The Boundary One Doesn't Cross

[SEVERUSMAX]

You know what I mean. The one sexual fantasy you have that you dare not fulfill in RL. Maybe it's more than one, but there is with most people, I think, a sexual forbidden zone that they dare not invade or trespass.

For me, it's the idea of sleeping with the boss. Which is unfortunate, not because I like the idea in principle, but because this particular supervisor is hot stuff, quite sexy in a vulnerable, sometimes helpless, delightfully human way. Her soul cries out to me, but so does her body. The one speaks to my desire to comfort her, the other to my desire to fuck her into next week.

But, alas, it is not to be. C'est la vie.

 

[tammyw]

I have a close female friend who I have known since I was in college who I would love to seduce. She knows I am bisexual and I met her when I was dating a woman in college, but I don't think she has any idea how attracted I am to her. She recently divorced her husband and I spent a lot of time with her, supporting her through the rocky last year of her marriage and now that she struggles to recalibrate her life after such an experience. I would love to be intimate with her, but I am terrified of losing a fantastic friend.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I have a close female friend who I have known since I was in college who I would love to seduce. She knows I am bisexual and I met her when I was dating a woman in college, but I don't think she has any idea how attracted I am to her. She recently divorced her husband and I spent a lot of time with her, supporting her through the rocky last year of her marriage and now that she struggles to recalibrate her life after such an experience. I would love to be intimate with her, but I am terrified of losing a fantastic friend.

That is a considerable risk, any time you wish to leave the friend zone and enter lovers' lane. Timing could be off, but it could also be right. You don't know unless you take the chance, and if you get it wrong, then it's too late to save the friendship in many cases. So, yes, I get you there. Been there before, though in a hetero sense, with a co-worker, Vicki, who was one of the kindest, friendliest, most gregarious women I've known. Never heard a truly cross word from her. Plus she had a nice tush and long legs that were, well, fantastic. It was her temperament, however, that set her more apart, that basic sweetness and that fun-loving, lighthearted way of hers.

Still, she broke my heart when I opened up to her. So, yeah, I understand the risks and why you would be hesitant to act. On the other hand, it could go well, just as it could have for me and her, under the right circumstances.

 

[Beck31]

Having my wife or my ex put me in chains and commanding me to give her sex whenever she wants. Fun in fantasy but won't ever happen in real life.

 

[rm1969]

I think for me right now it is having a threesome with my best friend and his wife. She is fucking hot! I have fooled around with him but she would never go for us all fooling around.

 

[Blazexx]

Having my wife or my ex put me in chains and commanding me to give her sex whenever she wants. Fun in fantasy but won't ever happen in real life.

Like in Spartacus: Blood and Sand. Would fun to be Ithia and make a slave service me.

 

[October46]

You know what I mean. The one sexual fantasy you have that you dare not fulfill in RL. Maybe it's more than one, but there is with most people, I think, a sexual forbidden zone that they dare not invade or trespass.

For me, it's the idea of sleeping with the boss. Which is unfortunate, not because I like the idea in principle, but because this particular supervisor is hot stuff, quite sexy in a vulnerable, sometimes helpless, delightfully human way. Her soul cries out to me, but so does her body. The one speaks to my desire to comfort her, the other to my desire to fuck her into next week.

But, alas, it is not to be. C'est la vie.

I am known for my feelings for my mother in law; this is a barrier that most men do not cross but have lusted for this women..

 

[SecretlifeofAL]

Sleeping with a married woman or any woman in a relationship. (Unless the husband is absolutely okay with it as in they've talked it out before hand and cuckolding is a fantasy each of them would like to explore.)

Mostly because I wouldn't want my own girlfriend to do the same without discussing first and everything like that. Also because I'd like to get to know the person before doing anything. For me having sex without any kind of emotional connections is like watching porn. Its fun, it feels good for a while but when the fun's over you're left with a big mess to clean up.

Next wold be scat. Seriously, its right up there with sleeping with someone else's wife. In fact scat might be a bit worse. I have conditions and exceptions with sleeping with someone else's SO. There are no exceptions with scat. I don't even get how some people would get off to that.

I can also say the same goes for knife play and gun play. Both are too dangerous for me.

The top one and the second one are big no-nos personally but there are a few others I wouldn't do for other reasons. BJs. First of all, I don't get them. Second I feel kind of like they are a bit disgusting. I'd be willing to give it though. I think it would be sexy to see my SO getting off to something I've done to her. Another one would probably be jacking off on someone's face. Its disgusting and kind of degrading. I don't really like anyone feeling degraded. With these if someone I'm with wants to do them I'm willing to indulge because they are more harmless than the first I've mentioned.