FungiUg
Waves at Cats
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2001
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It's been such an odd year.
In the last month, my lover and I have found a brilliant house to live in -- so we will finally be living together, after three and a half years of being passionate best-of-friends. I'm looking forward to it!
And I never dreamed I would once again want to live with someone. So that's a great progression to see in myself.
Of course, the fact that I will be getting out of my cold, dark and dank dungeon helps. Dungeons may sound romantic to those sado-masochists amongst us, but living in one isn't pleasant.
In the last three months I have been dieting (sorry, "lifestyle changes") and I have every intention of keeping going -- because it one inspiring side effect. Since I started the diet, I've not had a migraine. Not one. For those of you who I've mentioned my migraines to, they were career limiting and involved a great deal of time in intense pain (not the fun sort either!) So that's been a fantastic change.
At the same time, my lover and I are losing our submissive.
She has found a lover of her own that she can belong to, rather than being a third person to the relationship my lover and I have. She's sad to be moving on, but we can all see it's the best for her.
My lover has been diagnosed with Haemochromatosis. Some rotter has been chroming her haemoglobin! Again, many of you will be aware I have been worried about her for some time, and it's a relief to finally discover what it is. On the other hand, it's a genetic disorder, and she's guaranteed to have passed it on to both of her sons (at the very least as carriers.)
So that will involve more "lifestyle changes" as she manages it, but we expect her health to start picking up in the next year as she gets the issue under control. So something to look forward to in a way.
So here I am, stuck somewhere in the middle. Happy to be moving and progressing in my own life, sad to be losing our submissive and lover, and once again having to consider going out and looking for someone. Having my health improve so dramatically, and dealing with my lover's deteriorating health.
Isn't life just so odd?
My apologies to those who have missed my presense and participation of late. It's unlikely I will be spending much time on here in the future either, as I prepare to move, then have an influx of family from around the world for New Year, and get all of the things organised that require fixing once we move in to the new house... busy times ahead!
However, I will do my best to pop in from time to time. Don't be scared to contact me via PM or IM and say "hi" either -- of course, best of luck finding me on-line!
In the last month, my lover and I have found a brilliant house to live in -- so we will finally be living together, after three and a half years of being passionate best-of-friends. I'm looking forward to it!
And I never dreamed I would once again want to live with someone. So that's a great progression to see in myself.
Of course, the fact that I will be getting out of my cold, dark and dank dungeon helps. Dungeons may sound romantic to those sado-masochists amongst us, but living in one isn't pleasant.
In the last three months I have been dieting (sorry, "lifestyle changes") and I have every intention of keeping going -- because it one inspiring side effect. Since I started the diet, I've not had a migraine. Not one. For those of you who I've mentioned my migraines to, they were career limiting and involved a great deal of time in intense pain (not the fun sort either!) So that's been a fantastic change.
At the same time, my lover and I are losing our submissive.
She has found a lover of her own that she can belong to, rather than being a third person to the relationship my lover and I have. She's sad to be moving on, but we can all see it's the best for her.My lover has been diagnosed with Haemochromatosis. Some rotter has been chroming her haemoglobin! Again, many of you will be aware I have been worried about her for some time, and it's a relief to finally discover what it is. On the other hand, it's a genetic disorder, and she's guaranteed to have passed it on to both of her sons (at the very least as carriers.)
So that will involve more "lifestyle changes" as she manages it, but we expect her health to start picking up in the next year as she gets the issue under control. So something to look forward to in a way.
So here I am, stuck somewhere in the middle. Happy to be moving and progressing in my own life, sad to be losing our submissive and lover, and once again having to consider going out and looking for someone. Having my health improve so dramatically, and dealing with my lover's deteriorating health.
Isn't life just so odd?
My apologies to those who have missed my presense and participation of late. It's unlikely I will be spending much time on here in the future either, as I prepare to move, then have an influx of family from around the world for New Year, and get all of the things organised that require fixing once we move in to the new house... busy times ahead!
However, I will do my best to pop in from time to time. Don't be scared to contact me via PM or IM and say "hi" either -- of course, best of luck finding me on-line!
