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Carmina24 said:
The Hands That Hold Us Until

Some people are not meant to stay.
They arrive like quiet chapters -
holding your hand through the storms,
reminding you that you are worthy of warmth
even when the night feels endless.

They are not The One.
They are the ones who carry you
just far enough across the river,
so that when the true bridge appears,
you are no longer too tired to cross.

Their role is fleeting,
but not small.
They teach you that loneliness is survivable,
that your heart can open and still mend,
that love does not only come once in a lifetime -
but the forever kind is worth waiting for.

And if they go,
thank them for the time they stayed with you.
And if you must leave,
don’t disappear into silence.
Be kind. Be honest.
Words may ache,
but they heal far better than vanishing ever will.

And when The One finally arrives,
you will not mistake them for anyone else.
You will know.
Because all the hands you held before
were only guiding you here.
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And then there are the hands that remain and offer solace and advice if needed EVEN after the ONE has been found.
 
Carmina24 said:
Maybe we should expand our business from sex toys to education.
Climax University
Let's create a curriculum!

The Art of:
- Kissing
- Hand Job
- Blow Job

Advanced curriculum:

- Contract law for doms and subs
- Mediation for emotional miscommunication and sexual misunderstandings ('All I said to my new girlfriend was, my favourite place to eat out is Wendy's. Then she hit me.'--Peter Pan
- First responder training for BDSM triage

Inputs from @jacfox
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I will be going to my grand niece's wedding soon.
The thought of "if I only knew then what I know now" runs throgh my head.
Prostate orgasms cums to flitters thru my mind
How about a book with that title. One for him and one for her.
Read the books and talk everynight.
Don't go to bed mad.
Hmmmmmmmm
So what do I give them?
 
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subdudeme13 said:
I will be going to my grand niece's wedding soon.
The thought of "if I only knew then what I know now" ru.ns throgh my head.
Prostate orgasms cums to flitters thru my mind
How about a book with that title. One for him and one for her.
Read the books and talk everynight.
Don't go to bed mad.
Hmmmmmmmm
So what do I give them?
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Pretty good advice so far
 
Carmina24 said:
The Hands That Hold Us Until

Some people are not meant to stay.
They arrive like quiet chapters -
holding your hand through the storms,
reminding you that you are worthy of warmth
even when the night feels endless.

They are not The One.
They are the ones who carry you
just far enough across the river,
so that when the true bridge appears,
you are no longer too tired to cross.

Their role is fleeting,
but not small.
They teach you that loneliness is survivable,
that your heart can open and still mend,
that love does not only come once in a lifetime -
but the forever kind is worth waiting for.

And if they go,
thank them for the time they stayed with you.
And if you must leave,
don’t disappear into silence.
Be kind. Be honest.
Words may ache,
but they heal far better than vanishing ever will.

And when The One finally arrives,
you will not mistake them for anyone else.
You will know.
Because all the hands you held before
were only guiding you here.
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Beautiful as always but never say never. I do have regrets when I was the ..........well you know. Honesty is the best policy.
 
Wwwajr666 said:
Don't forget the classics for required reading
Sex with Shakespeare
Tongue Tied
Becoming Cliterate
Kama Sutra
Joy of Sex
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I looked at the cliterate book and saw this one.

She comes first
"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

Saw another title
"Mating in captivity"
Sounds like a prison love story
 
Hornymwtxn said:
I looked at the cliterate book and saw this one.

She comes first
"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

Saw another title
"Mating in captivity"
Sounds like a prison love story
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I think she should always cum first and many times. Women are soooooooooooooooo lucky.
 
Seems like what we do here is becoming a topic of academic interest, for anyone interested:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6096121/

Online intimacy and well-being in the digital age (conclusion extract)​

'Given the recognized importance of high quality intimate social interactions, particular focus on the influence of online intimacy on health and well-being is needed. Research to date demonstrates that intimate relationships formed online can indeed be similar in meaning, intimacy, and stability to conventional offline relationships and online contact can also enrich existing offline relationships. As well, augmented reality devices can be used to simulate some of physical aspects of intimate interactions. There is also evidence of positive psychosocial effects associated with online social interactions, including those characterized by key components of intimacy, self-disclosure and social support. However, little is still known about the benefits and risks of online intimacy in relation to health and well-being. Future work in this area should take advantage of exiting knowledge of the pathways mediating the wellness benefits of conventional offline intimate interactions to examine their involvement in online intimacy.'

Maybe they should talk to us?
 
jacfox said:
Seems like what we do here is becoming a topic of academic interest, for anyone interested:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6096121/

Online intimacy and well-being in the digital age (conclusion extract)​

'Given the recognized importance of high quality intimate social interactions, particular focus on the influence of online intimacy on health and well-being is needed. Research to date demonstrates that intimate relationships formed online can indeed be similar in meaning, intimacy, and stability to conventional offline relationships and online contact can also enrich existing offline relationships. As well, augmented reality devices can be used to simulate some of physical aspects of intimate interactions. There is also evidence of positive psychosocial effects associated with online social interactions, including those characterized by key components of intimacy, self-disclosure and social support. However, little is still known about the benefits and risks of online intimacy in relation to health and well-being. Future work in this area should take advantage of exiting knowledge of the pathways mediating the wellness benefits of conventional offline intimate interactions to examine their involvement in online intimacy.'

Maybe they should talk to us?
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Online intimacy can be just as beneficial as irl intimacy and it is a whole lot easier and safer imo
 
Hornymwtxn said:
Online intimacy can be just as beneficial as irl intimacy and it is a whole lot easier and safer imo
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I think the crucial bit is the same for both--that both (or all, if it's that way) parties communicate fully and openly. Maybe the advantage is with online intimacy, perhaps it is easier to express what you want to say when the other person isn't physically right in front of you. It's very liberating, for me
 
jacfox said:
I think the crucial bit is the same for both--that both (or all, if it's that way) parties communicate fully and openly. Maybe the advantage is with online intimacy, perhaps it is easier to express what you want to say when the other person isn't physically right in front of you. It's very liberating, for me
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Yes I agree it is easier online to push your own boundaries a bit and it is very exciting to explore those boundaries with an open minded nonjudgemental person
 
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