poppy1963
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Do Dom/mes ever require a sub to take a Dom/me role over them?
KS's thread on "Dominant women" made me think of this. In many areas of life, most of us "switch" around...we are dominant over some/subordinate to others. Sometimes in a sexual/partnered relationship I like to be "in charge" and sometimes I like to be led by the other.
It would seem to me that those who come to the BDSM lifestyle have a distinct preference mostly and the expectation would be that you are either one or the other for the most part.
But suppose a Dom/me just wanted to be subordinate on occasion or vice versa in the sexual or emotional parts of the relationship. Is that something that happens or is that something that would be a bit taboo?
KS's thread on "Dominant women" made me think of this. In many areas of life, most of us "switch" around...we are dominant over some/subordinate to others. Sometimes in a sexual/partnered relationship I like to be "in charge" and sometimes I like to be led by the other.
It would seem to me that those who come to the BDSM lifestyle have a distinct preference mostly and the expectation would be that you are either one or the other for the most part.
But suppose a Dom/me just wanted to be subordinate on occasion or vice versa in the sexual or emotional parts of the relationship. Is that something that happens or is that something that would be a bit taboo?