Tampa, FL: How hard is it to find a Lover?

[TheCyberPoet]

Maybe there's something inherently wrong with this picture, but if there is, I can't find it:

Intelligent, more than reasonably attractive younger couple (see our Picture Thread, judge for yourself) seeks submissive female for regular, repetative play and [mis]adventures in Tampa Bay, preferably in the USF area... LTR triad more than just possible for the right single female Perfer someone with an interest in the BDSM realms and with a taste for a fulfilling alternative lifestyle.


=-= The CyberPoet & Tori

 

[TheCyberPoet]

She is very bi... He's quite straight...
She is usually submissive... He's always in control...
She is playful... He's good at getting in your head in the most perverse ways...
Come and let your lust revolve about our axis...

 

[TheCyberPoet]

http://www.cyberpoet.net/literotica-pics/030324-1579.jpg

 

[lizthewizz2000]

Three Cheers

...for the couple that makes Florida hot and the gators to masturbate the frogs!

*kiss on the lips to CP and kiss on both sets of lips for Tori*

*winks*

Liz
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lizthewizz2000

 

[lassarina]

Maybe there's something inherently wrong with this picture, but if there is, I can't find it:

Intelligent, more than reasonably intelligent younger couple (see our Picture Thread, judge for yourself) seeks female or similar couple for regular, repetative play and [mis]adventures in Tampa Bay, preferably in the USF area...


=-= The CyberPoet & Tori

Gee i knew that i should have moved to Florida when i had the chance!

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Of course you should have... But fate is often a cruel mistress to those who permit it to steer them to a destiny without their own hands at the rudder.

=-= Tori & The CyberPoet

 

[Ally_boy]

Temptation

to give oneself is the sweetest of trusts, two seekers can find it hard to marry their own inner feelings with anothers.

Its not all pain, its more about the mind, loving trust and both parties giving the gifts they each have to offer. Tempting offers may not initially offer temptation. Emotional games can have long lasting consequences.

I myself would like to explore my sub side, perhaps i may have to keep it held within my mind, or written down to please hopefully others. Fetishism runs through a river with many branches, perhaps that is why the word explore is used extensivelly in correspondence.

 

[Guest]

hmmmmm looking at you picture thread again (i know i cant get enough of it) and found this one and i must say i look foward to when tori gets some time off and i do to <wink wink>

 

[Bill in Cincy]

Wow!

Checked out your pic thread and I CANNOT understand the lack of responses ... very sexy woman ...

GOD I wish I were female!

Close enough that I'm a man who's a lesbian at heart?

 

[CherryPop22]

W.O.W
you 2 are both such a prize i wonder why nobody has baged you 2 up. Or have they and you just failed to tell us?

edited because of my sp

 

[Sins666]

I agree with CP why is it in Tampa, FL so hard to find some loving?? Why cant all you wonderful people who post on her come to Tampa.*sniffels*


emotions are just like all other living things: Survival of the fittest.

 

[TheCyberPoet]

W.O.W
you 2 are both such a prize i wonder why nobody has baged you 2 up. Or have they and you just failed to tell us?

Nope, we haven't been holding back. So far it's been a flop, sometimes because of distance, sometimes because of other personal circumstances on their part (like not actually being 18 yet), etc. Still patiently hopeful.

Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet & Tori

 

[CherryPop22]

I do wish the both of you luck. I am still searching for the right person to be with. I am very new to this lifestyle and don't know what to look for in a master or mistress yet.

 

[IamDJSpyke]

Wow. Tori, you are beautifull!

I'm a single male, who is strictly straight. So I guess I can't help you out. Wish I could!! Damn do I wish I could! I'm from Florida too. Not enough people on here from Florida.

 

[TheCyberPoet]

I do wish the both of you luck. I am still searching for the right person to be with. I am very new to this lifestyle and don't know what to look for in a master or mistress yet.

As you are a neophyte, I would recommend that you read (everything you can get your hands on), ask questions of other subs (& Dom/mes when feasible), and seriously consider a Dom/me who specializes in neophytes. Unlike ourselves, many experienced Doms & Dommes do not want someone who is uninitiated, someone who is new the lifestyle choices and just 'learning the ropes' because of the learning curve and the large amount of effort required (as well as the risk that the sub will not be willing to meet their expectations). Personally, I find that working with a true neophyte is one of the most fulfilling aspects, to help someone discover within themselves that which is desired but lies dormant. It does require a different mindset (on the Dom/me's part), and substantially more effort, but I feel that this can be a very rewarding journey.

Specifically, I would suggest you visit blowfish.com and obtain some of the books that they offer for beginners, sign onto IRC (#BDSM) and talk with others about what to expect and what to be expect to have to give in return, and give yourself time to figure out what it would take for you to be both happy and comfortable. Also scour the web for informational sites about the lifestyle. The biggest mistake most neophytes make (in my experience) is finding a Dom/me who will use them but whom, it turns out, the neophyte can not respect (or trust, or both) on a personal level. That trust and respect is necessary for your own safety and as a protective barrier to permit you to grow and experience the lifestyle. And as a beginner, remember the golden rules:
1. Never without a safe word that you can readily remember;
2. Never without the knowledge & trust that the safeword will truly stop the situation;
3. Never permit yourself to be placed into a situation that you have no control over at all as a neophyte.

Unfortunately, there are predators & psychopaths out there who mascarade as Dom/mes and who will not concern themselves with your well being or experiences beyond their own desires. As a neophyte, you are not prepared for certain aspects of the lifestyle either (E.g. - you are probably not ready to be a Gorean Slave), but reading and researching will help you be aware of what is out there. You can find some very good information (and some unfortunately true horror tales) about predators in the lifestyle in various places, including here at Literotica:
Litrotica Thread: The Online Predator
darkrose.com: Abuse vs BDSM
(the list goes on and on... I'll leave it to you to find more).

Good Luck!
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[CherryPop22]

Thanks for you help. I am reading all i can get my hands on right now. I have talked to a few DOMS but none seem to want to help a new SUB so hopefully i wll indone soon. I wish u luck on looking forthe right girl

 

[CherryPop22]

came across this today and was wondering how you 2 are doing?

 

[TheCyberPoet]

We're doing well in general, as is to be expected, although Our quest continues to find Ms. Right...

How is your seach coming along?

Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[CherryPop22]

well i think i might have found the one. he is online though and things in both of our lives are keeping us apart. i never knew i could find someone in a yahoo chat lol

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Funny thing about life, love and romantic kink -- you can find it anywhere, if you just keep your mind open

Like right here...

Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[CherryPop22]

i feel bad though you haven't found the right girl you helped me along when i was this shy little subbie thing

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Haven't been searching very hard... figured you'd come find Me/Us when you were ready...

Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[CherryPop22]

me? i tried remmber? you guys just didn't seem interested

 

[TheCyberPoet]

I'm waiting for you to be of legal age...

Cheers
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[CherryPop22]

i don't know where you got that i am not