Telling people about Lit

[PinkOrchid]

 

[English Lady]

The only person close to me in real life who knows about my frequenting these boards is my husband,and he originally introduced me to the stories her at lit and he is alos known to post her on occassions himself.


I don't tell anyone else because i don't feel i could be as freely sexual here if i knew any of my friends/family were about and could read my posts.

 

[Guest]

I have a few friends like Milo who know I post on here and who I introduced to lit... and I do recommend the site to all of my friends if they have sexual questions or want to read some erotica. I've never told anyone in my family just because... well, if I wanted them to know me on a sexual basis, I would just talk to them, lol.

My boyfriend also knows I'm involved with lit but I've never given him the site address because I talk about him frequently and get advice on our relationship... and he hates the fact that I talk to other people online about anything sexual soo...

Mainly, I'm not shy about telling people I'm on lit but I am careful about who I inform of my participation, lol.

 

[Native Alien]

In all honesty, everyone in the immediate family. All the brothers and the sisters-in-law know about it and several of them post. Yes they know my screen name and me theirs. Leads to some interesting conversations when the bunch of us conference on yahoo.

We are and always have been very open in our family conversations about sex so guess that it only stands to reason. The only ones that I am not sure about is my dad and my stepmother.

 

[DarlingNikki]

The only person who knows is my boyfriend. I don't plan on telling anyone else because it just seems too personal. I never share more than the barest details of a sexual encounter (like an unusual location) with friends, if that, so I wouldn't want them to read whole stories about them. My boyfriend doesn't really come to the forums though, he just reads my stories as they go up.

 

[pixiewitch]

This is mine, all mine!

I haven't shared the fact that I post on Lit. But I have recommended the site to others for the stories.

If I ever told anyone close to me about posting here I would never tell them my Lit ID. This is my place to learn and explore my fantasies! I don't need them knowing all my inner most thoughts on sex. Of course unless it was that mystery man that I've dreamed of that would accept me for all that I am. He at this date has remained elusive!

 

[lovetoread]

Since it is always on my computer screen, I would assume everyone knows.

I have shared Lit with everyone that would listen. I am all for Laurel and Manu to get the free advertising generated by my non stop talk about this joint.

 

[Etoile]

I send Daddy threads from time to time, but I don't think there's any interest there. My girlfriend knows about it but I don't think she's ever seen it.

 

[Noor]

I don't think my family knows about lit but I don't think they would really care one way or another.

One of my brothers could know as I leave the computer up and on lit sometimes when I leave the house and he does come by to drop off stuff for me, usually he leaves it on my computer chair so I will notice it immediately.

Many of my friends know, esp my close ones. Also I found some posts so funny, like tree sex, that I send links to my friends.

A few of my rl freinds are on lit as well.
My private lit life occurrs off the boards, just like my private rl. It is not unusual for me to interact with a lit friend on threads, pms, messenger and email (and in very special cases on the phone as well).

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[shescurious]

Most of my friends know about Lit but they don't have computers so I am relatively safe. I don't give them my screenname anyway but since my av is me it wouldn't be hard for them to figure it out. It doesn't really matter anyway because all of my close friends know most of my opinions about sex.

 

[sheath]

My man knows that I post, and he lurks from time to time. My mother also knows, and while I'm sure she has read over some of my postings, she has rarely commented.

Friends? Hell, they all know I do it. I hide absolutely nothing when it comes to sexuality and my delight in all things decadently kinky.

But of course, given my profession, they expect it from me.

S.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

My lover knows - I had to explain where I got all the new techniques I've learned here and tried on him! (I don't think he'd believe I 'just came up with' that whole cock milking thing!) lol My kids might know if they snoop thru the computer - but they're grown and would just think its icky that their mom talks about sex. I do not have a single girlfriend who would even understand my writing erotica - no less this board!

 

[Bobmi357]

My wife introduced me to Lit. Now I have posted more often than she does. No kids to worry about, and no one beyond my wife and myself know about it. Not because we're trying to hide it, its just that we have an extremely small social circle.

 

[fgarvb1]

I only tell horny, sex fiends who are female.

Although my big mouth wife told one of her sisters.

The look on her face was worth it.

 

[Guest]

My Friends? Hell, they all know I do it. I hide absolutely nothing when it comes to sexuality and my delight in all things decadently kinky.
S.

My sentiments exactly~

 

[Ms_Lilith]

My friends knoiw, and they don't care. A few have checked Lit and my pics out, but they're just fine with me being as kinky as I am.

 

[idoyoganaked]

My SO knows I come to this site bc I've sent him links to a few interesting posts but I don't think he knows I post here. I've been coming to this site forever and finally signed up for an account. I know a few friends who would love this site but now that I can post, I'd rather they didn't come here since they'd know who I was right away. I mean we talk about most of this stuff in person so I'm not really sure why I think this should be private. Maybe just in case later, I want to post about something I can't talk with them about, although I don't know what that will be.

Yeah, I know that's really confusing

 

[idoyoganaked]

My SO knows I come to this site bc I've sent him links to a few interesting posts but I don't think he knows I post here. I've been coming to this site forever and finally signed up for an account. I know a few friends who would love this site but now that I can post, I'd rather they didn't come here since they'd know who I was right away. I mean we talk about most of this stuff in person so I'm not really sure why I think this should be private. Maybe just in case later, I want to post about something I can't talk with them about, although I don't know what that will be.

Yeah, I know that's really confusing

 

[idoyoganaked]

wow, don't know how that happened

sorry

 

[BlueSugar]

I tell people about Lit as a site, and I tell them I post. If they're lurking or joined I have no idea. I'd love for my friends to post bc most of us are open and we talk anyway... but i really let loose here, so mixed feelings for me.
I'd die if my family knew who I was on this thing though, lol.

 

[SuperShyGuy]

I've told my best friend about this place, but no one else. No he doesn't know my screen name, nor do I know his or if he even comes here much. I figure it's probably better that we don't know each other's screen names, but I was happy to share the existance of the site with him.

 

[AttentionWhore]

My non-vanilla friends know about this site, but not neccesarily my user name; it's a hard one to tie to me and the person who gave it to me is no longer in my life. My boyfriend knows but doesn't visit. My non-kinky (and sometimes close minded) friends do not know. My family does not know about this site, at least not from me.

 

[Scirocco]

The only person that knows about Lit is my wife. Everyone else I know is too closed-minded to understand.
I do have a friend that I'm going to recommend this site to though. Just hasn't come up yet...

 

[DuckLover]

The only ones who know I'm on here are the ex- (friendly) with whom I found the site, and who still comes for the stories, and my current gf, who posts. She and I are very open with each other, so have no concerns about seeing what each posts.

Like others have mentioned, I'm very hesitant to mention the site to others because I don't think it'd be too hard for them to identify me once they knew I was here. Since this is a safe place to explore boundaries, fantasies, and even things I don't think I'd ever try, I don't feel comfortable having others in my life perusing my posts.