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KillerMuffin

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Thanks for reminding me of this Isis :)

I also have some difficulty with general euphamisms for various body parts. Most of them are okay, they are either cute, funny, horny, sexy, dirty, naughty, adorable, whatever. One word, though, sets my teeth on edge. Primarily because I cannot, for the life of me, figure out where it came from.

Member.

Thats it. Nothing more. The first time I came across this particular euphamistically used term, I had no idea what the author was talking about. Harlequin Romance #42, I was like, 12. Sex was two sentences, something about she took his member and they had fun all night. It took me a while to figure out what was going on.

I also noticed the way it was used in stories on the site. The authorsuse it when referring to the cock in parts of the story where sex is not occurring. They then use cock or dick or prick or weenie or something when he's playing hide the salami.

Why on earth would a man refer to his penis as a member? Do you require it to join the club of your body? Does it pay dues? The initiation boggles the mind.

I find myself uncomfortable with the word, for some odd reason, and I was merely wondering why some authors use it. I don't use it myself, nor does it turn me off of stories where authors do use it. It just makes me uncomfortable. Why member?
 
KillerMuffin said:
One word, though, sets my teeth on edge. Primarily because I cannot, for the life of me, figure out where it came from.

Member.

Also commonly seen as "male Member."

I don't know where that usage comes from, but I suspect it has it's roots in Victorian times or even further back. Back as far as the roots of the word "Dismember" meaning to separate the various parts of the human body.
 
Killer & Harold.

Member is common pros here.
The Concise Oxford Eng. Dict. quotes, amoung others,
"a constituent portion of a complex structure"
"any part or organ of the body"
"penis"

Tomorrow I'll take a look in the slang dict. see if that sheds any light.

Victorian literature has many others, eg priapus which is from the Greek, I believe.

"John Thomas" achieved fame in Lady Chatterley's Lover

Hope that's helpful.
 
Getting past the censors

Maybe "member" is used to refer to cock in stories where one needs to be less explicit and has been carried over into erotic writing because of habit.

I can't think of a female counter part. Well maybe if a writer says "He/she played with her love button" instead of saying "He/she swirled his tongue around her aroused clit." might qualify some what.

Yes member is so G rated that I never use it expept in passion.

"Oh yeah suck my member, honey!" is so sexy (NOT)!

Duh ANice (and now experieced per my literotica sub tittle) Guy
 
More on Members

KM & WH, I popped into the library this morning and looked in the Dict. of Slang.
It appears that member comes from 1840's (Victorian times as WH said) and refers to 'the member for cockshire'. The member being a ref to 'Member of Parliament': cock - I'm sure that you know all about those: a shire is an area of land.

Hope that is helpful.

You could also use Willy or Willie, winkle, dangly bit (or bits for the full set), tail, plonker (cockney so probably not a lot of use for an international porn site)

More as I think of them, or is it "enough already".
 
Thanks for thaking the time to research this.

It is nice to know the exact etemology of the way words are used. I only knew it was an old term that had the feels of Victorian prudishness about it. I'm glad I guessed right. <G>
 
Oxford etemolgy

In my copy of The Oxford Dictionary of the English Language the article lists the first usage in refernce to a cock as occuring in 1530. The refence is to segments that have a "diferent tincture from the body". A refernce to the color change that a cock gets as it reachs full engorgement.

[Edited by Samuari on 10-12-2000 at 01:15 AM]
 
Killer Just for you I included a

Killer, I'm not making fun of you or anything but after reading your thread I seem to keep cuming acrost the word member in story after story. So I put it in one of mine just so I can at least say I have done it. hehehe

"Okay but before we go I want a fuck right here in on the lawn. Don’t worry silly no one will see us." Kimberly said reading his mind as she knelt in front of him. She began undoing his pants while looking up at him in her innocent look. They were right in front of an outside security light used to dimly light that side of the house but the house next door hid them from every one else and somehow Johnny knew no one was home next door. As his member popped out Kimberly slid her mouth onto it keeping her eyes locked on Johnny’s. As her lips slowly moved further and further down his shaft he felt her sucking and not sucking faster and faster like no girl had ever done. She was using the feed back from reading his mind to maximize his pleasure. As he began to cum she slid his pulsing shaft from her mouth and held him so she got a facial cum shower, Cum was in her hair and all over her face and running out of the corners of her mouth. Some cum was running down between her "hardly hidden by the low cut blouse" tits.

Just being a NICE Guy.
 
Killer Just for you I included a

Killer, I'm not making fun of you or anything but after reading your thread I seem to keep cuming acrost the word member in story after story. So I put it in one of mine just so I can at least say I have done it. hehehe

"Okay but before we go I want a fuck right here in on the lawn. Don’t worry silly no one will see us." Kimberly said reading his mind as she knelt in front of him. She began undoing his pants while looking up at him in her innocent look. They were right in front of an outside security light used to dimly light that side of the house but the house next door hid them from every one else and somehow Johnny knew no one was home next door. As his member popped out Kimberly slid her mouth onto it keeping her eyes locked on Johnny’s. As her lips slowly moved further and further down his shaft he felt her sucking and not sucking faster and faster like no girl had ever done. She was using the feed back from reading his mind to maximize his pleasure. As he began to cum she slid his pulsing shaft from her mouth and held him so she got a facial cum shower, Cum was in her hair and all over her face and running out of the corners of her mouth. Some cum was running down between her "hardly hidden by the low cut blouse" tits.

Just being a NICE Guy.
 
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