The Big 'O'

[Flagg]

One thing that I'm sure no-one is likely to forget is the very first orgasm that they had. It might be a little more clear cut for males to identify but it would be interesting to hear from both sexes.

Under which circumstances did you first have an orgasm and what's the longest period of time that you've gone without one since?

For me, it was when I was 14 and watching a porn film I found in my parents room. I reckon the longest period without one has been five days over the last nine years.

 

[MADDOG]

I thought at first you were talking about Roy Orbison!

MADDOG

 

[Flagg]

LOL!
Yeah that could be an interesting question as well.

At what point in your life did you first encounter Roy Orbison and on a scale of 1 to 10 how would you say it affected your life?

 

[Deborah]

I first encountered Roy Orbison the first time I was referred to as "Pretty Woman," same as you and Roger, Flagg.

How it affected my life? I was a 10 but I decided to become a 5 because brains is more important than beauty. I replaced Roy's "Pretty Woman" with Elvis' "You Ain't Nothin' but a Hound Dog."

(For those who don't know, "Pretty Woman" Flagg used to be Crystal and "Pretty Woman" Roger used to be Rachel)

 

[Miss Lizzy]

Roy Orbison Sang for the Lonely

oh yea .. bout the Big O and all ... ummm you know much has been said bout women not being able to reach orgasm through intercourse alone. I don't find that to be true .. I can cum quite hard with only straight intercourse.

hey, of course clitoral stimulation is great too ..

Regardless, both ways I can now acheive multiple orgasms .. in fact my b/f calls me the Cum Queen lol.

 

[Guest]

Oops

Sorry Flagg, but I don't remember when I finally had my first orgasm. I believe it was while masturbating though. I remember many times having sex and NOT orgasming.

~Tiggs~
http://smilecwm.tripod.com/ct/ayla.gif

 

[Flagg]

(For those who don't know, "Pretty Woman" Flagg used to be Crystal and "Pretty Woman" Roger used to be Rachel)

I'm amazed at how often you feel the need to refer to that. Its as if you've got a fixation or something...

 

[Deborah]

Only because something similar happened to me, Flagg. I used to be Jesus.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I must call you a hundred times a day and you never answer. Just this morning I stubbed my toe and screamed "Jesus Christ!" A person could telephone, you know.

 

[Flagg]

Only because something similar happened to me, Flagg. I used to be Jesus.

No wonder you're so bitter.

 

[MADDOG]

Flagg, can I just ask a question? (And no offence because I have NO idea what is going on here!). How did you get to the "Reborn" Tag under your name?

MADDOG

 

[Flagg]

Once you get to 1000 posts the board can't cope with it so it has to strart again with 0 hence the 'reborn' tag.

*leaves wondering how long it will be before somebody dobs*

 

[MADDOG]

LOL! Nice one Flagg! I may be blonde but I do have some smarts! Did you get Laurel and Manu to change your name to Flagg from Crystal or something?

MADDOG

 

[Endlessly]

I had my first orgasm when was..

uhhhh..

I don't remember. I remember having my first orgasm with a male at 14 (we were taking the whole 'oral sex' idea for a test drive).. Didn't run into a guy who could give me one for four long years after that.

Learned to fake an orgasm when I was 16.. I'm really good at it now, even won a 'best faked orgasm' award on StarDog radio. Dumbass college boys who get bored waiting for blowjobs want results fast, I find.. I can't have, like, 15 orgasms one right after the other-- I only found out I was capable of multiple orgasms a few months ago-- but when they do happen, there's maybe 2 or 3 in the space of five minutes and they're highly explosive.

Most guys my age just don't have the patience to wait that long. *wry smile*

 

[Lasher]

"Crying" is a better song than "Pretty Woman", btw....

Allow me to scare the hell out of everyone here by actually answering a question!!

I was 12 and had found a couple of Playboy magazines under my brother's bed. 15 minutes later I was cleaning up from something that surprised the hell out of me....

Since then? Ummmm... I once crashed after a long week of drug use and slept for 26 hours. Odds are pretty good that's the longest I've gone without...

Ohh... And I think I was 4 or 5 when I first discovered Roy Orbison... My mother had a 45 of "Pretty Woman" and I played it once and then went back to patiently waiting for Van Halen (cause when I was 5 there was no Van Halen, cause it was 1972 or whatever...).

 

[CurlyGirly]

I had my first orgasm when I was 12. I also found some of my dad's Playboys and I also found my little "love button" at that age too. I learned how to fake orgasms when I started becoming sexually active. There's probably only been a few guys that have actually achieved that. No wonder I stick mainly to women. *heh*

The longest I've gone without is about 2 months. Being a camp counselor will do that.

When did I discover Roy Orbison? uhm.....No clue.
The effect on my life: hrm. can't say there's much of one.

 

[Laurel]

I thought you were referring to Oprah's new magazine. I first encountered it last week, in the grocery check-out line. It didn't affect my life, 'cause I didn't buy it.

 

[SimplySouthern]

Good Gracious you people ask some personal questions! But here I am answering it, so I suppose that makes me just as bad. Can't bear to see all those souls laid out for all to see and me not share mine.

I digress....I suppose I was young (12-13 or so) when I had my first orgasm through masturbation. I wasn't sexually active until I was 21 (three cheers for little ol' virginal me) and unlike some women have never (no, not even one time) been disappointed with anything a man has done in bed. My first lover was incredible and taught me that if the man wasn't doing enough with the "love button" (very eloquent Curly) that I should help myself out and give it a "whirl" all by myself. Since then, acheiving orgasm hasn't been much of a problem.

As far as length of time in between orgasms, this varies. Depends on if you mean self-induced or otherwise!

 

[Thephantomprincess]

Yeah Laurel!

ROTFLAMAO At Laurel! The big O is invading newstands and now Literotica!!

Just felt like being silly for once!

 

[Laurel]

Only once? C'mon, dear Princess - you have to be silly at least three or four times before you REALLY start to enjoy it...

On topic, I honestly can't remember the first time I experience orgasm. I know I was really young - probably 4 or 5 - and I know it was self-induced. There was a merry-go-round in the park, and I liked to sit on the rails, if you know what I mean. My first non-solo orgasm came (no pun intended) when I was 15, through mutual masturbation.

I don't like Roy Orbison. Is that weird or what? His voice scares me - no joke. Ah, us soulless white girls...

 

[CreamyLady]

I had to think about this; my first solo orgasm happened when I was 12. It scared me.

I was about 21 when I had my first orgasm with a partner -- not my first. It took me that long to trust someone enough to relax.

As for Roy Orbison, I don't know. His music doesn't seem to affect me in any way.

 

[Never]

I had my first orgasm when was..

uhhhh..

I don't remember.

Hmmm. Mr. bic slip a little something in your drink that night?
"I must have passed out while I was writing. When I woke up I had this strange tingling sensation and you wouldn't believe where that pen was.."

*And now for something completely different*

 

[Endlessly]

*smiles sweetly and kicks Never in the shin*

My bic was a newer discovery. Hadn't gotten to that point with my first orgasm, I know that much anyway..

*not even going to mention some of the things you've done*

*snicker*

 

[Lovely Latina]

I think my earliest sexual "revelations" occured when I was in first grade. At night in my bed, I would pull my blanket up between my legs and get a really nice, warm, pleasant feeling down there. I think that I had realized that this sensation I was feeling was "naughty" because every time one of my parents peeked in my room to check on me, I would scurry to remove the blanket. And now that I think about it, I still sometimes sleep with the blanket between my thighs...one leg covered and one not.

When I was in third grade, I discovered the wonders that are my nipples. *lol* I started to admire all the "big girls" and thought it would be cool to have breasts like they did to play with. I would stand in front of the mirror (guess this is where the whole "mirror thang" started...lol) and cup my hands over my then flat chest, pretending that someone was trying to take a peek at my "attributes," and I would even put on some of my mother's lacy bras. I finally realized how sensitive my nipples were when I was pretending to be a belly dancer and stuck two little plastic playing pieces from my tiddly-winks game (oh...I know I'm risking future havoc in telling this...lol) over my nipples like little "pasties" and one in my navel. It was a sensation that I had never felt before, and probably the first time that I ever experienced the allure of feeling sexy.

I didn't really engage in much masturbation from ages 9 to 14, except for maybe some nipple play before falling asleep.
My first orgasm occured at age 14 while dry-humping with my boyfriend. I wasn't quite sure if it was an actual orgasm at the time, but seeing that it was an intense feeling in my loins that I had never felt before, I had just assumed that it was.

Needless to say, after that experience, my curiousity about this mysterious "O" heightened quite drastically. I began to find much more interesting "uses" for common household products and gadgets. <sly grin> Getting off became part of my daily ritual right between shaving my legs and flossing.

It wasn't until my mid-20's that I became multi-orgasmic. Having two or three orgasms via battery-powered assistance is very easily attainable for me now. And I even had ONE <recalls fondly> night where I had NINE (yes, you read correctly) orgasms in a 45-minute period. Each orgasmic delight was different and unique from the one before both in intensity and in duration, but the best by far (and of my entire life, actually) was #7. Mmmmmmm...#7. <slow grin>

As for the longest that I've gone without...probably about a week. There is such an ebb and flow to my libido, that it's really hard to say. There can be days where I have no sexual desire whatsoever, and then there are days where I can get myself off five or six times and still be horny as hell. I'm sure it's cyclic.

Now where did I leave that egg beater?

 

[Guest]

I don't know when I had my first orgasm. I used to have little mini-gasms from when I was really really young (maybe 5, 6 or 7) by kind of pressing my hand against myself. I'm sure there must be other gentlemen out there who've experienced that too but I've not heard anybody say before.

I remember the first time I ejaculated, though. I was 13 and staying at my Grandparents' house in the Highlands. I discovered my uncle's old copy of 'The Joy of Sex' in one of the bookshelfs - sad, I know, but that was the only inflammatory material I could get my hands on at that age. It did the trick. I'd been getting erections for quite a few months (usually at inappropriate times - like in the middle of registration at school, or whatever) but this was the first time I took things to their ultimate conclusion. And what a conclusion! I'd already heard all about ejaculating, so it wasn't a huge shock or anything but it was fairly life-changing. I guess that was my first, proper, full-blown orgasm.

I was in hospital for two weeks when I was 14. That's probably my longest time "without release".

My first non-solo result was when I was 15 and was induced by mutual masturbation.

I think Professor Kleenex should win some kind of an award.