Thank you literotica, an open letter to all members

dirtylilgrl

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I have a confession... I used to be fat. I'm not talking about a couple extra pounds... Im talking about being so out of shape I never got a date before I was 18, and then it wasn't even a date... it was some guy being horny enough to fuck me. I had no confidence and was sad and depressed all the time. I joined literotica and well, THANKS GUYS! I just want to say that reading all the message boards, looking at the response to BBW pics on the picture boards, it was so encouraging, I started feeling more confident, dressing more sexily and basically doing more things (going out with friends, etc). I slowly started losing weight and began feeling amazing. Last year I "fell in love" with this guy. We went out one night and had a fantastic time, the next day we went to this little town and walked around, went shopping and went dancing that night! He was awesome, or so I thought. At this point I was still a little chubby, wearing a size 12. The next day he ignored my calls, i was really worried until i saw him at a pool hall one night, he explained that his friends told him I wasn't good enough. And then he started dating my best friend. Since then I have started swiming and learned to love it, and I can trully say i lost the bad weight. Im not skinny, I've never found that attractive. But my body is healthy and firm and I just glow. I get asked out on a regular basis and am now dating the guy of my dreams. Seriously, he is smart, funny, generous, has a perfect body and a smile that I can't get enough of. Last week my ex best friend and her boyfriend had a fight because he got drunk and made a comment,something along the lines of "I should have stayed with her..." and they broke up. Last night he asked me out. My response? Sorry... I'm too good for you.
I don't think I could have done this without you :) as of course masturbating makes a good workout if done properly a few times a day and with THAT you helped a lot.
So thank you :) You changed my life!
 
Islandman: Don't know if I'm there yet!! Remember, still building up the confidence :) But in a few months? yes!
 
wow.

Wow guys :) Thanks... I honestly didn't expect any replies...it was more of a "YES...I DID IT! kind of moment :) But, once again. Thanks... I am thinking of putting up a before-after thread soon, and you guys are helping a lot! To everyone out there, you are an amazing person, you just need to find the right person to see it.
 
That's it. H*** froze over. He was nice.:D

Congratulations on your acheivement. You should feel good about yourself.

I know I shouldn't be asking this...but why is it so odd that he's nice? Sorry!!! Been away from the site for a while!
 
I have a confession... I used to be fat. I'm not talking about a couple extra pounds... Im talking about being so out of shape I never got a date before I was 18, and then it wasn't even a date... it was some guy being horny enough to fuck me. I had no confidence and was sad and depressed all the time. I joined literotica and well, THANKS GUYS! I just want to say that reading all the message boards, looking at the response to BBW pics on the picture boards, it was so encouraging, I started feeling more confident, dressing more sexily and basically doing more things (going out with friends, etc). I slowly started losing weight and began feeling amazing. Last year I "fell in love" with this guy. We went out one night and had a fantastic time, the next day we went to this little town and walked around, went shopping and went dancing that night! He was awesome, or so I thought. At this point I was still a little chubby, wearing a size 12. The next day he ignored my calls, i was really worried until i saw him at a pool hall one night, he explained that his friends told him I wasn't good enough. And then he started dating my best friend. Since then I have started swiming and learned to love it, and I can trully say i lost the bad weight. Im not skinny, I've never found that attractive. But my body is healthy and firm and I just glow. I get asked out on a regular basis and am now dating the guy of my dreams. Seriously, he is smart, funny, generous, has a perfect body and a smile that I can't get enough of. Last week my ex best friend and her boyfriend had a fight because he got drunk and made a comment,something along the lines of "I should have stayed with her..." and they broke up. Last night he asked me out. My response? Sorry... I'm too good for you.
I don't think I could have done this without you :) as of course masturbating makes a good workout if done properly a few times a day and with THAT you helped a lot.
So thank you :) You changed my life!

You are a dirty little girl. :kiss: Be healthy because you want to do so for yourself and no one else but you. Do not thank the asshats here on the GB. Thank the stories here for helping you masturbate. Do not worry about your ex-best friend (an ex for a reason, right? But best friends are indeed best friends forever.........that is, IF they are truly best friends).

And NO, you are not too good. That is the same mentality your ex-best friend's boyfriend had. You set out to be better than either of those 2. Be yourself and forget about all that. Be you and rise above what you thought you were.
 
You are a dirty little girl. :kiss: Be healthy because you want to do so for yourself and no one else but you. Do not thank the asshats here on the GB. Thank the stories here for helping you masturbate. Do not worry about your ex-best friend (an ex for a reason, right? But best friends are indeed best friends forever.........that is, IF they are truly best friends).

And NO, you are not too good. That is the same mentality your ex-best friend's boyfriend had. You set out to be better than either of those 2. Be yourself and forget about all that. Be you and rise above what you thought you were.



Johnny-Ray, funny how much your name reminds me of Ray William Johnson... weird. Anyway, thanks for the down to earth answer :) And don't worry... I'm still me. It just felt good to reply what he had said to me. I DON'T think I'm too good for anyone, but when the whole thing happened i lost the guy i liked AND my best friend... bad times. I'm just grateful I've grown and moved on, however I AM glad they broke up... i know it's bad to be happy but oh well... I'm only 22, I can be mature next year
 
you go girl

Islandman: Don't know if I'm there yet!! Remember, still building up the confidence :) But in a few months? yes!

Its sad that people look at the outward appearance instead of looking at the inside. Happy you found a great guy. :rose:
 
Its sad that people look at the outward appearance instead of looking at the inside. Happy you found a great guy. :rose:

Your bio says you're looking for a "hot teenager for rp".

It's sad when people show themselves to be hypocrites.
 
I have a confession... I used to be fat. I'm not talking about a couple extra pounds... Im talking about being so out of shape I never got a date before I was 18, and then it wasn't even a date... it was some guy being horny enough to fuck me. I had no confidence and was sad and depressed all the time. I joined literotica and well, THANKS GUYS! I just want to say that reading all the message boards, looking at the response to BBW pics on the picture boards, it was so encouraging, I started feeling more confident, dressing more sexily and basically doing more things (going out with friends, etc). I slowly started losing weight and began feeling amazing. Last year I "fell in love" with this guy. We went out one night and had a fantastic time, the next day we went to this little town and walked around, went shopping and went dancing that night! He was awesome, or so I thought. At this point I was still a little chubby, wearing a size 12. The next day he ignored my calls, i was really worried until i saw him at a pool hall one night, he explained that his friends told him I wasn't good enough. And then he started dating my best friend. Since then I have started swiming and learned to love it, and I can trully say i lost the bad weight. Im not skinny, I've never found that attractive. But my body is healthy and firm and I just glow. I get asked out on a regular basis and am now dating the guy of my dreams. Seriously, he is smart, funny, generous, has a perfect body and a smile that I can't get enough of. Last week my ex best friend and her boyfriend had a fight because he got drunk and made a comment,something along the lines of "I should have stayed with her..." and they broke up. Last night he asked me out. My response? Sorry... I'm too good for you.
I don't think I could have done this without you :) as of course masturbating makes a good workout if done properly a few times a day and with THAT you helped a lot.
So thank you :) You changed my life!

Hey, we do what we can.
 
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