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talking hubby into anal

i know how hard it can be to convince someone to try that! but i managed by renting a few vids and watching it when he wasnt looking... the sounds got him interested and made him come over to see what i was watching. when he sat down, i told him that i always wanted to try it. he wasnt too open at first, but at least he listened. get him listening to you first, and try small steps, dont push it on him. thats the most important, dont push him! lol. good luck with that, and dont give up, its definently worth it!
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You may also have the "fragile female" problem to overcome. He treats you so gently and kindly that anything which might seem rough is unconscionable to him -- hurt the one he love in any way?

Maybe telling him about the idea of "neat pain" can help. When you're turned on and the endorphins are flowing, things that normally hurt (e.g. nipple squeezing) can register as nice stimulation, not pain.

If he can accept that concept, then maybe he will be willing to get a little rough with you (throw you down on the bed, grab your legs and spread the high and wide, put his whole weight on you, slam you up against a wall every time he thrusts, you know the drill).

You got to let him know that non-gentleness can be a turn-on. Get overdramatic when it happens and encourage it.

Then, given that you're not a fragile doll any more, maybe the idea that something up your ass can be uncomfortable won't bother him so much. Have him class it as "neat pain".

I'm not saying that you want it to hurt -- smooth and easy build to a wonderful orgasm, and a lot of stretching and lube do wonders -- but if he thinks the sensations he thinks are uncomfortable are what you want, maybe he won't hold back from playing with your anus.

Tell him to finger your anal ring next time he's down there eating you, and make a very vocal/visible show of pleasure. Tell him afterwards that you want him to ram a slipper finger up your rear when you're cuming, or tell him he can make you cum when you're on the edge by running his finger up your ass.

(Don't forget to discuss slippey means lube, be it thick spit or other, and short fingernails, and don't go from anus to vagina.)

Try fingering him during a blowjob -- sit on him if you have to in order to keep him from moving away from it -- and see if you can eventually get into his prostate.

After he finds out how good that can be, tell him you have something similar inside you and anal can really hit your spot if he would only try it.
 
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bettywildthing said:
Any tips on convincing unconvinceable spouse?
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You need to be a little more clear on this site - do you want him to give or receive anal?
 
Demonstrate with a toy

purchase a toy online "prefer the Literotica Store"

Demonstrate the pleasure you get from anal play, that should encourage him to become more actively involved.

If the Anal play is for him use a single lubed finger during oral. With the proper prostrate stimulation he will beg for more.
 
Thank you all for the tips. (Tips are great, for a start!) To be clear, I want him to do anal on me. I've brought it up (when drunk) and he calmly refused. He has come to enjoy spanking me, and his finger has wandered. I'll start by being more encouraging.

Man, I am getting hot just thinking about it. If only he didn't work so much!

bwt

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I would be all over you!!!! :) where do you live ? j/k
 
Idea one
maybe showing him how good it feels for him by gently licking his arse in a very heated moment.
Idea two
Try the above witha bit of bondage if youe are into that. High level of trust required and he MUST to have an out.
Idea three
If that goes OK slip a moist finger up his arse. If that doesn't get him interested I would be extremely surprised if he wouldn't want to try the same with you
Idea four
Tell him you want it and your read about it on the internet and they advised you to get some lube. Buy some leave in the bedside table and pray he becomes curious
 
Can't be much help here, hell just mention offering me anal and I get hard, just can't get many takers ( somedays being thick is bad hehe)

Carnus
 
Hell, I thought I read the title to this thread wrong :eek: you mean you need to talk him into it :eek:

Seriously though... have him watch you masturbate and play with your ass yourself... with both fingers and possibly a toy... if that doesn't turn him on and make him want to be those fingers and toys himself... well hell... you'll still get your anal pleasure :D
 
I would suggest getting a small anal toy and use it in front of him to show him how hot you get while getting that area stimulated.
 
Here is my idea. If you do light bondage, tie your hubby down.

Play with him and get him hard and eager.

Then take a vibe or dildo, lube it up, and get in a doggy-style position facing his feet so he's looking right at your ass and starting easing the vibe or dildo in and out of your ass.

Moan, tell him how good it feels, and in your position, lean down and suck him.

Then leave the thing in your ass, turn around and say "You know what I'd really like in my ass, baby?"
 
Yeah it's hard for me to imagine a guy who doesn't like fucking ass too.
 
Believe it or not, there are guys who aren't into it. My ex husband refused because he was a "good christian" and that was "unnatural in the eyes of the lord." Now mind you, we're not talking about a guy who grew up in the fifties. This was 2 years ago and he was 20yrs old at the time, lol.

Thankfully the man I have now adores anal :)
 
Hmmmmm!

Maybe next time you go to ride him, ask him then.

Here's the scenario:

He's all hard and ready to go after you going down on him or something- especially if it was a really slobbery blowjob. Then you inch up and lower your pussy over his cock, and go up and down a few strokes. Then pull off, and place his tip at the entrance to your ass. Then say in your most breathless, hottest, needy-est voice that "I want you back here." Then just push gently so he gets the hint that you really want it. Hopefully, he'll agree and you can get the lube and get to work. Just be sure to brace yourself, because you don't want him to pop in when you are just giving him the idea- ouch!

Good luck!
 
i overcame this one by doing what i wanted him to do first, showing him that i could be treated in this way as i did so myself. Asking if he would mind you trying this (pulling a small but plug or vibe out!) whilst sitting on top of him, you can then insert and sit on him. This way he can get his head round the idea, without having to see. Curiosity of whats happening 'down' their will hopefully encourage him to peak in a more open position.
 
If you figure it out let me know. I have a husband who won't go there either. He thinks it is dirty. :rolleyes:
 
It'sasecret said:
If you figure it out let me know. I have a husband who won't go there either. He thinks it is dirty. :rolleyes:
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Now that's a shame with an ass like that.
 
Ok this would be tricky,.. but get him drunk, then start having sex (preferably with you on top), during the middle of sex..slide your hand down and position his cock for anal. Then just try it..
The worst that could happen is that he moves it back the normal way. Hopefully he will be too caught up in the moment and wont care. Good luck.;)
 
Good ideas...This might be stating the obvious, but some men are grossed out and assume you want to do it without a condom. If you haven't already, reassure him you'll be using a well-lubed condom and everything will be nice and clean.
 
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