Taking the plunge...how did you do it?

[Curiousforcock24]

I want to explore my fantasies of giving head and getting anal. I have had these desires for a very long time. However, I need to be very discrete due to my family and work. I also don't want just some random meet in public, I want to be comfortable and take my time without looking over my shoulder worried about being discovered. Any advice?

 

[Curiousforcock24]

I will if the opportunity comes along.

 

[funkeymonkeylove]

I think this is the dilemma for too many of us looking to expand their horizons and needing sexual release. Many of us married men in a non sexual marriage looking elsewhere with so much on the line to loose if found out. So many trolls and not enough looking for a genuine hook up.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

Thats probably true for quite a few, but i'm single, I just can't afford to not be discrete when it comes to my family and friends and work. None of them would understand. I am outwardly completely straight, no one has a clue about my desires.

 

[gary04]

My first time was a friend and he came to visit one week. We been drinking beers and started talking about how we don't have sex anymore at home . Then it turned out to be chatting about blowjobs and why do ladies like to do it. After a couple more beers we said are you interested in trying it to see for ourselves and we both agreed so we did it in his hotel room so we could take our time and be discreet. After that we even swallowed and when we were done we both agreed it was great and so now everytime we meet we spend more time in the hotel sucking.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

Wish I had a friend like that, maybe one day.

 

[Curiousforcock24]

Exactly what I'm looking for.

 

[Easypeter]

I’d been drinking and ended up in and adult movie theaters. The guy just walked up with his hand full and fed me

 

[Uncut1969]

I think this is the dilemma for too many of us looking to expand their horizons and needing sexual release. Many of us married men in a non sexual marriage looking elsewhere with so much on the line to loose if found out. So many trolls and not enough looking for a genuine hook up.

That is so right ! Need a discrete guy! Hopefully another married guy that has the same to lose! And compatible non pushy a fwb

 

[CD_Bree]

Thats probably true for quite a few, but i'm single, I just can't afford to not be discrete when it comes to my family and friends and work. None of them would understand. I am outwardly completely straight, no one has a clue about my desires.

Thats most of us!

 

[starfish71]

Trips (for me it was business travel) are the best opportunity for maintaining some level of discretion, but come with the challenge of having limited time to cultivate any sort of meet up… apps can provide lots of opportunities, but weeding through them to find something that fits for you can be a challenge… in my case I had travelled to the same city a few times before pulling the band aid

 

[CD_Bree]

Trips (for me it was business travel) are the best opportunity for maintaining some level of discretion, but come with the challenge of having limited time to cultivate any sort of meet up… apps can provide lots of opportunities, but weeding through them to find something that fits for you can be a challenge… in my case I had travelled to the same city a few times before pulling the band aid

Thats very true, it takes time to build trust with somebody. You can't be to careful these days.

 

[Dreamer110]

Wish I had a friend like that, maybe one day.

Kind of friend I'd like to.

 

[Bi4Older84]

Thats very true, it takes time to build trust with somebody. You can't be to careful these days.

Yeah, my cock is always ready to play, but I need chemistry, discretion, safety, and a good connection.

 

[CD_Bree]

Yeah, my cock is always ready to play, but I need chemistry, discretion, safety, and a good connection.

Exactly my feelings, there has to be more than just a physical aspect!

 

[gametime07]

I used a hook-up app and found someone about 45 miles away. Was afraid to contact someone in my own city, didn't want anyone knowing.

 

[Cardinal]

I travel for work but have never found the opportunity

 

[tequiladancer]

It seems I am in good company. I have the same issues. Married, very masculine/Straight acting. People would NEVER guess. I love anal play, oral, toys. Have tried, unsuccessfully, to get my wife to help me, maybe Peg me, but she just can’t seem to go through with it. I don’t want to do anything to hurt her or make her feel bad about herself so I have just stopped asking, But damn……it’s still there...

 

[Jacktrew]

I want to explore my fantasies of giving head and getting anal. I have had these desires for a very long time. However, I need to be very discrete due to my family and work. I also don't want just some random meet in public, I want to be comfortable and take my time without looking over my shoulder worried about being discovered. Any advice?

I'm on the other side of the cock.

I really started experimenting when I was on business trips. It's relatively easy to find guys that want to suck cock if you can host in a hotel room.

I would start either here or reddit for a chance to get to know someone to set up ground rules, or double list if you want to take the plunge.

 

[Jacktrew]

Trips (for me it was business travel) are the best opportunity for maintaining some level of discretion, but come with the challenge of having limited time to cultivate any sort of meet up… apps can provide lots of opportunities, but weeding through them to find something that fits for you can be a challenge… in my case I had travelled to the same city a few times before pulling the band aid

Same. I try to start looking a couple of weeks prior to exchange emails detailing our mutual expectations.

It's slow and can be tedious, but when it works, it's awesome.

 

[starfish71]

My plunge story is here if interested…

 

[Dreamer110]

My plunge story is here if interested…

Sadly it won't let me read it.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I got my start in an old fashioned Adult Bookstore video booth, before the internet was a thing. I kept driving by the place and just stopped in one day. I checked out the magazines and vhs tapes. They also sold toys and lingerie (which I loved to wear). After a couple of visits I bought some tokens and went into the back, I found a booth and dropped them in. This place only had two videos available per booth, all booths were different. When I started seeing the gay porn, I ducked into another booth. That’s when I found the ‘shemale’ videos. It wasn’t too long (maybe one or two trips) that I saw my first cock come through one of the holes in the wall. I freaked out and bolted….. but I returned. The next time I went in, i knew what I was looking for and when a cock came through the hole I dropped to my knees and gave him what we both wanted. When I walked out, I felt like the guy at the counter knew that I’d sucked my first cock. He smiled at me every time I went back, several times a week, for years. I miss that place. It is definitely where I took my “plunge” into cock, that led to sooooo much more. Good luck to you

 

[starfish71]

Sadly it won't let me read it.

Bummer… try now

 

[lordpenizworth]

I took the plunge repeatedly.
The first time I went through with meeting a man I'd been chatting with.
The first time I met a man from online rather spontaneously.
The first time I cruised and had a physical encounter.
The first time I swallowed.
The first time I was watched.
The first time I did two men at once.
The m2m journey is all about taking steps...