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Laurel
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Do what feels natural and good to you, watch his reactions, and go with what he seems to enjoy. It's not all "art" - birds do it, bees do it... If you relax and let yourself get into the moment, you'll find it's the most natural and most enjoyable thing in the world. So long as you're enjoying yourself and showing him you're enjoying him, he can't help but have fun. 
teresafannin
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For my sweetie & I, talking is the best foreplay ever. If you are really shy about asking him what he likes, get some erotic stories or poems & read them to him. This site has some great stories. Erotic movies can also be a great help. I don't like the hard-core porn stuff, I am more into romance, soft music, etc. Some of the best lovemaking I have experienced has been after a romantic dinner. During foreplay, do you ask him how it feels, what turns him on, things like that. There are lots of ways to open those lines of communications. Good luck.
Adoratrice
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something special huh?....ever heard of a velvet tongue? Let me tell you the finer points...trust me it's special.
it is basicaly giving him head while holding warm tea in your mouth NOT HOT...warm....make some tea & add some honey to it...test the temp..it should be as warm as possible...my favorite way to introduce this is to not tell him what I am going to do & have him lay on the bed (a folded towel under him is a good idea) blindfolded....do whatever it is you do to get him good & hard then take a sip of tea, hold it in your mouth and slowly put your lips to the head of his cock..letting some of the tea run down to his balls...slide your mouth down and let the warmth suround him don't swallow it right away, just keep giving him head and swallow or let it run down when it cools ,just keep taking sips to refresh....I have never had a complaint about this..in fact it is my favorite trick.
it is basicaly giving him head while holding warm tea in your mouth NOT HOT...warm....make some tea & add some honey to it...test the temp..it should be as warm as possible...my favorite way to introduce this is to not tell him what I am going to do & have him lay on the bed (a folded towel under him is a good idea) blindfolded....do whatever it is you do to get him good & hard then take a sip of tea, hold it in your mouth and slowly put your lips to the head of his cock..letting some of the tea run down to his balls...slide your mouth down and let the warmth suround him don't swallow it right away, just keep giving him head and swallow or let it run down when it cools ,just keep taking sips to refresh....I have never had a complaint about this..in fact it is my favorite trick.
skitch
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WoW
i've never even heard of the 'velvet tongue' idea before, but i think it's something i'm gonna have to talk to my girl about...hmmmmm sounds good
Being a guy, the most special, erotic thing i girl has ever done for me is tied me up...nothing to bad..just some satin cloth and tied my hands to the bead posts. She took a squeeze bottle of honey and started dripping it down her body while she straddled me...she'd tease me by leaning down and letting me taste the honey from her body. Just the teasing and build up of sexual energy ended in the best orgasm i ever had....just an idea
i've never even heard of the 'velvet tongue' idea before, but i think it's something i'm gonna have to talk to my girl about...hmmmmm sounds good
Being a guy, the most special, erotic thing i girl has ever done for me is tied me up...nothing to bad..just some satin cloth and tied my hands to the bead posts. She took a squeeze bottle of honey and started dripping it down her body while she straddled me...she'd tease me by leaning down and letting me taste the honey from her body. Just the teasing and build up of sexual energy ended in the best orgasm i ever had....just an idea
Samuari
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Laurel said:Do what feels natural and good to you, watch his reactions, and go with what he seems to enjoy. It's not all "art" - birds do it, bees do it... If you relax and let yourself get into the moment, you'll find it's the most natural and most enjoyable thing in the world. So long as you're enjoying yourself and showing him you're enjoying him, he can't help but have fun.
Damn I hate to disagree with you, Laurel, but loving is an art! Birds and bees just have sex; loving, like all art requires practice, attention to detail, and skill (which can aquired). Although it is certinaly natural, it is best when both parties take the time to learn the skills, and strengthen the muscle groups involved, and develop the stamina for really good sexy loving. Like everything else, if its worth doing, its worth the time and effort to perform at the highest level possable.
R Nitelight
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Tell him that you are not very experienced in the art of loving and would like to know a way to please him.
He will be thrilled to teach you what he likes, and in the process, you can learn what you like.
He will be thrilled to teach you what he likes, and in the process, you can learn what you like.
well hopefully you can ask him and he'll tell you what he likes- but if he can't or you don't want to ask- tell him you're going to explore- and try new random things- if he gasps or moans it's prbly good, if he yelps it may be bad,... trial and error not everything has a title or a clean picture- a way to think about what he would like is what do you like? take some time next time you masturbate (i hope you do,.. it's the best for figuring out what you like,and what othersmight like) to figure out what you'd like to try,... good luck!
