Swiss male introducing himself (27j)

[Taino]

Hello there

I came across this board a few minutes ago and am still a bit unsure what I should think of it. On one hand I believe its a fantastic thing to find and meet people with the same interest without the usual "bad taste" you get when you are on the internet on websites concerning sexual activities, so to speak. On the other hand I find some of the posts, pictures and interests rather tasteless.

You see I am a honest and straight forward person. I have nothing to hide, especially not my opinion. The reason for my split opinion about this board may be that I am on one hand a photographer that loves beauty and the human body, that adores aestethics. I can't find anything erotic or arousing about a close up picture of a clit. I also do love sex very much, but consider it something very spiritual and fulfilling. I am very openminded and enjoy my sex life without being in a relaitonship. Sex also means to experiment and try out, to open my horizon about it. But to treat sex purely as a "thing" is not what I like.
I had the impression that many people on this board don't look for someone to have fun with... all they look for is a pussy to masturbate in.
Sex is amatter of mind. I have sex with a woman. The woman is part of it. Not an object, but the main part of my sexuality. It is very important to me who i have sex with. It is very important to me that I like this woman, that it just "works". Therefore I don't simply sleep with whoever I find, no matter whether we talk about a one night stand, an adventure or a relationship. I do have adventures and one night stands. but even then, only with someone I truly admire and like a lot.

So far about my split impression on this board.

Now about me.
I am a 27 years old photographer from switzerland. I live alone, am single and enjoy life. You have already learned a lot about my sexuality above. I do not look for someone to masturbate with, no cyber sex, no phone sex. I can have this anytime (and did it for years), but to be honest, I dislike masturbating. Sexuality offers so much more and better things then touching myself to "empty my balls".

I don't know what I am looking for here. probably nothing. I'd just like to introduce myself and see what happens. Maybe I can meet some great people, get to know fantastic people here. I am sure there's a lot of em here.
Maybe I even find someone to meet one day, would also be great. Not everything has to be about sexuality. It can also be about friendship and other fun things. Althou sexuality isn't bad either.

I simply enjoy being able to talk about sex and sexuality without being taken for a psycho, a man that only gets to know women to fuck. Whenever I talk about my open mind about sexuality, women believe I simply and only want to fuck them. This is definately not true, althou it is very important to me aswell.

So far so good. If you want to have a quick look at me, visit http://www.flowingthought.com/selfportraits.html
The pictures are very "neutral" as it is part of my offical portfolio as photographer and putting naked pics of myself there is considered highly unprofessional.
I do have lots of naked pictures of me, but they are all "artistic" and not very explicit, as I don't like those "get naked, hard and take a shot of it" pictures.

As a little extra, I added one of my naked pictures for you.

I hpoe to meet a lot of interesting and exciting people here. Maybe it'll work out

 

[Taino]

Well I see it takes a lot for anyone to answer. Pretty sad, was hoping to meet great new people

 

[College_geek]

I like your photography. Nice tattoo, as well. I always loved Celtic knots.

 

[Taino]

oh my god an answer!!!!!


Thanks a lot. I am very much into chinese culture and art, but I do love my celtic knot on my back very much indeed

 

[College_geek]

oh my god an answer!!!!!


Thanks a lot. I am very much into chinese culture and art, but I do love my celtic knot on my back very much indeed

Of course you got an answer. You're photos do remind me of Chinese art, with their simplicity and intensity.

 

[Taino]

Thank you much. As a thank you, you get one more.
I do not have any "harder" pictures of me as I don't consider them artistic and I like to take artistic pictures myself (being a photographer, after all).
For harder and more explicit pictures, I'd have to take new shots once.. and for that I need a specific good reason

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Hey, I'm in the same boat as you. I believe sex is a mind thing, yet half the people on this board just want cheap thrills and an easy "off". I've called out a bunch of people on the subject of cheating on their wife or husband and really a lot of bad things do go down.

As for no replies here are the reasons I got for you.

1) Your a guy...Most guy posts do not get answered on this board, and if they do, they don't last long. Women post get answers the second they post.

2) Your not into cyber, and "having fun" with anyone here and just want to make friends. As I said, I'm in the same boat and just ant to talk with people without the cyber BS.

3) Opinionated - These people seem to get a lot of BS (ie I do alot) because you express your opinion openly. People don't like hearing from someone what they don't want to hear and believe since it's a message board they can say and do what they want. Sad but true.



Anyways, welcome here. Don't feel left out. I have left twice and came back because I found some friends that want to talk, and not just about sex. It's finding that group and when you do, you'll be fine.


Ravin

 

[Taino]

Thank you very much for your open and honest reply.
I have the same impression about the male and femal thing. Of course females always get more attention on the internet, but here its even much "worse".

I won't put too much on it, but I am still hoping to meet great and nice people here, male and female. You're certainly one of them

 

[Ravin the Poet]

being honest is something I always go for. Guess at 19, honest is all I really have going for me when I look for a girl eh

 

[College_geek]

Thank you much. As a thank you, you get one more.
I do not have any "harder" pictures of me as I don't consider them artistic and I like to take artistic pictures myself (being a photographer, after all).
For harder and more explicit pictures, I'd have to take new shots once.. and for that I need a specific good reason

That's a lot sexier to me, anyway. I love full body shots, I love artsy photos, and I love people's facial expressions. If you take the photo, I'll like it.

 

[College_geek]

1) Your a guy...Most guy posts do not get answered on this board, and if they do, they don't last long. Women post get answers the second they post.

Not always true....it really also depends on other factors, such as thread name and Lit name...for example, I don't get posts very fast all the time, as compared to someone with a more sexual Lit name or a sexy thread title. However, that is a very good point. I think it's a shame. I try to post in guy's threads as much as possible, but to me, a lot of the time, they all seem the same. Thankfully, you're photos are different.

 

[ben23]

great pics you are very talanted

 

[Taino]

Thank you much

 

[Taino]

Hope you like to see some more shots...

 

[Taino]

Another one

 

[Taino]

And one more

 

[Taino]

Bah ok, one more

 

[College_geek]

Mmm...I love the light and shadows. Wonderful.

 

[Taino]

Once again, thank you very much

 

[Taino]

There, now I also adjusted my signature

 

[Taino]

and one more...

 

[tom_tom599]

Hallo aus der Schweiz

Nice to see I'm not the only swiss here on the board... nice way of introducing yourself and particularly like the part about "that-chemistry-thing" - I totally agree on what you say: I has to "work" between two human being to really become one, it's like a piece of art - otherwise it's just two individuals "having sex" - and the guy, as you say, just literally emptying his balls... by the way, nice site, nice photographs.

 

[Taino]

Thanks a lot Tom,

Well, I am surprised that I am not the only swiss actually. Expected to be, after all I saw.
And thanks for the compliments about the pictures. Only because I'm on a "Literotica" Website doesn't mean I have to change my rather "show less, mean more" attitude on pictures nor will I change my "be open about sex but still treat it as a holy grail" attitude on sex.

 

[College_geek]

and one more...

Oh goodness...that's something I wouldn't mind looking at every day on my wall.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

Hey! If you wanted to converse you should have mentioned something in your thread. I have to agree with the dichotomy of Literotica, it has twio differant faces depending on where you are. The GLBT and How To forums are generally very accepting and open, I tend to frequent them often. The General Board is to be avoided at all costs... the amateur pics forum isn't much better nowadays, it's all just tits and crotches. Plus the fact that males threads tend to die, mine included, has kinda left me jaded. Sometimes you can find a gem or two in there, such as your thread or Cazper and Tigris (you should take a look over there sometime, some very nice pictures). Of course none of us compare to you but we are improving ^_^

Hope you don't mind I added your instant messanging names to my list. I'm always around and it's nice to have a new person to talk to!

-Zergplex