teaching a blowjob

[abumdwi3a2452i8]

How can i teach this girl i am seeing how to give a good blow job?

 

[SweetErika]

Guide her toward and tell her what you want/like and give her plenty of specific direction, feedback and praise. For example:
~ I love it when you lick on the underside of the head like that.
~ Circling with your tongue feels amazing; could you try alternating that with sucking?
~ Oh yeah, about an inch to the left/right/up/down... that's so perfect!
~ X is fantastic; I also absolutely love Y and Z.
~ I heard/read gently licking and sucking the balls can be mindblowing; is that something you'd be willing to try?
~ You're doing a wonderful job, honey, and while I know some men really enjoy roughness and teeth, I think more gentle, sensual oral does it for me because I get ultrasensitive when I'm as turned on as I am right now.

How would you like to be taught if you were really new to oral and/or didn't know how to please your partner? Do those things with your partner's feelings in mind, and you should be fine.

Also make sure you know if she wants you to tell her when you're close to coming. Many women are hesitant about giving oral or really getting into it because they're afraid they'll be surprised, gag/vomit, or they're just really not into having semen hit their mouth/throat. If she's one of them, I'm sure you don't want a simple lack of warning to come between you and a great blowjob.

 

[KarennaC]

Just don't do what the guy who tried to teach me to give blowjobs did.

Him: It's easy. Just put it in your mouth and suck it like a popsicle.
Me: But I don't suck popsicles, I bite them.

Seriously, as usual, Erika's given you excellent advice.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=189227&highlight=cocksucking
a link from Queersetti's post.
I thank Queersetti every time i get my bf to cum through oral - if it werent for his tips, i wouldnt have had a clue what to do.

 

[infinity706]

Well, you could always get one of those rubber cocks from a sex shop. That way, you could demonstrate exactly what you want. It might even end up being an opportunity to get her a nice toy.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

Well, you could always get one of those rubber cocks from a sex shop. That way, you could demonstrate exactly what you want. It might even end up being an opportunity to get her a nice toy.

*giggle*

 

[infinity706]

Well, that's how I teach blowjobs. (well, that or ideally I'd prefer to invite a guy over and blow the hell out of him ) I think most guys would be more comfortable with a rubber dick than a real one, though.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

probably lol but still, imagining my boyfriend blowing a rubber cock lol just makes me laugh because me and a guy i dated a long time ago had an inside joke going. "I blow you if you blow me" type of a deal. man i cant stop laughing right now lol but anyway - i bought him a strap on one year for christmas lol i wonder if he still has it?

 

[Bandit58]

The man who first taught me how to give a blowjob was very patient. When we started he just let me play around a bit and get used to having my jaw stretched He told me what he liked and I did my best to try and get it right - and I was so proud when I made him cum in my mouth (and yes he did warn me but I wanted to have the whole experience that first time).

As long as you are patient, can communicate to her what you like, and encourage her to experiment and play a little (gee it's got to be fun for her as well!), you should be ok

 

[Kinkybytch]

Well lets just say i earned my title i give some "super head" lol practice practice practice.....

 

[bb13me32]

I think it is all want! A girl who really wants it and enjoys it and really gets into it will knock your socks off.

 

[Kinkybytch]

I think it is all want! A girl who really wants it and enjoys it and really gets into it will knock your socks off.

Well not to brag but i have made eyes roll back and men clench the bed sheets moaning and praising the good lord

 

[bb13me32]

I bet You see you want it. You like. The power over him and taking deep between your lips. As he moans and screams your name and loses control. You are one of the amazing ones. So few of you around. mmmmmmmmmm The thought!

 

[Kinkybytch]

I bet You see you want it. You like. The power over him and taking deep between your lips. As he moans and screams your name and loses control. You are one of the amazing ones. So few of you around. mmmmmmmmmm The thought!

I have also over the years perfected the technique of what is called "deepthroating" mind you my husband is a good 9 inches

 

[bb13me32]

I have said it before you are amazing! Love it sexy! I bet you could make a guys toes curl 9in deep throat...Damn! Have fun sexy!

 

[linus4550]

Is she not good because she doesn't enjoy giving head?
Or is she not good because she honestly doesn't know how?

If she doesn't enjoy giving head..I think it's hard to teach someone how to do it.

 

[ZoeBird]

Send her a link to a how-to video like this one:

http://www.spike.com/video/superb-blowjobs/2857589

 

[abumdwi3a2452i8]

i like that last video.