Tell me honestly...

[Kitte]

I have been told I am pretty, I have been told I am sexy....

I have neither a perfect body, nor do I have conventional good looks.... but it has got me thinking.... if you had to choose someone based on appearances only....would you choose someone who had an attractive face but a body that could be in better shape....or someone with a hot bod and so so looks?

 

[BlazeofLife]

Both, as far as I'm concerned the face is part of the body.
Generally, I go for the entire package, I won't go out with a total hottie who's brainless, but neither will I go out with (by my standard) someone who's unattractive with a brilliant mind.
If I'm not attracvted to them at all levels, it just doesn't happen.

Blaze

 

[Narcosis]

lmao@there are always paper bags

 

[Bluesboy2]

Heres my choice

I would be happiest with someone that I cxan love and bond with emotionally. If that happens then looks are a small part of the equasion

 

[Tantanah]

It's the person inside that I come to love and care about.

However I do notice the eyes and the smile first before I notice the body.

 

[Velius]

Personally, I would rather have someone with a pretty face and "could be better" body. However, depending on the person I wouldn't mind different things either.

 

[Orwell84]

Hi Kitte. Are we talking about a deep, maeningful long term relationship, or some other manner of relationship? For some it might affect the answers you get.

 

[Diablogrl]

I am fortunate that I have a man with both a great body, a great face...but most importantly a great heart. I'm not going to lie and say that face or body doesn't matter. In choosing one, I'd prefer a great body...I've always found flawed looks to be more attractive than "cover-model" type faces. In the end, for it to go farther than just a couple nights of fun though, he's got to have substance and heart.

 

[Siren]

 

[MagicMan]

If you love the person you will love the body,the face and everything about that person.

If you love only sex you will love the body and maybe the face.

If you are desperate you will love anything and everything.

As for me the person is so much more important than the looks.

What it comes down to is sexual satisfaction or real love

 

[J.B.]

It would be a bit hypocritical of me to look for only beauty when I want them to see past that with me.

 

[cutie pie]

If I'm looking for a "long-term" relationship, looks and body type are really irrelevant. I'd rather have someone who can get into my mind and stimulate me intellectually. Obviously, there has to be some sort of physical attraction, but I have found that generally comes from how he uses his body, not what it looks like.

 

[bknight2602]

I think it is much better to look at the person, not the wrapping that contains the person. Looks are ok but it how the other feels about you, cares about you and loves you.

 

[Guest]

On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I'd like a chick with good-looking face.

On Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, I'd like a chick with a killer bod.

On Sunday, I'd like Caly.

 

[SkyBluAngelEyes]

I was talking with another Lit member about this not that long ago. Well, close to this.

I chose "D", number 4 or the last choice--whatever you want to call it.

The person inside is the one you fall in love with. you might fall in love with someone who has fantastic looks, or someone who has a fantastic body, but it's the person inside who defines them.

This doesn't mean that I don't look at him physically. I look at his eyes and then his smile. If he has "kind" eyes and a sincere smile, he's got me hooked.

 

[calypso_21]

On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I'd like a chick with good-looking face.

On Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, I'd like a chick with a killer bod.

On Sunday, I'd like Caly.

Why on Sunday? That's the day of rest.

 

[teddybear4play]

It's all about the face to me. It has to look nice, and it has to have emotion, where you can just look at someone's face and know they're intelligent and passionate.

TB4p

 

[70/30]

Gotta have it all or no attention from me. Maybe the people that hate on me are lucky cuz only a couple people exist in my world.

 

[Allexus_TN]

Generally the person has to stimulate my mind, make me think, and make me feel beautiful. To be able to make my heart skip beats because of words you say to me can create some degree of selective "blindness."

 

[Cheyenne]

Gotta have it all or no attention from me. Maybe the people that hate on me are lucky cuz only a couple people exist in my world.

Do you have an English translation for that post?

 

[Cheyenne]

I chose option 4, also, as it is true. Also, I can't expect a partner to have what I don't have myself. That eliminates the first 3 options from my voting.

 

[Guest]

Why on Sunday? That's the day of rest.

Very Christian of you. Someday we'll come to an understanding. Ishi Allah.

 

[BgMma]

If you love the person you will love the body,the face and everything about that person.

If you love only sex you will love the body and maybe the face.

If you are desperate you will love anything and everything.

As for me the person is so much more important than the looks.

What it comes down to is sexual satisfaction or real love

I have to agree. I have a guy who isn't brilliant, he isn't built like Arnie, and we have great sex. He loves me, though I have no idea why and we have been together for ten years. Looks like Rusell Crowe, though. Sweet.

 

[lovetoread]

If I love you,you are beautiful.

The outside doesnt matter. Looks fade, memory goes, but what is inside will always be there.

 

[SINthysist]

28 ugly people have voted vs 11 honest ugly people at this time...