Plus...

I love it.

Begging to orgasm and not being allowed to as the tension builds.

Hmmmm ....

....when it does finally happen, it's a huge giggle for both.

LC

 

[seXieleXie]

I love it.

Begging to orgasm and not being allowed to as the tension builds.

Hmmmm ....

yeah, i love that too. but for a week?

 

[MissTaken]

yeah, i love that too. but for a week?

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh



Nope!

 

[cymbidia]

yeah, i love that too. but for a week?

Well i don't love it at all.
When i need to orgasm, i want to, you know?
That waiting stuff just makes me crazy - and not in an especially good way. (I think that's why the gods gave women the ability to cum over and over and over and over...so we wouldn't have to wait and prolong it and deny it!)

 

[Lancecastor]

Who said anything....

yeah, i love that too. but for a week?

....about a week?

Yikes!

LC

 

[WillowPuss]

....about a week?

Yikes!

Thats putting it mildly LC!!
Air now a lovely shade of blue here as I try to imagine more than 10 minutes ....

(OK - I am a whimp ... but I am learning fast!)