Taking The First Step

jroberts_1954

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Hello~

I'm new to Lit and this is the first time in my life that I
have posted a personal ad.

A close personal friend of mine finally talked me into
taking a look at Lit. I've been lurking now for a week or two,
trying to decide what to do. I find what I see to be interesting,
and finally decided it was time to introduce myself and take
a very big first step. It feels like a huge step.

It's been so long since I've felt much of anything, but
after a year of grieving my loss and being a single parent it
seems like I need to start living and feeling again. If not
for myself than for my two sons who need a whole man as their
father during their formative years.

I'm a reasonably fit man in my early 50's who is a warm, caring,
and sincere person who always has had a great zest for life. I
always enjoyed having fun and being adventurous. I've never
been afraid to try to new things, and experience life to the fullest
extent possible. I'm a hopeless romantic. I loved candlelight
dinners, fireside chats, cuddling, kissing, intimate touching,
and intense lovemaking of both the slow and gentle variety and
sometimes hard and rough depending on the mood.

I'm very responsible and my two sons occupy most of my life.

It's very hard to say exactly what I'm looking for. I was
married to my high school sweetheart for thirty years before
tradegy struck, and was always faithful, so it's been a very
long time since I seriously thought about being with another
woman. I haven't been able to start dating yet in the real
world, but thought maybe meeting interesting women online would
give me a better understanding of what women today are looking
for in a man, and what they like to talk about.

It's also very hard for me to say what type of woman I'm
most attracted too. She needs to be sincere, friendly, flirtatious,
have a good sense of humor, be a caring person, have patience
with me since this is all very new, and be willing to explore
new pathways of sensuality, or take my hand and lead me down the
path of her choosing. I don't have a particular hair color,
body type, or shape in mind. I've always been partial to the
girl next door type of looks, and feel the personaility is
more important in the overall scheme of things.

While I'm very confident in my abilities as a skilled lover I'm
always open to trying and learning new things. I'm a firm
believer that a womans pleasure comes first, and mine second. I
love the sights and sounds of a woman who is passionate, and vocal
while she is feeling the ecstasy.

What I need most from a woman is for her to get close to me,
reach deep inside of me, and touch my soul in a way that helps
me to start feeling again. Before the tradegy I was always a
man who was in touch with his emotional side, but for what seems
so long now there has only been one emotion that I can feel.

I want to feel alive again, both as a person, and as a man. I
want to feel like I'm wanted and needed both emotionally and
physically.

I'm rambling on and on and I'm sorry if this all sounds so
confusing, but hopefully you will understand that I'm both
nervous and excited about posting this ad.

If you read anything above that sounded interesting than please
send me a PM and I will reply as soon as I can. I look forward
to meeting women who are also looking for something different.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post.

James
 
Not Much Of A Welcome

My friend told me that the women of Lit were so warm and friendly
so it's a surprise that no one has responded to my ad with any type
of comments.

Have I violated some unwritten rule of conduct? All I can say is that
I'm sincere about meeting someone special, and had hoped this was
the right place to do it.
 
The first step...

is often the hardest. You sound like a wonderful man.
 
Welcome to Lit :rose: :kiss: :rose: You've posted a wonderful sincere ad and I hope that you find what your heart trully desires. Benig a single parent is never easy... especially finding your own life amongst the chaos. My only question (or maybe I missed it) is ... where abouts in this big wide world are you from? ;)

Best of luck! :)
 
Thank You For The Welcome

Thanks to all of you for the warm welcome.

Pleaz Me I'm from Pennsylvania.
 
Looking To Make New Friends

I think that I'm going to like it here at Lit. Everyone has been so warm and friendly, and it feels so great to meet new people again. It's been a very long time.

I can understand that people want to offer sympathy regarding my loss, it is appreciated, but now it's time for me to return to the land of the living and start thinking about getting my life back on track.

I've been out of touch with meeting women, dating, and what things are like to be single for a very long time. I need all the help I can get ladies so if there is anyone out there who wants to help out a mature, sincere, romantic man to get back on the right path your help would be greatly appreciated.

In return you will have a very caring and loyal friend who will try to help you in any way I possibily can. I've been known to be a good listener, and think that I have a lot to offer in return for giving me some of your precious time and attention.

Thanks for taking time to read my posts, and understand what I'm needing.

Please reach out and touch me with a PM so we can get to know each other better.

James
 
Lit is a wonderful place to get to know people... my best suggestion is to start with a local thread (PA) and talk to some of the folks there... once you are comfortable chatting with them, thumb through some of the other threads and find something that sparks your interest. Then dive on in! As long as you stay away from the GB, you'll be welcomed with open arms :)
 
Thanks Everyone For Being So Kind

Special thanks to Dixie for such kind words, you're quite a woman yourself.

Pleaz Me thank you for the good advice, and the words of encouragement.

It's so great to know that there are so many nice women on Lit who have such big hearts, and are so warm and friendly.

Thanks again.

James
 
I hope you find what you are looking for, James. It sounds like you have a really good outlook on where your life needs to go. I hope you find someone suitable to go there with.
 
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