Teddy Bear Guys

[Discreet61NEOH]

Looking for ladies that appreciate 'Teddy Bear Guys'. What are they ? Well I would define them as the opposite of the 'hard bodies'. They have some extra pounds, maybe a bit soft and squishable, May or may not have facial hair ( or hair at all ). They are warm, gentle, and up to cuddling at a moments notice. When you are with them you feel safe and secure. While not 'macho' they are every bit the man. If you are a lady who does say so. If you are a guy who is one stand up proudly !

 

[jmarx20102012]

I feel more like a monkey or a chimp. I have never met many gals that were fans of either. My kids actually like bears. Build A Bear I think they are called. Those things can get expensive.

 

[DarkLisa]

I am a big fan of Teddy Bear Guys. I have a fair amount of experience with them, and bears of all kinds, and can vouch that they are indeed quite special. Safe and secure in their arms, yes, but boy can they knock your socks off with their well-practiced super-attentive lovemaking. There's nothing quite like feeling safe from others while you're WITH him, but knowing you are in danger of so much more FROM him. Mmmmm.

Lovin', huggin', and squeezin'. Bear fan for sure....

 

[NHBear]

It's Tough Being a Bear.....

I am "softer" than your hard bodies out there...older, with a beard, and definitely not porn star material...but....

I am very attentive to the sounds, movements, and needs of the one I am with, making sure she is safe.....and satisfied.

Listening...feeling...responding.

I can be gentle....or let my inner passions consume us both....

When I make love to a woman it is about her....us.......my pleasure arising from hers.

Teddy Bear? Maybe not....but I can be cuddly, safe, and fun to hold while you sleep.

And an animal when we make love.

NHBear

 

[ohhhsosoft]

The male form is wondrous in all its shapes and sizes. And while a hardbody is pretty to look at, I prefer some softness to snuggle with.

Vive le Bear!

 

[lordskane]

Looking for ladies that appreciate 'Teddy Bear Guys'. What are they ? Well I would define them as the opposite of the 'hard bodies'. They have some extra pounds, maybe a bit soft and squishable, May or may not have facial hair ( or hair at all ). They are warm, gentle, and up to cuddling at a moments notice. When you are with them you feel safe and secure. While not 'macho' they are every bit the man. If you are a lady who does say so. If you are a guy who is one stand up proudly !

THANK YOU! Finally somebody describing them self and they aren't trying to sound like some kind of Greek God because lets just be honest here the only religious figure i resemble is Buddha.

 

[aijyalatrins]

<Hand raised>

Looking for ladies that appreciate 'Teddy Bear Guys'. What are they ? Well I would define them as the opposite of the 'hard bodies'. They have some extra pounds, maybe a bit soft and squishable, May or may not have facial hair ( or hair at all ). They are warm, gentle, and up to cuddling at a moments notice. When you are with them you feel safe and secure. While not 'macho' they are every bit the man. If you are a lady who does say so. If you are a guy who is one stand up proudly !

I have multiple, multiple female friends who refer to me as a teddy bear. It is a compliment, and I have learned to accept it as who I am. But really, it is disturbing because I do not believe that I am valued for anything sexual. I am very hetero, though I have always valued the company of women over men. Crossing the sexual barrier seems akin to an airplane breaking the sound barrier. I can't reconcile the fact that I am simultaneously loved and rejected all at the same time. I want to be thankful for what I have, but I fear sometimes that it is what I do not need.... anyway, enough about me, what about you?

 

[ohhhsosoft]

I have multiple, multiple female friends who refer to me as a teddy bear. It is a compliment, and I have learned to accept it as who I am. But really, it is disturbing because I do not believe that I am valued for anything sexual. I am very hetero, though I have always valued the company of women over men. Crossing the sexual barrier seems akin to an airplane breaking the sound barrier. I can't reconcile the fact that I am simultaneously loved and rejected all at the same time. I want to be thankful for what I have, but I fear sometimes that it is what I do not need.... anyway, enough about me, what about you?

aj, I suspect that the issue isn't your body, but your attitude. Let your Bear-ness, as opposed to the teddy-ness, out! Bears are sexy and sexual. But if you think of yourself, and allow others to continually treat you like an asexual comfort object, well, that barrier will continue to stand between you and what you want.

 

[aijyalatrins]

ohhhsosoft ty for feedback, i am new to literotica and decided to check it out after overhearing some colleagues speak of it. what a great way to be able to talk about some of the things in life that arent always fit for public consumption. take care....

 

[PaulieJay]

aw dag I guess this isnt the thread for me

 

[Discreet61NEOH]

THANK YOU! Finally somebody describing them self and they aren't trying to sound like some kind of Greek God because lets just be honest here the only religious figure i resemble is Buddha.

Here Here! I believe in 'truth in advertising' and the truth IS that VERY few men OR women are anywhere even CLOSE to the Greek god/goddess model. Sadly in some cases. that is what many of the opposite sex desire but for most of us we just have to be who we can be. Does that mean we cannot strive to improve our self's ? NO not at all. However we all have out limitations and have
to work within them while we are improving. I will leave with an old saying:

If you don't drink,don't smoke, don't carry on, eat right, and exercise regularly, you are going to die ! (well eventually ) POST ON ALL!

 

[BlackbirdGirl]

Teddy bear guys?
Sign me in! I love a big, soft man to cuddle with.
Those of you out there feel free to message me

 

[MissBonita2012]

I love my bear!!!!!!!!!!!

I am fortunate to share my life with a big bear of a man, he is an amazingly, caring, and affectionate man. I love to snugggle with him, there is nowhere I would rather be than wrapped in his thick arms. While a hard body may be entertaining, the softness that covers my bear's strength makes him the person I preferr to spend my days, and espcially my nights, with. I don't hear many women mention it, but I also love it when he rests on top of me after we have made love- he may be a big man, but it feels so wonderful to be under him.

 

[kittykatx]

i love men that are big and cuddly long hair and facial hair even better definately the type off guy im attracted to ....the taller the better too though im a lil shorty ...just makes you feel safe and protected and cherished having a big bear like that as yours....know any single ones?

 

[MrEd63]

I'm very much the Bear sort of Guy - big, cuddly & hairy. My GF says it's just like being at home when we cuddle and so much more fun than a hot water bottle.

 

[DarkLisa]

I am fortunate to share my life with a big bear of a man, he is an amazingly, caring, and affectionate man. I love to snugggle with him, there is nowhere I would rather be than wrapped in his thick arms. While a hard body may be entertaining, the softness that covers my bear's strength makes him the person I preferr to spend my days, and espcially my nights, with. I don't hear many women mention it, but I also love it when he rests on top of me after we have made love- he may be a big man, but it feels so wonderful to be under him.

I feel exactly the same. Your bear sounds a lot like mine. We're the lucky ones.

 

[Lord_Nibiru]

I know any single ones?

Yep, me - perennially it seems.

Nevermind though like