Swinging but without switching partners

[RoueRisque]

For those of you who have, what ways have you found to safely meet other couples who are interested is a sexual experience with another couple, but not in trading partners?

 

[ocetagius]

Soft swinging

A couple of years ago my partner and I signed up to a swinging website and began chatting to other couples interested in a soft swing scene (fooling around with another couple but stopping short of penetrative sex). We met couples for a social, 'get to know you' in a pub before getting together to play. On the first play date we paired off for intimate foreplay, which was both very arousing and slightly nerve wracking. The ladies had made some effort to dress provocatively in stockings and heels which added to the lust fuelled atmosphere. As play couples we kissed, touched, licked and sucked in all the usual ways until we were well wound up before rejoining our own partners for a full on horny fucking together on the same bed ) After getting home that night my partner and I were still feeling horny so fucked again. ... A great evening!

 

[RoueRisque]

A couple of years ago my partner and I signed up to a swinging website and began chatting to other couples interested in a soft swing scene (fooling around with another couple but stopping short of penetrative sex). We met couples for a social, 'get to know you' in a pub before getting together to play. On the first play date we paired off for intimate foreplay, which was both very arousing and slightly nerve wracking. The ladies had made some effort to dress provocatively in stockings and heels which added to the lust fuelled atmosphere. As play couples we kissed, touched, licked and sucked in all the usual ways until we were well wound up before rejoining our own partners for a full on horny fucking together on the same bed ) After getting home that night my partner and I were still feeling horny so fucked again. ... A great evening!

Awesome to hear that. We’d be starting slowly and softly without the swap. We are always pretty honest about the nerves and anxieties that can make a sensuous experience awkward, but we’ve found not to talk openly and lightheartedly about the awkward and anxious parts of sex is little more than peer pressure from generations long past.

 

[magicalmoments]

when my ex wife and I started this journey many years ago we started with meeting other couples for fooling around without actually swapping for sex. This involved a wide range of activities from playing strip poker and skinny dipping in the pool through to full on fondling and masturbating stopping just short of penetrative sex. We would then get together with our own partners and fuck ourselves crazy in front of each other.
This went on for a couple of years before we eventually started swapping partners, got involved in 3'sums and eventually led to us opening our marriage. All of this went on for about 18 years before we decided to call it quits.
Fun times with lots of magical moments and very happy memories.

 

[OldFred65]

For those of you who have, what ways have you found to safely meet other couples who are interested is a sexual experience with another couple, but not in trading partners?

What would be the fun in that. If you're not swapping, you're not really swinging, and you're not really having fun.

 

[CharlieBoker]

What would be the fun in that. If you're not swapping, you're not really swinging, and you're not really having fun.

I totally disagree.......who are you to say what is fun to another couple?

Maybe just the thrill of fooling around a little without going the whole hog is enough for some couples.

It can sometimes be a dangerous game to play so a gentle easing into the scene without all out swapping might be titillating enough to add some spice to a relationship without risking too much emotionally.

Not everyone interested in swinging may want to actually go for it in reality.

 

[screwher]

For those of you who have, what ways have you found to safely meet other couples who are interested is a sexual experience with another couple, but not in trading partners?

You’re talking two couples having sex with their partners but in the same room, right? My wife would never go that. First off she wouldn’t like the idea of a naked woman in an intimate setting with me. As well for the whole scenario to even happen, my wife would have to have some sort of physical attraction to the other husband. And at some point would want to have sex with hm.

 

[FL30]

If you're not swapping, you're not really swinging

truth

 

[magicalmoments]

I'd agree that real swinging involves full swapping of partners, and is very exciting, compered to non swapping

However, I disagree that the non swap type fooling around was not fun. It was heaps of fun, we loved every minute. Some of the best sex my ex and I had with each other was during and after those sessions.

I think if you have to ask, "Where's the fun in that" then you've become inured to lower levels of stimulation. The more exposed you become, the greater the stimulation needed for you to have fun.

That's a shame really.

 

[RoueRisque]

Start low, go slow. When it hits a boundary for one, it hits a boundary for both. If things change later, so be it. Where it winds up it winds up. That’s the way I see things.

 

[AloneTooLong]

as long as both are 'on the same page' probably lots of fun; unfortunately, hubby was in 'lust' with the other female; I wasn't really interested in her hubby. Nothing penetrative happened.

 

[Bigaug]

we started having sex fun with my wife's sister and husband. At first it was my wife and I in one bed them in another, lights out and we fucked. The next time nude in their pool and grab assing. Then it progressed to going in the house, the guys would whip our dicks out the ladies would suck on them, and switch back and forth, we would pull their swim suits aside and lick them a bit, mind you there were other people at the pool party. Then one night we were playing cards, strip poker, and when we were all naked we took our drinks and ran into our bed, and had sex side by side, the girls surprised us and began rubbing each other's tits, the next time it was just a group pile, each of us touching wherever and whomever, then we swapped the last time and my wife jacked of my bro in law, I ate my sis in law and fucked her as my wife rubbed my ass, but she didn't get laid as my bro in law shot his wad before they could do anything, and we had to stop as he shot all over us...that was the last time, but I am trying to get something going again. We played a little bit with another couple we were close friends with but unfortunately they had a major falling out and that was that. The point is, it was nice not swapping, enjoyable no stress, but it was just as nice switching partners

 

[jehoram]

I'd agree that real swinging involves full swapping of partners, and is very exciting, compered to non swapping

However, I disagree that the non swap type fooling around was not fun. It was heaps of fun, we loved every minute. Some of the best sex my ex and I had with each other was during and after those sessions.

And there's always the fact that if your sex play doesn't involve fellatio or cunnilingus or penetration, you're not likely to catch whatever diseases your prospective partner might have. In this day and age, that's a thing in its favor.