Teacher Came Out To Me !

[Samuelx]

have this Psychology teacher named Chris G. He's a really cool guy. A tall, handsome, regular guy in his thirties. A semester ago, he was always talking about his wife. I saw her. A good-looking blonde woman who looks like she's anabolically enhanced, lol. Today, he shocked me when I saw a small Gay Pride symbol near his desk. I had gone to his office during office hours to talk about my grades. I looked at the Pride symbol and Chris simply nodded and said :"Yes, I am."

I had no idea. I just said : " I still think you're the coolest teacher ever, sir. This changes nothing."


Chris smiled and wished me good luck with my studies. I went back to my classes. I was smiling all the way. Chris is handsome, smart and cool. Of course he's gotta be gay. All the good ones and the most interesting ones are always gay or bi. I mean, look at me !!!


Think I should have told him I was bisexual ?

 

[MissBri]

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I had a gay teacher, but he never came out and said that he was gay. It was an open secret, which was confirmed when I saw him walk into a yogurt shop with his beau, another teacher.

Btw, he was one of the best teachers that I had.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I also had a co-worker that I am sure was a lesbian, but I never said anything about it to her. It was her choice. She didn't want to come out, so that's that. She was also a Jehovah's Witness, so she was probably in denial.

 

[Samuelx]

I also had a co-worker that I am sure was a lesbian, but I never said anything about it to her. It was her choice. She didn't want to come out, so that's that. She was also a Jehovah's Witness, so she was probably in denial.

Damn, that sucks ! My teacher is seriously hot, though. If I wasn't already with a guy, I'd have thought about going after him.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Damn, that sucks ! My teacher is seriously hot, though. If I wasn't already with a guy, I'd have thought about going after him.

Thought your beau was cool with you fooling around?

By the way, what's like as a bi man with a male SO? I'm curious. My SO is a female slave. I wouldn't trade her in for anyone. We're also swingers. But I am curious, because of the hypothetical issue of whether or not I'd take a man as a primary partner. I think that I would take a man, or a tranny, for that matter, but that would depend on my feelings for him. I don't think that I would rule anyone out on the basis of gender.

As for my friend, well, she was cool. We just avoided most topics (politics, for instance, since JWs don't vote or hold office). Mostly, we talked about a mutual interest: horses.

 

[Samuelx]

Thought your beau was cool with you fooling around?

By the way, what's like as a bi man with a male SO? I'm curious. My SO is a female slave. I wouldn't trade her in for anyone. We're also swingers. But I am curious, because of the hypothetical issue of whether or not I'd take a man as a primary partner. I think that I would take a man, or a tranny, for that matter, but that would depend on my feelings for him. I don't think that I would rule anyone out on the basis of gender.

As for my friend, well, she was cool. We just avoided most topics (politics, for instance, since JWs don't vote or hold office). Mostly, we talked about a mutual interest: horses.

Foster, my current guy is not cool with my fooling around. He's a popular college basketball player, and women flock to him, which makes me cringe sometimes but I hold my tongue. Both he and I used to have girlfriends. My last girlfriend knew that I was bi and she was cool with it. We split over differences ( her family did not like the fact that she, an Irish girl, was dating me, a black man). I'm not very well-known around campus. I'm with the Student Paper, that's about it. I'm also a member of the Men's Education Support Association, a group founded to help men succeed in college, since there aren't too many male students in college anymore.


Okay, back to the relationship. Foster and I are both bi. When we started going out, he told me that he liked me but still liked women. I haven't been with a girl since I split with my ex-girlfriend. Foster, however,
recently told me that he did get a BJ from a female fan of his once while he was traveling with the team. That angered me a great deal. We almost split over it but we resolved the issue and remained together. I am faithful to him. We always use condoms.


In a man-to-man relationship, there are arguments and issues, just like there are issues and arguments in a heterosexual or lesbian pairing.
We're all human. Foster gets on my nerves sometimes. Watching him flirt with women also gets on my nerves. He recently told me that he wished we could have an open relationship. Foster is about 90 % into women and only 10 % into men, in my opinion. I don't know where I stand. Probably 60/40 in my preference of men and women. I do check women out more often but I talk and relate to men more often these days.
It's easier that way. I hope things work out between me and him. I love the guy.

 

[MissBri]

 

[Samuelx]

To jack the thread for a moment - Samuel, I remember the thread where you met your boy and I'm happy to hear you're still making it work.

Thanks, MJ. One can only try.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Foster, my current guy is not cool with my fooling around. He's a popular college basketball player, and women flock to him, which makes me cringe sometimes but I hold my tongue. Both he and I used to have girlfriends. My last girlfriend knew that I was bi and she was cool with it. We split over differences ( her family did not like the fact that she, an Irish girl, was dating me, a black man). I'm not very well-known around campus. I'm with the Student Paper, that's about it. I'm also a member of the Men's Education Support Association, a group founded to help men succeed in college, since there aren't too many male students in college anymore.


Okay, back to the relationship. Foster and I are both bi. When we started going out, he told me that he liked me but still liked women. I haven't been with a girl since I split with my ex-girlfriend. Foster, however,
recently told me that he did get a BJ from a female fan of his once while he was traveling with the team. That angered me a great deal. We almost split over it but we resolved the issue and remained together. I am faithful to him. We always use condoms.


In a man-to-man relationship, there are arguments and issues, just like there are issues and arguments in a heterosexual or lesbian pairing.
We're all human. Foster gets on my nerves sometimes. Watching him flirt with women also gets on my nerves. He recently told me that he wished we could have an open relationship. Foster is about 90 % into women and only 10 % into men, in my opinion. I don't know where I stand. Probably 60/40 in my preference of men and women. I do check women out more often but I talk and relate to men more often these days.
It's easier that way. I hope things work out between me and him. I love the guy.

Ah, I see. Well, if he wished you could be in one, what's the hold-up? Does he want to have one rule for him and one for you? Aside from that, it sounds like you have a pretty good relationship. Sounds like you might want to talk about that.

 

[Samuelx]

Ah, I see. Well, if he wished you could be in one, what's the hold-up? Does he want to have one rule for him and one for you? Aside from that, it sounds like you have a pretty good relationship. Sounds like you might want to talk about that.

Uh, okay. How shall I put this ? I don't like to share !

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Uh, okay. How shall I put this ? I don't like to share !

Ah, okay. That explains it. Well, if that's the case, then you're probably best off being monogamous. No sense in a double standard for anyone.

 

[Samuelx]

Ah, okay. That explains it. Well, if that's the case, then you're probably best off being monogamous. No sense in a double standard for anyone.

Glad you see things my way !