The Betticus got kicked out of a kink forum last night...

[Betticus]

For posting a truthful answer to a question about ballgags. Posted from a Dom perspective involving safety and etc, etc....

One of the admins of that group is a nurse though and let me post up a call out for whoever kicked me and I kind of went off.. .. will post for review as I might be wrong but I don't think so.

 

[Betticus]

Ok.. let us all get something straight right fucking now.. One of you posted a pic of a girl with a ballgag and a question of what does it feel like. I have a very long and in depth background in BDSM and I answered that question from the perspective of a Dom as I would be with a submissive who had any kind of desire for that kind of kink. I posted actual real responses to that question and if you think I'm fucking with you here is the wiki on it and if you care you can fucking research it for yourself. I don't know which one of you fucking psychotic sex fantasy abusive motherfuckers was who kicked my other profile off of this page for posting an honest response but I would really love to have this discussion with your little cunt bitch ass who obviously dwells in a fantasy world where it is ok to fucking rape and hurt people in your own sick repressed emotionally underage psyche. I am telling you that one of the admins for this forum is a little punk ass bitchboy who didn't even have enough of a nut to throw your perversion right back at me openly in the forum where I could put your ass down harder than an altar boy in Boston back in '86. You asked a real question about a very real subject that has a very real affect upon whoever has the unfortunate luck to ever meet your little candy ass in the real world. I have been a Dom and a trainer for both Doms and subs and slaves and have worked with abuse victims of people just fucking like you.. coward who can't even come forward and say you kicked me from this group for telling the truth.. Fuck you in your little wet buttpussy because that is what you are. You are a fucking little piece of shit who beats off to people being used and abused and fucked up for life and has no remorse or sympathy for your fellow human beings.

Seriously.. I have worked for years with victims of people just fucking like you and you sicken me more than the people who do prison time because you hide your shame and can't even fucking face me in front of all of the people here and call me up to fuck you up and break your fantasies that get you off at the expense of others. I fucking dare you to come at me you little cunt.

I obviously know that you will kick me immediately for making this post because you are a fucking coward and can not stand to have to face yourself but you are the exact person who any BDSM lifestyle person warns others about. You have a fantasy that does not match reality and you are the person who I end up having to help your victims deal with and get past. I would love to meet you in a dark alley one night.. I would not make it quick either fucker.. I am a professional at this and I can make you beg for me to do anything to you and you would give it up for me. I can fucking guarantee that in real life I would make you live every sick thing you ever did to someone else and then program you to bleed out your own life.

I only ask that any admin here will let this post remain here who actually cares for the health and safety of others. Seriously go and get in a bathtub of warm water and slice your forearms from elbow to wrist about an inch deep before you fuck up the life of someone who could be a victim of you.

I would not even allow you to wear a slave collar and crawl on your knees behind me. I can respect and love a slave but you deserve nothing, no pity, no remorse.. nothing.

 

[Betticus]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gag_(BDSM)

 

[Betticus]

Fuck that shit.. I have too many friends that have been victims of sexual, emotional, physical abuse at the hands of the people who were entrusted with their safety.. Their own family members.

I ended up via the post I made and got kicked for meeting a sub who was a victim and who thanked me for making the post that I did then she was shocked that my profile got kicked.. not just mine but the friends of mine that were members of this group got kicked and it was like none or their post ever existed.

Over a question of what does a ballgag feel like.

Ballgag equals no safeword equals you need trust and to really know your sub so well that you can back off or stop before you hit their limit.

That's basically what I said plus the psychology of it and the real uses for it from kink to domination to just experimenting with it.

I'll post the group just because I'm so pissed off..

https://www.facebook.com/groups/204...79304/?notif_t=like&notif_id=1481844752455589

 

[wicked woman]

Really? Why bring all that negativity and foul language here? If it all happened on a FB group, it has nothing to do with Lit.

I get that you're upset. A one liner in the what pissed you off thread maybe.

If for some reason you think we, versus the FB group admin., need a refresher on ball gags, fine, then educate us with an informative post.

But this thread? Nope, not doing it for me.

 

[Blue]

Your posts don't break any of the rules so I declare that any misbehaving admins should be executed via guillotine.
Try not to have another heart attack.

 

[may_I_please]

Really? Why bring all that negativity and foul language here? If it all happened on a FB group, it has nothing to do with Lit.

I get that you're upset. A one liner in the what pissed you off thread maybe.

If for some reason you think we, versus the FB group admin., need a refresher on ball gags, fine, then educate us with an informative post.

But this thread? Nope, not doing it for me.

I disagree

I like a good impassioned rant about something you care about

Proof of life

 

[Betticus]

Really? Why bring all that negativity and foul language here? If it all happened on a FB group, it has nothing to do with Lit.

I get that you're upset. A one liner in the what pissed you off thread maybe.

If for some reason you think we, versus the FB group admin., need a refresher on ball gags, fine, then educate us with an informative post.

But this thread? Nope, not doing it for me.

I totally understand where you are coming from and I do not want at all to be confrontational to anyone on lit. You are my friends and peers and mentors. All of you here are golden to me unless you are fake which the subs pretty much take care of immediately.

My issue was that an admin deleted me and my posts that I made on a safety issue with ballgag play. An inexperienced dom can severely hurt a sub who has had the ability to use her safeword taken away by a gag. I only posted the psychological aspects of why a ballgag is even used and why it is so important that you know your sub so well before you play that way that you know when to back off or stop before you hit her limits.

Safety is a super huge issue with me because I am basically 270 pounds of meat and it is so sensitive for me because as a child I was raped for years by family members and after that by people who were supposed to be my own friends. My best friends mom got me drunk and raped me when I was a teenager and while it happened I could not move or do anything but cry and her four year old son watched it happen on the stairs from the living room to the bedrooms. .

I have an issue with bdsm safety. A very serious issue. Go ahead and touch my safety issue and see what I will do to you. I will rip the soul out of your body and shit on it, show it to you and then shove it back into you and let you live with the shame of what a rapist is. F that.

Zero tolerance for abuse.. it's a trigger for me.. just let me have this.

 

[MeekMe]

I'm all for safety, but I don't really understand this rant. If your original answer to "One of you posted a pic of a girl with a ballgag and a question of what does it feel like." was anything like what I'm seeing here, then I kind of get why you were kicked. All I'm seeing here is you accusing someone of being an abuser and how you would abuse them if you had the chance. ;; Am I not seeing something here?

 

[wicked woman]

Fair enough. My opinion hasn't changed but understand where your rage came from and will 'let you have this'. Appreciate the tone of your reply to me.

Since BDSM safety is so important to you, maybe you will use this experience to remind us how it pertains to the use of ball gangs. I've seen discussions here on the use of hand signals instead of safe-words and thought that made sense. If I recall correctly, something like dropping a ball. That might put a bit of a positive outcome on the situation. Just a thought.

 

[Farawyn]

I'm all for safety, but I don't really understand this rant. If your original answer to "One of you posted a pic of a girl with a ballgag and a question of what does it feel like." was anything like what I'm seeing here, then I kind of get why you were kicked. All I'm seeing here is you accusing someone of being an abuser and how you would abuse them if you had the chance. ;; Am I not seeing something here?

This.

Why is a ball gag abuse?

 

[Betticus]

It's pretty much abuse when I use one....