Tall Subs?

[CarrotandStick]

My reasonably submissive girlfriend is 6'4". I am somewhere between 5'9" and 5'10" depending on what time of day you measure me.

She likes me to be strong and dominant not in a purely physique-related way. Her last boyfriend was almost a dead ringer for Taylor Lautner (Jacob from the Twilight movies) except he's bigger and broader. I'm mostly of Polish descent so I'm pale and not exactly built like the brick shithouse.

How do I stay feeling Dominant? I work out and do martial arts. This keeps me fit. When she riles me up I'm more than strong enough to overpower her, something she loves. She also loves it when I'm organised and in charge. Having me at the wheel of life and firmly in control makes her feel safe and nurtured and loved.

I'm sorry? She's taller than me affects this how?

She also likes kissing me in public when guys are checking her out and watching their eyes bug out of their heads. She does this because she thinks I deserve more credit than I get on first glance, which is just about the most delightfully submissive behavior I could wish for.

I love that woman.

 

[eastern sun]

She also likes kissing me in public when guys are checking her out and watching their eyes bug out of their heads. She does this because she thinks I deserve more credit than I get on first glance, which is just about the most delightfully submissive behavior I could wish for.

In heels, I'm significantly taller than my husband. When we're out, we get a lot of looks, and I love being "arm candy" and kissing him in those situations. It always makes me feel submissive in moments when I also feel like I could suddenly switch and assert my dominance.

 

[redheadedtxn]

wow....isn't it funny what other's perceptions are? I thought I was the only one with the "Omg, she's so tall, that red hair, spank me baby!" thing goin' on.

I don't have it in me to Domme anyone.

Master is about 5'7, I'm 5'10. As another poster said, really doesn't matter when I'm on my knees....

Even when we're walking together, he WALKS TALL, with a confidence I can't even explain. I walk just behind him. I feel 100% his sub.

 

[vegetablelamb]

Aww, this coming together of the tall gals warms my amazonesque little heart.

I've towered over guys all through grade school, and relished the time after when guys actually reached my height or taller - I'm 5'9", which I've been told is both "way tall" and "oh, not that bad." With heels I'm assured to beat out most males I'm around. Guys who can work the mojo and have me go all small-and-delicate-feeling are like a wave of liquid sunshine.

 

[MasterandSir]

Shorter Dom Weighing in

I'm arguably short as men go but I find I rather like a fun woman who is taller than me. As a Dom it keeps their tits and ass at a lovely height to do with whatever I please, It is also far more visually satisfying to watch a woman taller than you drop to her knees in front of you.

 

[Marquis]

Where are all those tall subs coming from?!

I think height is one of those things you have to accept gracefully. People are naturally in awe of those taller than themselves. You can accept that awe and be your most beautiful self by not letting it intimidate you, or you can slouch and hunch a lot and be "that weird tall girl."

I would think the fantasy of dominating a tall woman is almost universal for men. It certainly is for me.

I might put a cap at about 5'10" though (I'm 6'2").

Actually, I did meet a model type once that was at least 6'3" and she was maybe the most beautiful thing I had ever laid eyes upon. Intimidating though, definitely.

Luckily for her she's probably dating a more confident guy than me.

 

[subish2009]

Where are all those tall subs coming from?!

I think height is one of those things you have to accept gracefully. People are naturally in awe of those taller than themselves. You can accept that awe and be your most beautiful self by not letting it intimidate you, or you can slouch and hunch a lot and be "that weird tall girl."

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This. Absolutely. That's the key. Like any other look, you gotta own it. And like any other body shape, you gotta dress well to complement your shape. I will admit to a lifelong conviction that I, more than petite girls, have to watch my weight. A chubby short girl is cute. A chubby tall girl looks like a linebacker.

But as long as I stay slender, I like the long lines. I admit, I'm vain. So this is important to me. Also important to me: My husband LOVES my height. He says he loves knowing he can throw me around like a rag doll, but also doesn't feel like he's gonna break me.

I will also say that now that I'm in my 30s, the random comments I get from guys in bars that used to consist of "Jesus, you're tall!" in a not altogether complimentary tone, now tend to range more from "Wow, you have killer legs" to "Damn, girl, you're tall! Hot" in a very appreciative tone. Apparently, men in their 30s also have more confidence than they did in their 20s. Just like women. Go figure.

 

[SweetCherry]

I'm 5'11. She's 5'6. She says it doesn't matter because she only counts my height from the knees up.

She's also fond of me in heels. It puts her right at mouth-to-nipple height with me, whigh she adores, too.

Really, it all balances out. Sure, there are people who're intimidated by me because I'm tall. Bur I figure if someone is intimidated by me because of how tall I am, then they're not the right person for me. They're also not strong enough to handle me if they can't deal with it. *shrugs*

 

[AlyBeth]

I think height is one of those things you have to accept gracefully. People are naturally in awe of those taller than themselves. You can accept that awe and be your most beautiful self by not letting it intimidate you, or you can slouch and hunch a lot and be "that weird tall girl."

I completely agree with this I'm 5'10", and really have no problem with it. It's taken me a long time, but I'm finally accepting it and loving every minute of it. I still feel sexy and attractive and feminine, despite being a few inches above average. And, I wear killer heels! Anywhere between 2 and 6 inches! I love the looks I get from men who's eyes end up level with my shoulder, it makes me feel so sexy. Although, when I'm with a boyfriend/master, I prefer to be in flats. Personal preference, I guess!

And I also agree with someone who commented earlier; "It doesnt matter how tall you are when you're on your knees "

 

[princesssuzanne]

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[Braschi]

Funny how different cultures are. I grew up in a place where tall women were considered attractive. In fact, when describing their ideal mate, most men started with "tall, big boobs..." So, I guess I'm not a sympathetic of girls who complain about being tall.

On the other hand, I don't especially like taller than me. I don't feel uncomfortable, but things don't seem to line up as well, when she's taller or significantly shorter than me. And I'm one of the probably very rare men who don't actually find heels all that attractive. So, 5,10 to 6'.... hehe, I have a narrow height taste

 

[ammre]

I just like to think that as a person who is 5'10" if I wind up in a service based relationship, I'll be able to reach things on the top shelf for my partner.

I consider it useful instead of a hinderance.

 

[sarel101]

Maybe I'm biased since I find taller women more atractive to begin with. That being said, tall submissive women make the domination even more empowering. Dominatng a little pixie type doesn't take as much imagination or effort at times. Being able to stare a tall women in the eyes knowing that you will be controling someone that is closer to you in physical strength is just hot.

 

[ColeTrain]

The other thing about tall

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[sebastianbmt]

I'm a 5'6" male dom and I've had the opposite problem. I've always found the idea of dominating a taller woman to be very sexy, but most taller woman I've met seem to want even taller men. I've been with a few taller women, but it's rare.

As for the men, I'd guess men who only want to dominate shorter women is they probably aren't secure enough, but that may be unfair. I will admit to a preference to kissing down, verses up, but that's just one small part of a relationship.

Anyway short, secure, dominate men are out there... Just keep looking and don't give up.

 

[fettpett1]

man, where were all you tall red heds when I was single? I'm 6'4 and love red's. I love my wife, but it's a pain in the ass sometimes to get to her level and she's 5'6