Tell Tale Signs

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So how do people know when you've had a recent orgasm? I'm not talking about the obvious signs that your lover would notice - I'm talking about being fully clothed several minutes after the event.

Are you obvious?

If so, how would people know?


Me? My lips are scarlet for the next hour or so - not just slightly flushed, but scarlet to the point where it catches people's eyes and makes them wonder if I've been experimenting with some new lipstick. I'm also a lot quieter than usual, and my appetite goes through the roof.
 
I have to say that I don't know. Certainly no-one's ever remarked on anything. Maybe I'm the orgasming equivalent of a stealth bomber?

The Earl
 
A really good one and I'm disconnected from the planet and a tad vague for more than an hour later.
 
Me, or other people I've observed?

scheherazade_79 said:
So how do people know when you've had a recent orgasm? I'm not talking about the obvious signs that your lover would notice - I'm talking about being fully clothed several minutes after the event.

Are you obvious?

If so, how would people know?


Me? My lips are scarlet for the next hour or so - not just slightly flushed, but scarlet to the point where it catches people's eyes and makes them wonder if I've been experimenting with some new lipstick. I'm also a lot quieter than usual, and my appetite goes through the roof.

My partner says I go to sleep! But seriously, I personally am more lethargic; I probably breathe more deeply for a while. I'm almost certainly more laid back, less sharp. Differences in appearance? Can't say - I don't look in the mirror!

Other people I've observed, slightly flushed - for quite a long time; muscles of the face less taut, leading to a softer looking face; eyes noticeably bright, pupils perhaps slightly dilated. On some women I've known, the flush extends to the breasts and remains for some time. Generally, I'd say, post-orgasmic people look more relaxed and healthier than they normally do.
 
well...i can be rather vocal so sometimes afterwards, my voice is husky...erm oh and theres bed head and the stupid smile.

lucky can't just orgasm and get right up, shed faint. so for her, its like having woken up from a wicked deep dream. shes all flush and zoned.
 
vella_ms said:
lucky can't just orgasm and get right up, shed faint. so for her, its like having woken up from a wicked deep dream. shes all flush and zoned.
yup. thats me.

i'm totally outtofit for like um. a whille.

i'm totally flushed. theres no way i can hide it. and being outta breath kinda gives it away :eek: :D

and i'm totally clumsy afterwards. i knock things over and drop things :cool:
 
femininity said:
and i'm totally clumsy afterwards. i knock things over and drop things :cool:

put me down for that reaction. :cool:

(I tend to be a little clumsy anyway, but it's much worse afterwards)
 
femininity said:
i'm totally outtofit for like um. a whille.

and i'm totally clumsy afterwards. i knock things over and drop things :cool:

Definately clumsy.

Or i get really sleepy. I could fall right off into a deep sleep.

My ex's lips used to go like Zade said her's do.
 
Quite often I feel sleepy afterwards. Definitely pleasantly zonked out.
 
Relaxed, body moving in slow motion, a soft facial expression with smiling eyes.

If it's one of several (or very powerful) add trembling limbs to the mix.

But the smiling eyes are still there.

:rose:
 
sweetsubsarahh said:
If it's one of several (or very powerful) add trembling limbs to the mix.

I get those muscle quivers in my thighs if it's been a good, strong one. To the point where I doubt I could walk for ten minutes, or so.
 
My feet and hands tend to go numb, but no one can see that...

I'm very clumsy afterwards, I walk into things and knock things over. I smile for a good 10-15 minutes; just this stupid grin I can't wipe from my face. I'm severely hungry afterwards, so I'm usually making food while finding other food I can devour while I'm waiting for the other food and I'm always so giddily happy someone has to know what's up. I'll lay in bed with that stupid grin on my face and just laugh and get really hyper, but that's only if it has been a really good orgasm.
 
My eyes give it away completely. They're clear, and intense blue . . Sleepy-dreamy, with dilated pupils.

I wear as little as possible, as after orgasm, my skin is exceptionally sensitive to any type of material.

I silently cry often, during a very intense orgasm - and don't stop for a while . . .
 
I've been told my eyes get bluer - from a brown/hazel start, this is probably noticable. Fortunately it doesn't seem to last for long, so it's only him who sees it.
 
Nirvanadragones said:
My eyes give it away completely. They're clear, and intense blue . . Sleepy-dreamy, with dilated pupils.

I wear as little as possible, as after orgasm, my skin is exceptionally sensitive to any type of material.

I silently cry often, during a very intense orgasm - and don't stop for a while . . .

God, that's sexy. I must definitely model one of my heroines on that!
 
so is there any truth to the old tale that the woman looks livelier and the man more inclined to sleep?
 
Pure said:
so is there any truth to the old tale that the woman looks livelier and the man more inclined to sleep?
I do not know....laughing....my lover and I would both fall asleep after some delicious cuddling. I am red for a while afterwards.......and I get hungry. :rolleyes:
Wait a minute, I get hungry for everything..never mind that one. :rose:
 
Pure said:
so is there any truth to the old tale that the woman looks livelier and the man more inclined to sleep?

Not if she's properly fucked.

Ahem.

;)


(Edited to add - though I did have a college roommate who swore she was always ready to jump up and bake cookies. Not me.)
 
Pure said:
so is there any truth to the old tale that the woman looks livelier and the man more inclined to sleep?

I don't know, but I after I come, I have an overwhelming urge for someone to get up and make me a sandwich. Sometimes we even play "If you were going to get up and make me a sandwich, what kind of sandwich would it be?" and we lie there and invent sandwiches. And then we have sex again. :D
 
carsonshepherd said:
I don't know, but I after I come, I have an overwhelming urge for someone to get up and make me a sandwich. Sometimes we even play "If you were going to get up and make me a sandwich, what kind of sandwich would it be?" and we lie there and invent sandwiches. And then we have sex again. :D
:confused: Why don't you make the sandwiches ahead of time?

I know, I know. I'm too literal and in no-wise romantic :rolleyes:
 
Pure said:
so is there any truth to the old tale that the woman looks livelier and the man more inclined to sleep?
Not if my situation is any indication. I'm far more likely to go to sleep than he is.
 
The only sign I know of is that I'm flushed. And it's not an even pinkness either. It's patches on my face, neck, and chest. I've actually got a picture of it somewhere.
 
HisLady said:
I've been told my eyes get bluer - from a brown/hazel start, this is probably noticable. Fortunately it doesn't seem to last for long, so it's only him who sees it.

And a beautiful sight it is too.

The Earl
 
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