The attraction to BBW

[Saturn0815]

Please share what attracts you to BBW, or when you knew you were into BBW.

I remember in 7th grade there was a larger girl in my History class, I remember staring at her and getting erections while in class. Because society told me that BBW were not attractive I tried to date skinnier women, The first time I made love to a BBW it totally blew my mind, my erection seemed much harder, when I came it felt so much more intense, and I was much more into the love making, I relaized that it wasn't necessarily the woman, rather I felt this way because that was my attraction.

I honestly can not articulate what it is that attracts me to BBW, other than I am simply wired to larger women. When I see a larger woman in public she turns my head.

 

[DBR71]

Bbw

I know exactly what you mean about the attraction, when I see a BBW in a short skirts with their ass almost showing with their fully developed thighs showing, large tits bulging out of their tops, it really sets me aflame,.

Mature MWM here just looking to break the boredom!

 

[etexasman]

Fat bottom girls

fat bottom girls make the rockin world go round

 

[Saturn0815]

fat bottom girls make the rockin world go round

They certainly do!

 

[JohnsonLongwood]

It was, of course, on the bigger girls that I first noticed breasts growing back in my school days and I began to appreciate them more. Their curves are curvier and they are soft and plush. My libido has never conformed to the social and media fixation on young, skinny, hour glass figure, glamour models as "what every woman should be and every man wants". There is a lot more to sex appeal than that. Older women appealed to me back then, too. My libido plays few favorites. Short or tall, big or small, young or old, it notices them all, just some more than others.

 

[lanceGibs]

It was, of course, on the bigger girls that I first noticed breasts growing back in my school days and I began to appreciate them more. Their curves are curvier and they are soft and plush. My libido has never conformed to the social and media fixation on young, skinny, hour glass figure, glamour models as "what every woman should be and every man wants". There is a lot more to sex appeal than that. Older women appealed to me back then, too. My libido plays few favorites. Short or tall, big or small, young or old, it notices them all, just some more than others.

I can rephrase what you say as "Only dogs love bones"

 

[curvyjae]

Bbw attraction

BBWs see this and wonder where men with that mentality are . I’m married now, and though my husband has no sex drive, I know he was attracted to me before his sex drive went away but three years ago when I was dating it was hell. So many guys would meet me for a date and then text after it that they my Face is pretty but they just can’t seriously date a big girl. It’s nice to know there are men that find women of all sizes attractive

 

[Mtnmike]

BBWs see this and wonder where men with that mentality are . I’m married now, and though my husband has no sex drive, I know he was attracted to me before his sex drive went away but three years ago when I was dating it was hell. So many guys would meet me for a date and then text after it that they my Face is pretty but they just can’t seriously date a big girl. It’s nice to know there are men that find women of all sizes attractive

I've personally been with women of all shapes & sizes, have enjoyed my time with most all them & not talking about just sex, dating, friends etc. I do have a question though, why do BBW always seem so stand offish when a man tries talking & befriend them?

 

[curvyjae]

I've personally been with women of all shapes & sizes, have enjoyed my time with most all them & not talking about just sex, dating, friends etc. I do have a question though, why do BBW always seem so stand offish when a man tries talking & befriend them?

Typically because of the ways we’ve been treated before. Not an excuse to not give someone a chance but it is usually the reason behind it.

 

[Hubby2woopigslutwife]

Since I was younger, now 37, I’ve been attracted to women who are bigger. I’m not a small guy, 6’5”, 260, and never really wanted to be with a skinny girl. My wife was not a bbw when I married her, thick but not a BBW. As we got older and with kids, her tits got bigger and so did other parts of her body. Grabbing a thick pair of hips or putting my face between thick thighs, or grabbing her belly during sex has become a fucking turn on. When I look at others, if the woman isn’t thick, I’m now turned off to a certain degree. Bring on the cushion for the pushin, any day

 

[curvyjae]

Since I was younger, now 37, I’ve been attracted to women who are bigger. I’m not a small guy, 6’5”, 260, and never really wanted to be with a skinny girl. My wife was not a bbw when I married her, thick but not a BBW. As we got older and with kids, her tits got bigger and so did other parts of her body. Grabbing a thick pair of hips or putting my face between thick thighs, or grabbing her belly during sex has become a fucking turn on. When I look at others, if the woman isn’t thick, I’m now turned off to a certain degree. Bring on the cushion for the pushin, any day

Thats awesome. Rough loss for those pigs yesterday! They were doing so good!

 

[Mtnmike]

Typically because of the ways we’ve been treated before. Not an excuse to not give someone a chance but it is usually the reason behind it.

Guess I can understand that, thank you.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

BBWs see this and wonder where men with that mentality are . I’m married now, and though my husband has no sex drive, I know he was attracted to me before his sex drive went away but three years ago when I was dating it was hell. So many guys would meet me for a date and then text after it that they my Face is pretty but they just can’t seriously date a big girl. It’s nice to know there are men that find women of all sizes attractive

My ex liked big women; that's one of the reasons why he was attracted to me. Of course, he was attracted to women of all shapes and sizes and indulged himself in other women to satisfy that attraction. That, in part, explains why he's my ex!

I do have a question though, why do BBW always seem so stand offish when a man tries talking & befriend them?

I think a some, maybe a lot of guys have a preconceived notion that big women, especially if we're single, don't get much attention from men. As curvyjae mentioned. You go on that one date, but there's no follow up as they don't want to date a big woman. "Hey, you've got a great personality, but..." So some men think we're so hard up, we're so starved for attention, we'll jump at the first guy who wants to talk to us. I can't speak for other women, but that's the very first thing that crosses my mind. I wonder if the guy is horny, wants to get his dick wet, and figures a large woman is an easy mark. A pessimistic view perhaps, but that's the way I look at it.

 

[Hubby2woopigslutwife]

Thats awesome. Rough loss for those pigs yesterday! They were doing so good!

Curvyjae, they will be back. Yesterday was rough but they will work hard and get back after it!

 

[Mtnmike]

My ex liked big women; that's one of the reasons why he was attracted to me. Of course, he was attracted to women of all shapes and sizes and indulged himself in other women to satisfy that attraction. That, in part, explains why he's my ex!



I think a some, maybe a lot of guys have a preconceived notion that big women, especially if we're single, don't get much attention from men. As curvyjae mentioned. You go on that one date, but there's no follow up as they don't want to date a big woman. "Hey, you've got a great personality, but..." So some men think we're so hard up, we're so starved for attention, we'll jump at the first guy who wants to talk to us. I can't speak for other women, but that's the very first thing that crosses my mind. I wonder if the guy is horny, wants to get his dick wet, and figures a large woman is an easy mark. A pessimistic view perhaps, but that's the way I look at it.

Thanks LadyJ, I kinda figured that had a lot to do with it, especially in the older ladies. In high school & early 20's they seemed to be more interested in talking & doing things. I've always treated all people the same, without any perceived notion, until they gave me reason not to, mainly bad attitude or think they were better than me. Some of the best times & most fun I've had is with bigger women, they just want to enjoy life without worrying what people think.

 

[mightygrey1956]

Out Looking

BBWs see this and wonder where men with that mentality are . I’m married now, and though my husband has no sex drive, I know he was attracted to me before his sex drive went away but three years ago when I was dating it was hell. So many guys would meet me for a date and then text after it that they my Face is pretty but they just can’t seriously date a big girl. It’s nice to know there are men that find women of all sizes attractive

I have been into Big Beautiful Womenfor along time {since I was around 10 years old. I am now 65 } I look at it as there is more to LOVE with a BBW than with a skinny girl{skinny girls never turned me on} I am now a widow and out looking. I would like to find a Lady to chat with and possibly more. Just send me a PM and lets chat. We can chat on skype to if you would like.: rose: rose::

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I never gave the letters BBW much thought. I’m personality driven more so then anything else when first meeting someone. I can’t honestly say a woman’s size either turns me off or on more strictly based on weight or “ size “ for a lack of a better word choice there. I’m into laughing , exploring what we might have in common , sexually are we compatible i.e. share any lust factors , into a certain kink or fetish , those sorta things.

When browsing on hook up sites the text “ height and weight proportionate only “

Those are ugly words IMO , I get it , and thanks. That makes it easier to sort out a unknown , like what their personality could be like. Saves time and energy.

If I’m going to focus in on what makes a woman’s size sexual for me. Well for one , not trying to be vulgar. But they can take a pounding with a decent sized cock with some girth way better then there skinny counter part. If you like sex a little ruff a woman with a thick body frame is the absolute best partner for that. Mind set , good sex is also a mind set. If she is more worried about if she is going to sweat , or her hair getting messed up , those vanity issues. That mind set doesn’t work for me.

I get that it’s a self confidence issue some times. But I’m posting by my experiences with BBW woman , thick is what I prefer to reference a grown woman that’s not under a size 16. But that’s just me.

I guess to summarize , I’m more personality driven , if you are a BBW and have a positive outlook and on a hook up site. Yep , I’m interested , your size is secondary to your ability to be a sexy woman. That’s a mind set. IMO

Bonus lust if you are into a little ruff sex defined as aggressive talk and changing positions often.