Sanhedralite
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EJFan
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i dunno if this would help anything or not but it sounds to me that you're over-analyzing it a bit. it's easy for me to sit here and tell you to relax... far easier than it is to actually DO that, i'm sure... but i believe that's what you need to do.
let your natural side take over when the time comes. do what feels right and trust your body's responses. if you get together and wind up with a feeling that says "don't" then you're probably better off ditching the idea, or at least waiting for a while.
on the other hand, it's more likely that if you get into the experience and everything moves along nicely you'll think back to your aprehensions and realize they were all for nothing.
let your natural side take over when the time comes. do what feels right and trust your body's responses. if you get together and wind up with a feeling that says "don't" then you're probably better off ditching the idea, or at least waiting for a while.
on the other hand, it's more likely that if you get into the experience and everything moves along nicely you'll think back to your aprehensions and realize they were all for nothing.
