The 10 Cummandments of Giving a Man GOOD Oral

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For any women who want to know, but don't want to ask, HOW. Also for those who may be giving GOOD oral but would like to know a few other techniques that they may not have thought of themselves. ;)

i'm certain there are other techniques and tricks out there, so if you have one .... share ... share ... share, please. .... because, There's no such thing as a blow job being TOO good. ;) ...........


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The 10 Cummandments for Giving a Man GOOD Oral
... as recommended by Jenna Jameson in her book (How to make Love Like a Porn Star).


I. Thou shalt make eye contact: When you're going down on him, keep your hair out of your face and look up at him with big doe eyes. Make sure that you're always giving him a good show in bed because men, as we all know, are turned on by visuals.

II. Thou shalt start slow: Begin by slowly licking then putting your mouth around it, and finally, after ten minutes, start massaging the base with your hand. But be forewarned, once you're using your hand and mouth at the same time, a lot of guys will cum quickly, and then the fun is over.

III. Thou shalt use thy hands wisely: In addition to stroking him, try tickling his balls a little. Two handed stroking, especially if both hands are twisting in different directions in rhythm, is a nice treat, but can send him over the edge too quickly. Keep in mind that if you're feeling too much friction, you're doing it wrong. Back off, and use lubrication if necessary.

IV. Thou shalt spit before swallowing: Not only does spit help reduce friction and provide natural lubricant, but it's also sexy for him. The way to get good consistancy in your spit is to deep throat. The farther down your throat the spit comes from, the thicker it is.

V. Thou shalt watch him spank: Most guys don't just piston up and down. If you watch him masturbate, you'll know exactly what he likes. Usually, there's a swoop in his motion. Imagine how you like to be played with, and treat him to a little twist to your wrist.

VI. Thou shalt use thine tongue: While he's in your mouth, stick your tongue out as far as it will go. Then wiggle your tongue on the underside of his shaft. It may make you gag at first, but your partner will be using the Lord's name in vain within seconds.

VII. Thou shalt shield thy teeth: Most girls wrap their lips around their teeth to protect the guy, but the problem is that it makes a hard ridge. Instead, shield your bottom teeth with your tongue, and open your mouth as wide as possible so that your top teeth stay clear.

VIII. Honor the scrotum: This little variation is rarely shown on camera because it doesn't look good; however, it feels great. Put both of his balls in your mouth--suck if necessary to get both balls to come down--and jack him off with your hand. Then extend your tongue so that you can lick the sensative area between his ass and balls.

IX. Thou shalt experiment with facials and swallowing: A facial is when a guy cums on your face, and there's no man I know who isn't turned on by {giving} one. Swallowing is also a major turn on. Though still an aquired taste, it tastes better if he has a good diet (especially one that includes pineapple or pineapple juice).

X. Thou shalt not get it in your eyes: Not only does it burn, but you can get an infection. Also, wash it off your face afterward with lukewarm water. Hot water makes it too crusty and hard to remove. The last thing you want to do is go to school or work with jizz on your chin.

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.......... ALL men do NOT like their oral the SAME. Different combinations may be enjoyable for some, yet, not for others. ;) --sinn0cent



Disclaimer: Yes. i know there are many versions and tutorials of 'How to Give a Good BJ' out there on the internet, as well as in other books ... to include books devoted ENTIRELY to the subject. This is one that i've read recently. i'm simple sharing it with others who may not have read them yet, and would like to benefit from them, as well. i have .. ;)

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Where's the "If thine gag reflex is hit too roughly, thou shalt not vomit upon him?" clause?


And, no, I've never done that but have felt close to it.
 
Vixandra said:
Where's the "If thine gag reflex is hit too roughly, thou shalt not vomit upon him?" clause?


And, no, I've never done that but have felt close to it.
I had an ex that was so determined that I WAS going to deepthroat him that he didnt care if I vomited. He took me out to the desert frequently to throat fuck me until I vomited because "it will help you get rid of your gag reflex". I think he was just into vomit...
 
Vixandra said:
Where's the "If thine gag reflex is hit too roughly, thou shalt not vomit upon him?" clause?


And, no, I've never done that but have felt close to it.
Yeah, someone should tell Jenna to add that tip .....
i've come as close as it gets especially during a few experiences when He chose to become a bit 'insistant' and suceeded in giving my gag reflex a bit of a jump start. i don't care to be too graphic in explaining, but .. having a bit of vomit suddenly come up while mid-way into a good deep throat position, is better swallowed than propelled through one's own nostrils, and/or onto him.
 
Another tip i would add to Jenna's ten cummandments:

Thou shalt not worry about drool or sound effects: Some men like it messy, and enjoy seeing their cock glistening with the woman's saliva, and/or trailing from her lips to the crown. Many not only enjoy the effect of saliva as lube, but take pleasure in that visual. An excess of saliva can produce a good deal of sounds associated with slurping, lips smacking, stroking and sucking motions.
 
sinn0cent1 said:
Yeah, someone should tell Jenna to add that tip .....
i've come as close as it gets especially during a few experiences when He chose to become a bit 'insistant' and suceeded in giving my gag reflex a bit of a jump start. i don't care to be too graphic in explaining, but .. having a bit of vomit suddenly come up while mid-way into a good deep throat position, is better swallowed than propelled through one's own nostrils, and/or onto him.

I haven't gagged to the point of vomiting, but Master does like it when I gag - He likes the feeling of my throat tightening around Him. I've had to pull away and cough and swallow but then like the proverbial horse I get right back on there :D Funnily enough after the initial gags I'm able to take it easier somehow :confused:
 
I've also found with deepthrating if I swallow when I fel like I'm about to gag it helps make the gaggy feeling go away. Though I've noticed my new tongue piercing gets in the way of deepthroating, I'm going to try a shorter barbell and smaller beads..maybe that will fix it until I get used to it..
 
tealsphynx said:
I had an ex that was so determined that I WAS going to deepthroat him that he didnt care if I vomited. He took me out to the desert frequently to throat fuck me until I vomited because "it will help you get rid of your gag reflex". I think he was just into vomit...

That's a hot post, for some reason. Not that I'm turned on by vomit... but I AM turned on by a guy who'd take me out to the desert (or beach, woods, etc) to throatfuck me over and over until I vomit. :devil:
 
That was great Sinn. I have personal knowledge that cum in the eye is not a good thing and it can really mess up your own orgasm. :rolleyes:
 
I'm not sure if men's opinions are wanted here but here goes...

1. I don't care of the woman vomits, but afterwards she will keep going until I'm satisfied. I greatly enjoy throat rape and sometimes it's just part of the scene.

2. To me the most important factor to good head is motivation. When I find a woman desperately wants to give good head, everything feels better regardless of whether she can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.

3. During head I want to be touched. Well, actually all the time I want to be touched. If we are in the typical (man on back, woman between legs) position, I will force the girl to spread her calves out so I can stroke them with my feet. If we are vertical, I want her holding the backs of my thighs or buns and rubbing me. Yes, I know I'm wierd.

4. I love sound. When a woman moans or better yet makes whining noises like she's sooooo hungry and just has to have my cum, I blast off.

That is all for now.
 
Killishandra said:
That's a hot post, for some reason. Not that I'm turned on by vomit... but I AM turned on by a guy who'd take me out to the desert (or beach, woods, etc) to throatfuck me over and over until I vomit. :devil:
"Eeew that's gross :p " ;) LoL. You're turned on by submitting anyway. :rolleyes: You're cute :kiss:
 
I think Jenna missed the motivation factor but Master Sensei seems to have gotten it. I had one of my guy friends tell me once that he'd rather have a girl that WANTS to be giving him head but isn't very skilled going down on him than the most skilled woman in the world that hates it.
 
Master Sensei said:
2. To me the most important factor to good head is motivation. When I find a woman desperately wants to give good head, everything feels better regardless of whether she can suck a golf ball through a garden hose.
Hear hear. Motivation, focus, attention, intention, self-sacrifice and the "x-factor" that some people were born with and others will never acquire: the ability to sense what feels good for the other person.
 
I have to break rythym to give variety in what I'm doing.

I have to kiss the shaft many times.

It's a bonus if I can get a string of pre-cum from my mouth to his cock when I move my head up.

Luckily none of this is a chore, I love to give head :)
 
What about licking and the postion to be in to give oral?

Licking is a wonderful thing to do.
It shows you actually love his cock and want to be there doing that for him.
To me, its a way of showing you actually like pleasing him, not simply going for a quick finish, then back to other things you would rather do.

Mentally, for me, the position is as important as the act.
If I am kneeling in front of him, with my body erect, I am not as fully 'in the moment' as when I am kneeling & leaning (almost on 'all fours')into his body with my ass in the air.

There is also laying across his lap when on the bed which is a lazy morning way to say 'Hi' and laying on the bed between his legs, focusing my attentions on his balls and thighs as well as his cock.

Deep throat is a difficult thing but laying underneath him helps to get the angle right and miss the gag reflex.

Then there are the additions to those postitions depending on whether he is fucking my mouth or whether he is allowing me free reign to pleasure him.

So the big question is 'How does he want you?' :devil:
 
devils_daughter said:
I have to break rythym to give variety in what I'm doing.

I have to kiss the shaft many times.

It's a bonus if I can get a string of pre-cum from my mouth to his cock when I move my head up.

Luckily none of this is a chore, I love to give head :)


If you love oral then just down the corridor, take a left, then third door on the right is the oral thread.

A place Rosco set up for people like us. :nana:

(Actually in BDSM Talk and usually on page 1 LOL )
 
additional info.

Thought I'd add a helpful hint to help prevent vomitting during "oral". Don't eat or drink anything for at couple of hours before you go down on him. At least if you gag, you won't bring on a tidal wave of unpleasantness.
 
cati said:
Thought I'd add a helpful hint to help prevent vomitting during "oral". Don't eat or drink anything for at couple of hours before you go down on him. At least if you gag, you won't bring on a tidal wave of unpleasantness.
Which leaves the poor slave with the challenge of predicting two hours ahead when her owner wants to use her, or let her use. :rolleyes:
Your advice is good for the more vanilla relationships, as well as for planned meetings / sessions etc. But for the long-term live-in Master/slave relationship it may be of little practical use.
Off course, eating healthily, spreading your daily food intake evenly over at least six daily meals will help a lot, as opposed to stuffing yourself one or two times a day! ;)
 
Bump. :nana:


Not to honk my own horn ....
This is one of my fav :catroar: orite threads ever.


Plus, it's worthy of a bump because some of the newer members who were not here for it, will enjoy and possibly benefit.
 
Only vomited on someone once.. for a while it put me off on giving head.. I liked all those tips except for the spitting one... spitting .. makes me ill.. cant watch it in porn.. cant listen to it.. *shivers*.. just makes me want to scream "EW"..
 
shy slave said:
If you love oral then just down the corridor, take a left, then third door on the right is the oral thread.

A place Rosco set up for people like us. :nana:

(Actually in BDSM Talk and usually on page 1 LOL )
: chuckles :

What a surprise to find Miss Shy posted in this thread.

I'm a tad disturbed to find Wenchie, Miss Blushing & Fu hasn't though.

: concerned :
 
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Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...
Oh I was supposed to comment, wait until I clear my throat please.
 
sinn0cent1 said:
Bump. :nana:


Not to honk my own horn ....
This is one of my fav :catroar: orite threads ever.


Plus, it's worthy of a bump because some of the newer members who were not here for it, will enjoy and possibly benefit.


Thank you for bumping this!! I thought it was a great thread!!! :p
 
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