The difficulty of sex with a large penis

[Tricky_Ricky]

I took me a while to realize that I had what is considered a large penis. It has taken me even longer to understand how this changes sex for me and the women I am with.


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Primal (Hunter)
92% Dominant
90% Master/Mistress
89% Experimentalist
87% Rigger
71% Non-monogamist
71% Exhibitionist
61% Degrader
60% Primal (Prey)
59% Switch
53% Owner
45% Voyeur
43% Daddy/Mommy
36% Brat tamer
32% Vanilla
21% Brat
18% Masochist
11% Ageplayer
8% Submissive
6% Sadist
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet

 

[_mattycatfish]

It’s clear that, in this imaginary situation, the women having sex with you would be fucking a large penis

 

[Jacques_Corbin]

It’s clear that, in this imaginary situation, the women having sex with you would be fucking a large penis

I guess it is equal parts blessing and curse. Being blessed in size and shape will make sex more pleasurable for most women, they will orgasm more intensely, and more often, especially if you have stamina too. And we all know a satisfied woman is a happy woman.

On the other side of the coin, it limits you. Unless a woman is a real blowjob queen, do not expect a lot of BJs, or even good ones, especially if you have girth. Teeth on the shaft, especially when you are really aroused, is quite painful. And forget about getting deep throated.

Or, let's say your woman wants to go hard sometimes. You both enjoy it, and all the foreplay was worth it, but afterwards she is sore, almost to the point of tears, and could possibly have vaginal tearing. I mean, you were both enraptured by passion, but it kills you to see her in pain like that, and realizing that you did that to her.

And just forget about anal sex! Even if she did anal with her previous lovers, she may or may not try it with you, but still decide that you are too big. So what do you do? Go without, try to wear her down over time, try to guilt her into it for your birthday? Or, do you discuss the possibility of a no strings anal fuck with another woman, every so often? Sure that sounds great, but good luck finding an attractive woman, that can take a big cock in her butt, and will not try to charge you an arm and a leg for it. Even if she is not an escort, a lot of women will make demands. It really damages your faith in humanity.

Also, how is a woman supposed to know you have a large cock? Like the OP said, he realized it later in life. Maybe he had no luck with girls in high school? I know I only had 2 in high school, and how does a high school girl know the difference between regular and big cock? And then, as you have a girlfriend in your 20s, she will tell you that you are big, but you will be cynical, and say that she must say that to every guy she is with. A lot of women do that.

Oh, and be careful if you get offered a V Card. I was with a Filipina woman back in the early 2000s, and she was a virgin in her mid 20s. We did everything to set the mood, plenty of foreplay, and she was practically begging for it, well more like demanding, but anyway, after easing into her for what seemed like forever, and letting her adjust for a few minutes, after five strokes, she had to stop. She cried, hobbled to the bathroom, refusing any help, washed her self, and then wanted to be held. Of course I di cuddle her, but it was excruciating. Why? Hit your thumb with a hammer, hard, while trying to drive a nail. Ok, now imagine that throbbing, aching, pain in the most sensitive part of your body. You try to think non sexual thoughts to make it go down, but you are snuggled up with a beautiful, warm, soft, smooth, woman pressed against you, and your body just wants to react naturally to that stimulus. It's torture. Not to mention, she is crying, and in pain, you it is your fault.

Like I said, blessing, and curse...

 

[Nurseguy75]

..........

 

[Nurseguy75]

...........