Me too Tom. I've tried this with my husband all the time only I never catch him at it, dam. I know he does it and so do I. I also think about letting him catch me masturbating some day then tease him telling him how I'm fantasizing about a guy named "Tom", oooO yeah.
I have a question...
How could a man be teased by a woman to masterbate if she is secretly watching him? I mean wouldn't she have to be there with him to tease him to masterbate?
If she was secretly watching, adn she started teasing him, then she wouldn't be secretly watching anymore, would she?
I am sorry, maybe I don't understand it exactly, please explain.
poohlive-----If you dont't understand,then I'm
afraid I can't help you.I suggest that you read the reply by
the previous woman.She seems to understand perfectly. Tom
Hey Tom. Laurel is the gorgeous, sexy, intelligent, funny, and fantastic woman who runs this fine site. Everybody loves her, because she is the greatest.
Keep it up Tom, I hate staring at a blank piece of cyberpaper wondering what the hell I'm gonna put on it. Everyone once in a while some of us need help. Its also nice to know what people want.
Yes, keep it up Tom. Have you found our story. As for me, I went to the theater recently with hubby in shorts and t shirt, no bra our panties. No we didn't do it in the theater or anything, but I flirted with him all night. When we got home I could tell he wanted me, but I pretended to be to tired. I was disappointed he didn't persue me very hard, but thought maybe this was my chance. Unfortunately I fell asleep, only to be awakened by him fondling my breast and rubbing his member against my back side, leaking all over me. Well, he was so desperately hot and it didn't take long to coax me either. You can imagine what we ended up doing.
ps. He doesn't know I come in to this site, but I get kind of turned on writing this?
Suebi,
How long have you been married?I have been married
for 35yrs.My wife has seen me masturbate many times.
She never minded because she knows that my sex drive
is much higher than hers and she figured that if I
was doing that,I wouldn't be cheating.She also knows
that I'm addicted to the feeling.She knows that I've
done it,in the car,shopping mall parking lots,rest
rooms at work,etc.I guess you could say I'm oversexed.
Irish(nickname)
Suebi---I haven't been caught(as such)but I have
been teased&watched by female coworkers(3)and
female members(4) of couples that we did activities
with.I assume they enjoyed it because that way
they didn't have to actively cheat on their
current mate.I have always talked fairly openly
about sex with members of the oppisite sex.They
like watching because I have a fairly wide penis
and really enjoy the feeling.
Pardon me for not even signing off properly
after the last thread.I was rushing so that my
wife wouldn't see my reply.She considers masturbation
a very secret act and would be horribly mad if she
even knew that someone of the oppisite sex even saw
my penis,much less saw me masturbate.Five of the women
that i referred to before wouldn't even admit that
they masturbated,much less do it in front of me.
I attribute that to the change in generations. Irish
PS.It was OK if they asked me if they had teased
me into it,though.
Ok, so this is getting to be a habit, but hey it turns me on. Maybe I'm selfish but I wouldn't want other women to see my guys member or watch him masturbate either. Yet I would enjoy looking at other males, then tease hubby about how I might like to fondle them alittle as well, or have them watch me pleasure myself with my own fingers. I've never been caught, or knowingly revealed myself to another guy. Truthfully I never even tried masturbating until about ten years ago. Have you watched your wife doing anything like this?
I can only answer for my husband, but most men, so I have heard, get very excited watching a women masturbate. I think it is a universal fantasy to catch a woman unawares while she is pleasing herself.
We masturbate individually and together, from time to time, and really enjoy watching each other. I told my husband that one day he might catch me masturbating when I didn't know he was there. It happened, unplanned, the best kind!
I had just taken a shower, my husband wasn't due home for an hour or so, but I couldn't wait and was very hot. I sat on the edge of the tub, facing the partly closed door, thighs spread, and rubbed my clit in little circles while I cupped my breast and thumbed my hard nipple.
I had a fantastic climax, eyes closed, making little erotic noises, and when I opened my eyes, there stood my husband watching me, with the biggest grin on his face. I could see the hard line of his erection in his pants.
He let me recover, kissed me passionately, carried me to the bed and we had a wonderful round of really fantastic sex. It really got his libido in high gear.
Unplanned, but I may try it again some day, watching for him to come home, running to the bathroom and setting the scene. If I don't tell him, how will he know? * Giggle*
Wow, thanks Tawny. Not only a turn on for me to read but I'm so envious. I had a simular experiance a few years ago except I wasn't seen.
My husband was out of town for a few days and I was alone in the house getting ready to take a nice hot bath. Thinking about him coming home, I sat in the tub and was feeling pretty aroused. While the water was filling, I scooted down with my legs opened beneath the faucet. The full stream of water pulsing against my clit as I played with my nipples gave me a great orgasim. You have to try it!
Any how, when my husband came home the next night I told him about my experience as we got ready for bed. He said he would loved to of seen me as was very turned on. He kept asking what I was thinking of while I was doing it. (I think he thought I was fantasizing about some guy) I told him nothing, I just liked how good it felt, but I did want to get fucked.
Tawny&suebi---As women do you fantasize when
masturbating?My wife says she never fantasizes
when masturbating and I find that almost impossible
to believe.One thing that never left my mind is
;many years ago;when I was laying in our bed playing
with myself;not secretly;when my wife was in the
kitchen;taking care of our kids;when they lived home;
and she walked by the bedroom door and saw what I
was doing.She came in and tickeled my stomach;she
knows that is something that turns me on;and asked
me to finnish while she watched.To this day,I still
fantasize about that;when I solitarily masturbate;
and that was about 18yrs.ago.I often find myself
fantasizing about things we did;while parking;in our
single days and were afraid we would be caught.There
was alot of mutual masturbation in those days.My
wife is away for the next week so I will get alot
of practice. Irish
Suebi---I awnsered your reply about someone
seeing your husbands member but for some reason
they started a new column with it.It's still
there.I found out that you can no longer delete
your own messages.You ought to join Literotica.
My wife is still mad that I used my name,instead
of just my nickname of Irish.---Irish
Tom, (Irish) I'm sorry your wifes made for using your name. I assume she knows then you're writing at this site. Does she get jealous? Would like to hear more about how you please her or her you or her her etc. Well I only have a few minutes to write this. In answer to one of your questions, I don't usually have fantasies during masturbation either. I do fantasize before, or if I have an erotic encounter. Since I've started checking out this site and some of the sponsors, of course, I touch myself while reading, and always after. I'm not much with computers yet, I just started trying the internet, not sure what you mean about joining. I'll try to write tomorrow, have thoughts to share, but hubby is about to catch me if I don't sign off.
suebi---My wife knows that I write on this site
but has never seen any of the threads.She would
be mad that I even discussed anything like this.
She saw the story idea that I had written and
thats it.My wife is sort of the way things sound
between your husband and you.I'm sure she would
be jealous that I talked about anything sexual.
We have allways been able to talk about or do
anything in front of each other but I think she
would feel that this was an invasion of privacy,
especially with someone of the opposite sex.Thats
what makes it intriguing to me,though.You talk
about being new to computors.I still type with
one finger! Irish
Irish, I find this intiguing as well, sharing intimate words that should be private. Perhaps my husband would find it erotic, but I'd rather keep this for myself. For me, the most important part of foreplay is intmate conversations. At times, he can be a wonderful lover, but often is too passive in his approach when I know what he wants. I hope this doesn't sound to weird but I'd like to write it any how. I grew up in a very open family with sexuality. My parents had no inhabitions about walking around naked in front of me. I wasn't a virgin when I met my husband and he knew of my previous boy friends. None of them, including my hubby, was as well as endowed as daddy. You mentioning how you have a wide penis made me think of this. There was one boy, who was very large, who tried to have sex with me but I guess I was to uptight. We tried for several minutes but it was painful and he couldn't get it in. Since then, I prefer average built like my hubby, but wouldn't mind seeing another guy play with his wide one. Of course this is just a fantasy, having never been with another guy. Hope my hubby never sees this.
Suebi--The reason that I am wide is probably
because of the way that I masturbated when I
was very young.I was brought up in a strict
Catholic house.I was tought to believe that spilling
your seed was wrong so at time of ejaculation (at
least once a day,if not more)I would squeeze my
penis.Stupid,youthfull thinking!That probably worked
like isometric exercise.I'm lucky that I didn't
damage myself.According to others,it had good results.
I'm lucky!Even in my 50s(I'm 56)I still have to
have;at least;one climax a day.I'm probably lucky
there also.I can't imagine life without that feeling.
I used to drink and I couldn't imagine not drinking.
It's been over 8yrs.&3mo.since I quit. Irish
suebi--Just a few short notes while I'm home alone
and can write.I think it was Tawny T that wrote that
she thought it was all mens fantasy to secretly watch
a woman pleasing herself.The women that I have trustfully
known,have told me that it is also a womans fantasy to
secretly watch a man pleasing himself.They just don't
openly admit it.Lets face it,a man;&I assume a woman;
will have different facial expressions,motions,etc.when
they think they are alone!I don't want to sound wierd but
you said your father had a large member.Did you ever see
him with an erection?The reason that I ask,is there is
a big difference in men,depending on the person.When we
were teenagers,my cousin was very large flacid.He wasn't
much bigger when erect.My buddy was just the opposite.He
was very small when flaccid but immense when erect.All
men are different. Irish
Pardon me for being out of contact for awhile.
I have a new carrier(rather than AOL)and I am
still trying to figure this out.I'm sure it's
simple once you get the hang of it.I hope I
didn't scare people off by saying that I'm 56.
I'm not a dirty old man(dirty maybe)I have had
to show people;at work;my drivers license because
they don't believe my age.I'm 5'10",weigh 225,
(not fat)and work out every day to keep in shape.
Example:I have an 181/2" neck.I don't want to
sound like I'm blowing my own horn(pun intended)
so I'll sign off.My wife is a few mo.older than
I,has fairly small breasts but I am a downstairs
man.She is in very good shape. Irish