Thank Goddess I am not the ONLY one !!!

[SilverVeil]

Well GLORY BE !!!! After all these years of feeling like I am weird, someone else ( a few someone else's even ) says they also do not reach orgasam during penetration.

I have been thinking I was just weird. It seems like it does not matter how hot and horny I am, when the actual act is being done, I have never, ever been able to reach orgasm.

Go down on me .... I cum.
Use a vibe on me .... I cum.
But put a cock in me and I can lay there and do the multiplication tables or make a grocery list till it is over. ( Well, maybe that is extreme but you get the picture )

I am lucky I have a very understanding and sexually secure boyfriend. He does not mind at all helping me out with the vibe, sicking on my nipples, kissing me, talking dirty to me .... he KNOWS he is going to cum, and he is careful to make sure I am also satisfied.

I can have multiple orgasms when we do this. To the point I have made myself ill and dizzy from cumming so rapidly and so hard. My whole body will buck and toss ... I have bit my lip till it bleeds trying not to scream from the intense feelings, and waking up his mother who lives with us.

All these years I felt like a freak. Like there was something wrong with me sexually. Thanks for sharing the fact that there are other women who have dealt with this.

Most men take this confession as a challenge to their sexual prowness .... " Well little filly I'll be the stallion who can make you cum" kind of thinking. After awhile of fucking, and no other stimulation down there .... I get raw and irritable.

 

[Weird Harold]

Well GLORY BE !!!! After all these years of feeling like I am weird, someone else ( a few someone else's even ) says they also do not reach orgasam during penetration.
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Most men take this confession as a challenge to their sexual prowness .... " Well little filly I'll be the stallion who can make you cum" kind of thinking. After awhile of fucking, and no other stimulation down there .... I get raw and irritable.

No, you're not alone. In fact, from what I've read you might be in the majority.

I am surprised that you've found this to be "challenge" to the men in your life. I would expect many men to feel that it let them off the hook.

I do think that you could cum with penetration iif you set your mind to it. First, you need to find a position that stimulates the right places. Then, you need to convince yourself that you are going to cum -- if you don't expect to or don't believe you can, you won't.

However, as long as you've found a man who is willing to get you off in the way that works best for you and are happy with your sex life -- enjoy what you have and hang onto that man.

I've known a couple of women who have never cum at all because they've been conditioned to think sex is a dirty duty required of them to satisfy their husband's animal urges. At l;east you aren't saddled with that hang-up.