Swinging

[MysteriousGirl]

Does anyone go swinging? Or to a swinging club? I have just entered the new world of swinging and wanted to know what experiences people have had?

Love MysteriousGirl

 

[MarkSand]

Thanks for starting this thread, which I will be following with great interest. It's something I have wanted to try for the longest time, but so far, I haven't been blessed with a willing partner...

 

[MysteriousGirl]

Well I found out, that most Clubs have men's nights. So as a single male you can go and mingle with women. Then perhaps get hooked up and go as a couple.

Love MysteriousGirl

 

[MysteriousGirl]

So many horny people here and no one has gone swinging?

Love MysteriousGirl

 

[slimsexi]

hmm not sure...if i would..i know my partner has bi fantasies but i always hoped it would happen accidentally..rahter than organised...if that sounds right? she has been hit on a time or two by bi girls and the idea that she might accept one time blows me away..

 

[Melbournian]

Well partner and I are very interested in it and recently had our first experience with another couple ... was fucking awesome, just couldnt stop thinking about it for days ... there are no as such swinging clubs (atleast here in Aus), rather hidden secret parties, kinky parties that turned out to be swinging parties and you just basically go fuck people (with their consent ofcourse), watch, jerk off etc ...

 

[SpiritRider]

Used to attend a swingers club near where I live. Wasn't for the purpose of finding partners though.
The owner of the club at the time asked me to attend and put on a spanking show for his patrons. They had a room known as the "fishbowl" where people could watch thru numerous windows.
New owner was worried about liability so I had to stop.

 

[MysteriousGirl]

hmm not sure...if i would..i know my partner has bi fantasies but i always hoped it would happen accidentally..rahter than organised...if that sounds right? she has been hit on a time or two by bi girls and the idea that she might accept one time blows me away..

Yeah I think I know what you mean, and it seems it is better if it all happens naturally. Like I was telling someone else in PMs, the first difficult part is how to act with naked people around you and then to over come the fact you are naked or fucking with people around you.

Well partner and I are very interested in it and recently had our first experience with another couple ... was fucking awesome, just couldnt stop thinking about it for days ... there are no as such swinging clubs (atleast here in Aus), rather hidden secret parties, kinky parties that turned out to be swinging parties and you just basically go fuck people (with their consent ofcourse), watch, jerk off etc ...

Wow, surely it wasn't your first time that this all happened? Was it?

Used to attend a swingers club near where I live. Wasn't for the purpose of finding partners though.
The owner of the club at the time asked me to attend and put on a spanking show for his patrons. They had a room known as the "fishbowl" where people could watch thru numerous windows.
New owner was worried about liability so I had to stop.

That sucks...not too sure how liability would have anything to do with it. Run it like a normal club except vet people and you fuck in a club. I think the general image of swinging is slightly flawed. Its not just a room where you go in and have sex and have people just fucking you.

Love MysteriousGirl

 

[mitchmo]

Not yet we haven't. Interested and looking into sex clubs for an upcoming trip. Hoping to expose my wife to the lifestyle first to see what our reactions are. Might have to start with soft swinging but you never know...

 

[rob35can]

Have been on and off for the past 5 yrs or so....What would you like to know?

 

[ivantheterrible]

love to. but as i am single now, and there are not a whole lot of women who will do this in my area. the nearest swinging club here is too far away and they do not allow single men.

 

[my53ky]

only in my fantasies. I have always wanted to have an experience like that but never had the nerve or a willing partner to do such things. I am on Lit because it allows me to explore sexuality in a sterile environment. I do wish my partner liked kinky stuff as much as I do and we could eventually experiment with such an altenative sex life.

 

[Mads]

I've done a bit of soft swinging and sharing, but its really difficult to find people near us that are willing to stop at that.

 

[millieteases]

Have considered it, but so far it's staying a fantasy. We are nudists, so being naked around other people isn't much of an issue.

Being sexual around other people is a different question.

The spouse has masturbated on webcam a few times, but even that feels risky.

Clubs, well, clubs where we are do exist, but every once in a while one gets in the paper because its raided for selling alcohol without a license. And public sex, even in a private club, isn't quite legal here. It's viewed as adult entertainment and sex goes way over the line they're willing to put up with.

And then there's the issues with diseases and stuff with folks you don't know.

So, it would have to be with another couple, and quite frankly I'm too scared to even go there. Adult sites, well, been there, done that, and it was just to hook up with one guy at a time. It was too scary.

It if happens we'll deal with it and probably enjoy it. Otherwise, we'll just flirt here and fantasize...

 

[chong112193]

We Swing, We really are not into going to the clubs. Its ok but we prefer to meet people online and chat a little. Then if we get along and there is some physical attraction we meet for drinks. If it all goes well on the way home we decide if the person or couple is someone we want to do. Its a lot more work then going to a club and just fucking anyone but the sex is a lot better. The more we get together with the same people the better it gets. That's just what we do.

Peace

Chong & Becca

 

[brickroadray]

Well I found out, that most Clubs have men's nights. So as a single male you can go and mingle with women. Then perhaps get hooked up and go as a couple.

Love MysteriousGirl

Cool - gotta look into that!!! Excuse my ignorance, but how do you find such a club?

 

[irishmarie45]

So many horny people here and no one has gone swinging?

Love MysteriousGirl

It's just a fantasy for us. A great fantasy tho.

Marie

 

[shewantsmore]

I have done in the past but not recently but it was fun

 

[BigWeapon]

Does anyone go swinging? Or to a swinging club? I have just entered the new world of swinging and wanted to know what experiences people have had?

Love MysteriousGirl

I go to swinging clubs on regular basis

 

[brickroadray]

I have done in the past but not recently but it was fun

I'd like to, but I'm not sure where to look!