Taking your sub out for dinner

[SexySusan]

I went out with my boyfriend the other night. As usual, his choice of food was way better than mine. We ended up sharing half and half. Which made me wonder ... What if he were my sub? Could I just make him eat mine and snatch away his grub? I'd be tempted to ensure his well-being as well, so I'd be in a moral dilemma ...

I know this is kinda fluff, but you're just lucky I didn't make it a poll! And I'm really interested in your answers.

 

[WillowPuss]

Hmmm One way out of that would be to insist he did the choosing ... make it a job for him.

 

[SexySusan]

Excellent idea! Then I could yell at him, if he picks the wrong one ... lol ...

Would a sub be tempted to offer me his/her food anyway?

 

[MsWorthy]

My partner always offers to trade, if I show the slightest interest in what she has chosen. If I refuse, she offers to trade half. If I refuse that as well, she offers me bites until I tell her to stop. *smiles*

It seems much more important to her that I get what I want than she eats what she has ordered.

I would never take what I wanted from her plate. Not only does that show bad manners, it demonstrates a self-centered mind set. I am self-indulgent but never think only of myself (self-centered).

 

[artful]

MsW

My partner always offers to trade, if I show the slightest interest in what she has chosen. If I refuse, she offers to trade half. If I refuse that as well, she offers me bites until I tell her to stop. *smiles*

It seems much more important to her that I get what I want than she eats what she has ordered.

I would never take what I wanted from her plate. Not only does that show bad manners, it demonstrates a self-centered mind set. I am self-indulgent but never think only of myself (self-centered).

Humiliation in public is ONE thing,...being DISRESPECTFUL is quite another.
Never dishonor a sub,(my motto). As more time is spent with my sub,...I learn more and more about her likes and dislikes. (as does she)

My sub feel as does YOURS MsW,...she wishes to please ME before pleasing herself, whether it be food or something else. Pleasing ME is her goal,
... THAT is her purpose,...it is what gives her happiness and joy. I treasure Dream beyond all other worldly things.

(Disclaimer) I fully realise my relationship with my sub is not what all seek,...or even desire.

(JMHO)

 

[Daddyslilpet]

great advice here.

 

[James Blandings]

This is an interesting twist, because I have known many dominants who would order for their subs. I like the idea of the sub having the responsibility of doing the choosing and ordering. It goes to show there is always a new way to look at things.