Telling my wife about my sph and cuckolding kink

[Howardstark1910]

Quick recap: my first wife and I tried cuckolding/hotwifing/permitted cheating after she told me she wasn’t satisfied sexually. She ended up going on a trip and not coming back. She told me about it on her return, but not in the interest of our fantasy, she just said she was leaving. She said they went at it for an entire month and she needed more. Needless to say I was devastated and rock hard while she told me this.

Fast forward through the divorce and recovery. I am newly married with a young, fit wife. I still have a massive cheating fantasy that isn’t going away. Should I try getting her into cuckolding? She is suuuuper submissive and would love it once she started. I am also only 4 inches long and not wide. Am I depriving her of trying more in her 20s than she should have? Very interested in thoughts and stories (hot, true, cheating stories would also be welcome). PM for any not shareable content.

 

[Islander55]

How do you think she would react. Would she be interested in experiencing another lover? The simple solution is to ask her and have a serious conversation. Certainly there are pitfalls if she thinks you do not love her or are not satisfied with her.

 

[Howardstark1910]

How do you think she would react. Would she be interested in experiencing another lover? The simple solution is to ask her and have a serious conversation. Certainly there are pitfalls if she thinks you do not love her or are not satisfied with her.

She is pretty religious, but she really likes sex. She does pretty much anything once she is in the zone. I imagine she would hate the idea, but come around if I was serious. I’m just afraid to start the process in case it ruins what I already have.

 

[Islander55]

She is pretty religious, but she really likes sex. She does pretty much anything once she is in the zone. I imagine she would hate the idea, but come around if I was serious. I’m just afraid to start the process in case it ruins what I already have.

I don't think this is something that she should need to come around to. It needs to be something that she thinks might be fun and not something she is doing to please you.

 

[Howardstark1910]

I don't think this is something that she should need to come around to. It needs to be something that she thinks might be fun and not something she is doing to please you.

She has told me she doesn’t think about sex until she is having it. She is a very polite Christian lady until we start, then she is asking for choking and more. Do you think a hung lover would be the same? How do I introduce her to the idea to see if she likes it?

 

[Justfantasies]

She has told me she doesn’t think about sex until she is having it. She is a very polite Christian lady until we start, then she is asking for choking and more. Do you think a hung lover would be the same? How do I introduce her to the idea to see if she likes it?

The best way I have found is through dance lessons. This is the one area where respectable society sanctions touching a married woman and in public. When my wife and In did it it quickly led to other things for her and for me.

 

[Howardstark1910]

The best way I have found is through dance lessons. This is the one area where respectable society sanctions touching a married woman and in public. When my wife and In did it it quickly led to other things for her and for me.

That is a really good idea. She wouldn’t think twice about it. I think she also has an older man kink, which could even work together. Thank you for the advice. What type of dance?

 

[Justfantasies]

That is a really good idea. She wouldn’t think twice about it. I think she also has an older man kink, which could even work together. Thank you for the advice. What type of dance?

We did ballroom dancing and most of the men who danced with my Cindy were older guys. I loved watching her being touched and I know from her, that they touched her a little inappropriately at times.

 

[J_Bone]

Been with quite a few married women whose husbands wanted them to date/fuck other men. Many of them were like you and started by suggesting a threesome and seeing the response and letting it grow organically from there.

 

[Islander55]

She has told me she doesn’t think about sex until she is having it. She is a very polite Christian lady until we start, then she is asking for choking and more. Do you think a hung lover would be the same? How do I introduce her to the idea to see if she likes it?

I don't imagine being hung would be a big incentive to start. Find some activity where she can get to know some other men and see if there is any interest. I think dancing would be a good choice as some have said here. I am partial to men that like hiking but any activity that would allow her to get to know some others. Perhaps some volunteer activity that lets her help a man. Once you fire up the helping instinct, you are getting close to the sexual instinct. If she is religious, perhaps bible study or a religious activity.

 

[magicalmoments]

Every woman I have met who was reluctantly convinced by her husband to have other lovers, and who started out against her better judgement with real fears it would break the marriage, has never regretted it and wondered why they resisted the idea for so long.
I guess there must be some who tried it and their worst fears were realised, but i've never met any in that category.

 

[nutoseen]

get a penis sleeve and some some dongs. she will feel what other sizes are like as you fuck her and you will feel she is fucking something bigger and better.

 

[NikiVien]

The best way would be to just tell her, but if you don't think it will go down well, tell her about a 'friend' that you bumped into - and how he had recently found out that his wife had been cheating on him.

It nearly led to divorce until he realised that he didn't mind, and actually really liked the idea.

She now has two lovers, and your friend and wife are blissfully happy!

 

[screwher]

She is pretty religious, but she really likes sex. She does pretty much anything once she is in the zone. I imagine she would hate the idea, but come around if I was serious. I’m just afraid to start the process in case it ruins what I already have.

The fact that she’s religious is your first and probably insurmountable obstacle. Having sex with a man not her husband will be infidelity regardless of your blessing. Then there’s the idea that you’re wanting this so you can have Sex with other women. You’ll have to convince her you just want to share her.