That’s my man

[SAFblonde]

How do you feel when someone flirts with your man (or woman)? Do you do anything about it?

 

[done_got_old]

How do you feel when someone flirts with your man (or woman)? Do you do anything about it?

It doesn't bother me. After all, he's going home with me.

 

[SAFblonde]

It doesn't bother me. After all, he's going home with me.

Good point.

 

[shelly2inme]

I love it

Hi,

How do I feel when a woman flirts with my husband? I love it. He is very attractive and I can see why they hit on him. I don't ever feel jealous about it.

Shelly

 

[AlwaysFara]

This is the second time you started this topic.
What do you think about it?

Me? I’m jealous online.
In the flesh I have no jealousy issues.

 

[SAFblonde]

This is the second time you started this topic.
What do you think about it?

Me? I’m jealous online.
In the flesh I have no jealousy issues.

It is different in real life vs online. I’m less secure about how serious feelings are online so it has more of an effect on me. Probably not smart.

 

[LostGirlTink]

I don’t share outside our established boundaries.
But I just smile when someone flirts with him. I like that he’s attractive to others.
I’m proud of everything he is and thrilled to be his.
I roll my eyes when someone wants to take it beyond banter.... but I’m never mad about it. I don’t like it... but I don’t get MAD

 

[AlwaysFara]

It is different in real life vs online. I’m less secure about how serious feelings are online so it has more of an effect on me. Probably not smart.

I think you’re pretty normal.
I don’t think it’s not smart. It is for sure a different animal. In life, I can look across the room and know he’s mine. Not so, online.

 

[Shi_One81]

My “do you want to die?” look comes out. It just happens. Lol

 

[SAFblonde]

I think you’re pretty normal.
I don’t think it’s not smart. It is for sure a different animal. In life, I can look across the room and know he’s mine. Not so, online.

What do you when it happens online?

 

[cowslinger64]

How do you feel when someone flirts with your man (or woman)? Do you do anything about it?

My wife and I are both extremely secure in our relationship.... that stuff wouldn't bother me, unless the guy is being a tool. But that hasn't happened yet.

We've never had any jealousy issues. Which is how it should be, IMO.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

DGO said it perfectly..

 

[AlwaysFara]

What do you when it happens online?

I walk away.

I’m too old to play in the pool with others, not my thing.

 

[AlwaysFara]

My wife and I are both extremely secure in our relationship.... that stuff wouldn't bother me, unless the guy is being a tool. But that hasn't happened yet.

We've never had any jealousy issues. Which is how it should be, IMO.

How it should be, for you and your wife, you mean.

Happy for you.

 

[Sexybritches69]

Online, I will feel a twinge if jealousy if someone I’m interested in flirts with someone else but not really if someone else flirts with him. That jealous feeling also helps me to get over that person quickly. Not interested in any drama.

 

[UgliestSon]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vNrHoLS1zc

 

[SassySheDevil]

I've always liked the saying... a real man won't make his woman jealous. He will make other women jealous of his woman.

I hate that I am a jealous person. Im insecure. That's my demon. But when someone takes that insecurity and plays with it, by intentionally trying to make me jealous, then I'm pissed. Im too old fir games.

 

[RustyIron]

Interesting topic, so this is really a thing yeah. (call me dumb, Duh).
I am glad nobody would ever be jealous of anything about me, or at least I don't think anyone would be.

But I would hope if anyone ever did, that they would talk openly to me about their feelings, and not get wild, pissed, cranky pants, or jealous.

I know of only a few people that are together I here on lit, but they are not people I know that very well, but enough to say hi to, on an odd occasion.
Interesting read though.

 

[Jada59]

I like it. Just shows how desirable he is!

 

[johnrael]

My wife says I'm too dumb about women to realize when one is flirting with me.

 

[Jada59]

I am like this. I don’t have a clue when a man is interested in me. He basically has to spell it out in no uncertain terms and even then I’ll likely think he’s playing some kind of practical joke on me.

I am often the same. Sometimes it's so obvious that I do notice but many times I haven't a clue.

 

[flamouria]

Because she's not really into sex and dating and flirting, it's really funny to watch the attempts. When all you see is the EFFORT someone is going through, it's hilarious.

 

[EmpressJosephine]

How do you feel when someone flirts with your man (or woman)? Do you do anything about it?

I like it.

It means the other person wants what I have. I won.