Thank you Lit!

[jen_litgirl]

I tend to be long-winded and wordy but I wanted to post and say thank you. I had shared some fantasies with my husband a couple nights ago and I had the courage to do that because of the thoughtful and encouraging people here on Lit.

I was concerned that if I told him what I would like to do in bed that my husband would feel that I was dissatisfied with our sex life which is absolutely not true. He is an amazing lover but I'm a very curious person and I think that because of our age difference I haven't worked out all of my kinks yet. (He's 41 and I'm 32.)

Like I said, a couple nights ago I told him what I want...that I want to be forcefully taken. I want to have him pull my hair, smack my ass, call me names and use me for his pleasure. He wasn't drawn to the idea like I am. He is a very sensual, generous lover and he teases for a long time because sex with him is all about me. He asked some questions so he knew specifically what I like and what I don't like. I don't like being humiliated and I don't like degrading names during foreplay but when we're in the heat of the moment being called his slut or his whore is really hot. He thought I was crazy but he listened. He said that he didn't think he could do or say those things to me without worrying about it blending into our every day lives together.

So last night I soaked in the tub and then invited him to bed. I was reading a Lit story when he came in. He softly but firmly grabbed my face and kissed me passionately but different than usual. There was force in the kiss that isn't usually there. I had no idea that was just the beginning.

Some of the things he did to me last night;

-smacked my ass while fucking me really hard from behind
-while still fucking me from behind, grabbing a handful of my hair and pulling my head back
-once I had cummed enough times in that position he forced my face into the pillows and whispered into my ear of what else he was going to do to me tonight
-fucking me hard with my legs pulled up high while he talked about tying me up and sharing me with a room full of strange men
-talked about how he would have sex with all the lonely ladies while I was getting used up
-After about 20 orgasms he pulled out of me and told me that he would make me clean up the mess on his cock after fucking a room full of women and then had me actually suck him off until he finished.

I am still in shock! I can't believe he did it! At one point in the beginning I was nervous and worried that because I was having such hard orgasms and so many of them that he would think I really wanted to be doing some of those things. We've been married a long time and I really trust him. I know that he knows how I feel and so I was able to relax and enjoy the release of control. It was a rush to not be in control of my sexual need. He took control and he gave me mind blowing sex! It was amazing!

I'm still not entirely comfortable sharing all these details but after the sex we had last night I felt like a portion of the credit goes to you guys. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and encouraging honesty and speaking up. I never would have been as honest with my husband if it weren't for the posts of some very wonderful people here on Lit.

Thank you!

 

[jackdaw]

I tend to be long-winded and wordy but I wanted to post and say thank you. I had shared some fantasies with my husband a couple nights ago and I had the courage to do tat because of the thoughtful and encouraging people here on Lit. I was concerned that if I told him what I would like to do in bed that my husband would feel that I was dissatisfied with our sex life which is absolutely not true. He is an amazing lover but I'm a very curious person and I think tat because of our age difference I haven't worked out all of my kinks yet. (He's 41 and I'm 32.)

Like I said, a couple nights ago I told him that I want to be forcefully taken. I want to have him pull my hair, smack my ass, call me names and use me for his pleasure. He wasn't drawn to the idea like I am. He is a very sensual, generous lover and he teases for a long time because sex with him is all about me. I love all of that and because he's such a wonderful lover I wanted to explore further. He asked some questions so he knew specifically what I like and what I don't like. I don't like being humiliated and I don't like degrading names during foreplay but when we're in the heat of the moment being called his slut or his whore is really hot. He thought I was crazy but he listened. He said that he didn't think he could do or say those things to me without worrying about it blending into our every day lives together.

So last night I soaked in the tub and then invited him to bed. I was reading a Lit story when he came in. He softly but firmly grabbed my face and kissed me passionately but different than usual. There was some force in the kiss and that was hot. I had no idea that was just the beginning. Some of the things he did to me last night;

-smacked my ass while fucking me really hard from behind
-while still fucking me from behind, grabbing a handful of my hair and pulling my hair back
-once I had cummed enough times in that position he forced my face into the pillows and whispered into my ear of what else he was going to do to me tonight
-fucking me hard with my legs pulled up high while he talked about tying me up and sharing me with a room full of strange men
-talked about how he would have sex with all the lonely ladies while I was getting used up
-After about 20 orgasms he pulled out of me and told me that he would make me clean up the mess on his cock after fucking a room full of women and then had me actually suck him off until he finished.

I am still in shock! I can't believe he did it! At one point in the beginning I was nervous and worried that because I was having such hard orgasms and so many of them that he would think I really wanted to be doing those things. We've been married a long time and I really trust him. I know that he knows how I feel and so I was able to relax and enjoy the release on control. It was a rush to not be in control of my sexual need. I let him take control and he gave me min blowing sex! It was amazing!

I'm still not entirely comfortable sharing all these details but after the sex we had last night I felt like a portion of the credit goes to to you guys. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and encouraging honesty and speaking up. I never would have been as honest with my husband if it weren't for the posts of some very wonderful people here on Lit. Thank you!

I wasn't around to give you encouragement beforehand, but I'd just like to say a big 'well done' for coming back with an appreciative and succesful testimony! Encouragement goes a long way in my book.

(And, don't be ashamed that you are long-winded and wordy. There's nothing wrong with it. It's how you explain yourself and that's fine! I'm the same, btw, so I understand about the need felt to apologise for it)

 

[subwannabe]

Shit. Wish I could have been there. Good for you!

 

[jen_litgirl]

Thanks jackdaw. I'm glad I'm not the only word-aholic around here.

 

[jen_litgirl]

Shit. Wish I could have been there. Good for you!

sub, in a way I felt like everyone was there. I was reminded of all the posts that I've enjoyed and I wanted to scream out, "They were right! It works!"

Instead I just screamed his name over and over.

 

[bailadora]

I'm still not entirely comfortable sharing all these details but after the sex we had last night I felt like a portion of the credit goes to to you guys. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and encouraging honesty and speaking up. I never would have been as honest with my husband if it weren't for the posts of some very wonderful people here on Lit. Thank you!

You share what you feel like sharing and never mind if anyone else thinks the details are skimpy or not. To hell with 'em!

That said - I'm glad you found the courage to open up to your husband and that he was also game enough to go there with you. Sounds like you guys have an amazing relationship.

*tips hat*

 

[Mr.G]

Good for you

I have THANKED LIT many times for the opportunity to post and share my G-Spot info / techniques and have others share theirs and post ideas, techniques and variations of their own.

On top of the wealth of information and sharing this "room" also has the highest % of mature, helpful and highly knowledgeable members who are willing to help, share, compare and all from a NON judgmental position. The other huge plus that LIT enjoys is that in almost all cases there is no clucking NUN watching over what is being posted, deleting and threatening posters because they don't happen to believe what is being posted.

To LIT and all the other great posters ... again .... thanks for making these blogs and threads so informative and helpful.

 

[jen_litgirl]

Thanks bailadora and Mr. G. You are both the posters that I have learned the most from so I'm happy to know that you saw my thanks. It was for you!

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Your husband sounds alot like my man. He does pull my hair and spanks my ass but there are times I really want to be SPANKED! He is so tender he is worried he will hurt me. I tell him i will tell u when its to rough. Like you, he can give me MIND blowing orgasms! We havent been together but nearly 3 months and the sex gets better and better each time. I normally am the dominant one but I feel there are times I want to be controlled. I mean REALLY controlled! You have encouraged me to talk to my man and tell him some things I want from him.

 

[jen_litgirl]

Do it, RedHot! It worked for me.

 

[123Josh]

Thanks for sharing!

 

[arjunindia]

Very happy for you... Couple of days ago my girl wants something very similar... Made her what she wanted to be.... Just one strange thing.... She wanted an early morning session... We both called off work and fucked like chipmunks for 3 hours and then took her out for lunch and also came back and she blowed me while she was still in her summer dress with her tits hanging out right in the living room and she didn't tell but she had no panties all the time we were out

Ron

 

[livin1971]

I tend to be long-winded and wordy but I wanted to post and say thank you. I had shared some fantasies with my husband a couple nights ago and I had the courage to do tat because of the thoughtful and encouraging people here on Lit. I was concerned that if I told him what I would like to do in bed that my husband would feel that I was dissatisfied with our sex life which is absolutely not true. He is an amazing lover but I'm a very curious person and I think tat because of our age difference I haven't worked out all of my kinks yet. (He's 41 and I'm 32.)

Like I said, a couple nights ago I told him that I want to be forcefully taken. I want to have him pull my hair, smack my ass, call me names and use me for his pleasure. He wasn't drawn to the idea like I am. He is a very sensual, generous lover and he teases for a long time because sex with him is all about me. I love all of that and because he's such a wonderful lover I wanted to explore further. He asked some questions so he knew specifically what I like and what I don't like. I don't like being humiliated and I don't like degrading names during foreplay but when we're in the heat of the moment being called his slut or his whore is really hot. He thought I was crazy but he listened. He said that he didn't think he could do or say those things to me without worrying about it blending into our every day lives together.

So last night I soaked in the tub and then invited him to bed. I was reading a Lit story when he came in. He softly but firmly grabbed my face and kissed me passionately but different than usual. There was some force in the kiss and that was hot. I had no idea that was just the beginning. Some of the things he did to me last night;

-smacked my ass while fucking me really hard from behind
-while still fucking me from behind, grabbing a handful of my hair and pulling my hair back
-once I had cummed enough times in that position he forced my face into the pillows and whispered into my ear of what else he was going to do to me tonight
-fucking me hard with my legs pulled up high while he talked about tying me up and sharing me with a room full of strange men
-talked about how he would have sex with all the lonely ladies while I was getting used up
-After about 20 orgasms he pulled out of me and told me that he would make me clean up the mess on his cock after fucking a room full of women and then had me actually suck him off until he finished.

I am still in shock! I can't believe he did it! At one point in the beginning I was nervous and worried that because I was having such hard orgasms and so many of them that he would think I really wanted to be doing those things. We've been married a long time and I really trust him. I know that he knows how I feel and so I was able to relax and enjoy the release on control. It was a rush to not be in control of my sexual need. I let him take control and he gave me min blowing sex! It was amazing!

I'm still not entirely comfortable sharing all these details but after the sex we had last night I felt like a portion of the credit goes to to you guys. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and encouraging honesty and speaking up. I never would have been as honest with my husband if it weren't for the posts of some very wonderful people here on Lit. Thank you!

Amazing glad your dream came true

 

[jen_litgirl]

Amazing glad your dream came true

Thanks livin1971. I was awfully glad myself.

How have you been?

 

[Christopher2012]

First of all, Jen, I wanted to say I'm happy to hear your success story.

But more importantly, this thread reminded me of this scene from Scary Movie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tk0xCSkKeqA

 

[jen_litgirl]

First of all, Jen, I wanted to say I'm happy to hear your success story.

But more importantly, this thread reminded me of this scene from Scary Movie:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tk0xCSkKeqA

Too dirty, Christopher? That was a funny movie clip!

 

[NippleMuncher]

Congrats on your adventure. Here's to many more just like it!

 

[livin1971]

Thanks livin1971. I was awfully glad myself.

How have you been?

I'm glad things went like you wanted them to it really turns me on and makes me happy for you. Things with me could be better. Not going into detail on here but if you want to know PM me I could probably use an outlet to vent

 

[njlauren]

The nice part about fantasies and such is they are okay to talk about and explore and otherwise don't have to be done to be hot necessarily. If you have been married a long time, then he probably knows that your reaction is in sharing the fantasy with him, not in actually wanting to do it.

Kind of reminds me about what is going on with the 50 shades of gray phenomena (and it isn't just media hype, I talk to clerks in adult books stores and boutiques in my area, and they are doing land office business, with couples and especially with women, and they tell me sometimes the husbands show up to say a)thank you for helping my wife and b)what else you got *lol*. Unless hubby is some repressed Catholic type or the typical religious right GOP type, odds are he will be thankful for the added "oomph"; men quite frankly are gonna love the wife suggesting things they have been afraid to suggest (note; with the right wing type I talk about, they will do dirty things, but with lovers or mistresses, not with their spouse, since a spouse is 'sacred' *lol*)

 

[silverwhisper]

that's completely awesome, jen!

ed

 

[Insulated]

I am happy for you!

 

[jen_litgirl]

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate the encouragement and stopping by this thread (although I was surprised to see it get resurrected.)

njlauren - I haven't read the Shades of Gray book and I probably won't. I get all the kink I want from here! So, my interests and curiosity haven't come from that book. I agree that the majority of the time, fantasies are fun as a mental sexual play. Not necessarily something that plays out in real life. Because of that, it doesn't take a full choreographed, scripted fantasy to get to an orgasm. Just a whisper in an ear related to a known fantasy in your lover and I think that an explosive orgasm is inevitable.

I am grateful for any encouragement that comes after this post although I probably won't be coming back. I wasn't looking for anything besides an opportunity to say thanks to all the people who posted things that made me think of things in a way that I never would have otherwise.