Tell Me What You Like About Sexually Aggressive Women!

[juicylips]

Do they turn you on when they come on to you?

Or do you like to make that first move?

Cassidy

 

[Astro]

They'd turn me on. Women making the first move is great.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I"m shy, can't make the first move.

but Don't know if I like agressive women.... none have ever came on to me (or if the did I missed it)

Actualy I think i'd not have a problem with that... and yes would probly turn me on a bit.

 

[juicylips]

I"m shy, can't make the first move.

but Don't know if I like agressive women.... none have ever came on to me (or if the did I missed it)

If she really was aggressive, I doubt you could have missed it.

Do you notice when women hit on you here on Lit??

Cassidy

 

[TonyG]

Do they turn you on when they come on to you?

Not sure, let's experiment.

 

[Ragingbull]

I love aggressive women. I particularly like the mating game with aggressive women - the teasing, the toying , the pushing back - just letting it all hang out. The sex is even better, each of us trying to one up the other. Can get really wild!!

 

[Cloak38]

I like it

It's nice when a woman makes the first move sometimes...

I've been hit on a time or two, but I wasn't attracted to them in that way. Made it awkward as I didn't want to flatly reject them. Been there, felt that.

 

[perks]

I love aggressive women. I particularly like the mating game with aggressive women - the teasing, the toying , the pushing back - just letting it all hang out. The sex is even better, each of us trying to one up the other. Can get really wild!!

ragingbulge speaks my language....puRRRRRRRR

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Do they turn you on when they come on to you?

I like a woman who lets me know that she is being more than just polite and nice, that she is interested in me and likes me.

At the same time, I am looking for a relationship, and as tempting as it is to have casual sex, I have been burned before (3rd degree) by casual sex and I want to know that she wants more than sex, so someone who comes right out of the gate signalling that she wants sex only, may scare me off a bit.

It is not that she scares me, as much as I don't trust myself; I want to get to know her a bit first before getting involved with her, and if offered sex right off the bat I wouldn't trust myself to resist for very long and that would cause me to retreat.

If OTOH, I knew her well enough to be comfortable about sex with her, and to get involved with her, then a woman be agressive sexually is a welcome relief from me having to constantly play the seducer, risking rejection when she isn't in the mood, or it is too soon, etc.

Of course, that is all different from playful flirting which Lit has really helped me be comfortable with. I am now a lot more comfortable talking with women about sexual matters, as long as I know they are also comfortable about it too - just ask Cath!, we were talking in public over dinner about sex as if we were talking about what kind of wine or food we liked (but I doubt I would be that comfortable with a non-Lit person unless I knew them very well).

I very much hate mind games and very much like people who are upfront and honest, so having a woman be sexually agressive with me is fine as long as we are compatible.

 

[DarkMaster]

I love a woman who takes it from me. A woman who throws me down and mounts me and fucks me and then tosses me aside..so nice a change once in a while..

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

If she really was aggressive, I doubt you could have missed it.

Do you notice when women hit on you here on Lit??

Cassidy

If it's blut yes (though I don't think anyone has done this seriously)
if it's suttle I sometimes confuse it for something else.

 

[Ragingbull]

Come to me perky baby... if you dare! OOOOOowwwwww...

 

[perks]

Come to me perky baby... if you dare! OOOOOowwwwww...

OH sugah, I dare....I even double dog dare.....just not today....gotta go

perks

 

[Ragingbull]

I can't wait. Down boy... down

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

I love sexually agressive women. Almost nothing turns me on more than a wanton display of desire towards me.

Of course, for me to follow through the feeling has to be mutual.

 

[tonytuna1957]

juicylips

did I miss something????????

 

[BlondGirl]

I am one of those sexually assertive women. But...I learned a long time ago that it is truly a rare man who does not feel threatened by that. Of the few very serious relationships I have been in, my sexual expressiveness was not welcome after the first few times in bed together. In each case, I was made to feel ashamed for being such a stupid slut.

Sad, isn't it. The one who is supposed to love and accept you as you are is the one you have to pretend the most with. (I know, not very happily-ever-after-ish, but it is the reality that I know all too well.)

 

[Duckman PD]

Do they turn you on when they come on to you?

Does a high ranking religious figure evacuate his bowels in a wooded area?

Or do you like to make that first move?

Duckman. Duckman with a D. In fact PHD. Loveology. Perhaps you'd care to stay after class while I grade on your curves?

 

[patient1]

sexually agressive women

What's not to like?

Still, I have to trust & care about somebody before I have sex with them.

Being approached by a woman makes me feel 10 feet tall. I'd want to take her shopping for shoes or something. Each one earns a permanent pedastel in my memory.

 

[Cornfed]

I need to learn how to awaken the sexual beast that lies dormant in every woman's soul waiting to transform her into a lusting creature of unbridled passion. Pulling at me. Tugging at me. Yelling "TAKE ME CORNFED MAKE ME YOUR LOVE SLAVE!!!"

 

[Guest]

hey BlondGirl They must have been jackasses. I would love to fined a girl Who is like that. I do not like to start it all the time.

 

[VanB]

BlondGirl - I doubt most men would differentiate between sexually assertive and sexually aggressive - it all comes to the same thing where the male ego is concerned!

But - - - the best relationship I ever had is the one I'm in now with a sexually assertive woman and the best thing is that I know exactly what she wants and if I don't do it right I know how to correct it. it's fantastic and I learn something new about her sexuality every day (even after a couple of years together)

All for sexually aggressive/assertive women - more should be like that cos it helps big time!

 

[lavender]

 

[crystalhunting]

I adore aggresive and articulate women,they turn me on like no passive woman ever could.







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[miles]

Tell Me What You Like About Sexually Aggressive Women

What's not to like?