Swingers Sites

[redstick2]

Does anyone know of any good swingers sites? My gf and I live in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, and we've tried adult friend finder as well as swing life styles. Unfortunately, neither of these sites appear to have any active members in our area with even the slightest compatibility. (And no, we're not overly picky, would just like people within shouting distance of our own average physical attributes, educational level and sexual orientation...)

Has anyone found any other sites to be interesting?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I just looked at the ones I know of, but they're all Aus based, so no help.



Are you just looking to meet couples one on one, or would you consider parties etc?

 

[MaleInNC2007]

Try here:

http://www*****stylelounge.com

 

[redstick2]

Are you just looking to meet couples one on one, or would you consider parties etc?[/QUOTE]

We're looking to meet compatible couples, single females, single males, or parties...

 

[redstick2]

Try here:

http://www*****stylelounge.com

Thanks for the tip!

 

[Loreleis]

Have you tried The Swing Site yet?

 

[redstick2]

Have you tried The Swing Site yet?

Which swing site is that?

 

[SweetErika]

Which swing site is that?

Google says it's http://www.theswingsite.com .

 

[redstick2]

Thanks, we'll check that one out too...

 

[redstick2]

Ok, tried the lifestyle lounge, and the swing site, but neither have any active members in our area. Oh well, thanks for the tips...we'll just keep looking.

 

[mark_j]

Try this one:

http://swingersboard.swinglifestyle.com/

 

[muck]

Have you tried:

http://www.swingersboard.com/

Its run by a couple in AL and has quite a few southern members

 

[redstick2]

Try this one:

http://swingersboard.swinglifestyle.com/

That's the one I referred to in our first post as "swing life styles."...Tried it, no luck for our area...

 

[redstick2]

Have you tried:

http://www.swingersboard.com/

Its run by a couple in AL and has quite a few southern members

Thanks, we'll check it out...

 

[SweetErika]

Do you have appealing profiles on all of these sites?

I ask because if you're just lurking, it's possible that you're missing other lurkers.

Also, you didn't mention anything about events in your area, AFAIK. Have you sought out groups and parties on different sites and through various contacts (compatible couples or not), or are you solely relying on personals to meet people? Baton Rouge isn't a small town, so there must be some kind of local scene for swingers and other sex positive folks.

 

[redstick2]

Do you have appealing profiles on all of these sites?

I ask because if you're just lurking, it's possible that you're missing other lurkers.

Also, you didn't mention anything about events in your area, AFAIK. Have you sought out groups and parties on different sites and through various contacts (compatible couples or not), or are you solely relying on personals to meet people? Baton Rouge isn't a small town, so there must be some kind of local scene for swingers and other sex positive folks.

We've posted what we think are appealing profiles. Or, at least we tried-apparently they aren't working, lol. The only thing we are not doing is posting our pictures on the swingers sites. We both have jobs which are fairly high profile, and discretion is important. However, we have sent our pictures to a couple of people we've had brief email contact with. It didn't make a difference though, I guess, because they stopped contacting us. And no, we're not trolls or anything, hehe. We're fairly average looking people I think (I could send you a pic via email if you wanted to see what others are seeing. Maybe you could impart some honest opinion.)
Baton Rouge is not a small town, but it's a conservative town, and since it's only an hour from New Orleans, we think maybe most people go there for play. In fact, we go there ourselves to a couple of clubs, but for some reason, don't find it easy to meet people there. We don't get it-we're not particularly shy, nor are we overly obnoxious. We're just as interested in "getting to know you conversation" as well as anything more than that.
We've looked for groups, parties, or anything else that someone may be involved in.
Thanks.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

We've posted what we think are appealing profiles. Or, at least we tried-apparently they aren't working, lol. The only thing we are not doing is posting our pictures on the swingers sites. We both have jobs which are fairly high profile, and discretion is important. However, we have sent our pictures to a couple of people we've had brief email contact with. It didn't make a difference though, I guess, because they stopped contacting us. And no, we're not trolls or anything, hehe. We're fairly average looking people I think (I could send you a pic via email if you wanted to see what others are seeing. Maybe you could impart some honest opinion.)
Baton Rouge is not a small town, but it's a conservative town, and since it's only an hour from New Orleans, we think maybe most people go there for play. In fact, we go there ourselves to a couple of clubs, but for some reason, don't find it easy to meet people there. We don't get it-we're not particularly shy, nor are we overly obnoxious. We're just as interested in "getting to know you conversation" as well as anything more than that.
We've looked for groups, parties, or anything else that someone may be involved in.
Thanks.

You'll probably find that in clubs, unless people know each other aleady and are just hanging out and catching up, most really aren't into the 'getting to know you' chit chat.

At least, that's the way it seems to be here.

 

[redstick2]

You'll probably find that in clubs, unless people know each other aleady and are just hanging out and catching up, most really aren't into the 'getting to know you' chit chat.

At least, that's the way it seems to be here.

Yes, that's what we've found-unless you know people already, you'll just be on the outside looking in, so to speak...

 

[sydneys]

Swing Life Style Help

Yes, that's what we've found-unless you know people already, you'll just be on the outside looking in, so to speak...

Sometimes you have to travel to get to swing parties. We often traveled up to an hour due to discretion purposes. I do agree that there are cliches. ?s/p but, you will eventually fit in.

What we also found as time went by is that the swing business is quite lucrative. A lot of couples have their own groups. Look in the sections of lifestyle that say clubs and groups.

Also, post pics that are classy and up to date. You can post r rated ones but open them to your discretion. There are a lot of picture seekers out there.

Take your time. There are so many nice people out there of all walks of life. I am still friends with many. You chose your own path unlike one night stands. I have just gone to hotels with other couples and we each just fluffed each other and fucked our own partner. I have been to dance clubs and even on a boat...ha ha should of seen that all kinds of people fucking and sucking. The biggest problem.....condoms clogging the toilets.

I have lots of advice with regards to this. Just ask away. Also, depending on your age check out sizzling seniors. This is for couples over 40. kiss sydney.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Yes, that's what we've found-unless you know people already, you'll just be on the outside looking in, so to speak...

That changes if you're just looking to play. You *can* just ask people, and you'll find plenty willing.

Busting out a friendship is far more difficult, because most people there aren't looking for that.

 

[redstick2]

That changes if you're just looking to play. You *can* just ask people, and you'll find plenty willing.

Busting out a friendship is far more difficult, because most people there aren't looking for that.

Well, we're not going to the clubs looking for friends, this is true. Still, we hope that if we have the opportunity to play with someone, we would at least be somewhat compatible outside the bedroom too, though admittedly, such compatibility isn't absolutely necessary. The problem we're having is that we haven't found, in the clubs, anyone to be accessible, even to just ask if they want to play. It does sound strange, but that's what we've found, and it's really got us baffled. Maybe it's just these particular clubs and the local swinger culture that makes it difficult for new people to gain entrance. Anyway, we'll keep trying. I think we're going to one of the clubs next Saturday night. We'll post the results.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Swingers Date Club

Have you tried Swingers Date Club? www.sdc.com

It is global, but the biggest membership zones seem to be Florida, Texas, and The Netherlands. They give you a ten day free membership that you can use to see if there are any members in your area. If so, get a permanent membership and good luck!

 

[redstick2]

Have you tried Swingers Date Club? www.sdc.com

It is global, but the biggest membership zones seem to be Florida, Texas, and The Netherlands. They give you a ten day free membership that you can use to see if there are any members in your area. If so, get a permanent membership and good luck!

We've tried that one-there are no members in our area.

 

[coastal-boy]

know what? I'll give you an 'A' for effort. Not that that will bring anything new into your life but at least you seem willing to search. Seems to me that someone in your area is missing out in some fun. Maybe it might be easier to simply bring in a third?

 

[satindesire]

Well, I can tell you that not posting pictures is going to put a LOT of damper on any enthusiasm for joining you that others might have.

You DON'T have to show your face in the photos, you can block it out or just have a photo cropped, showing a good portion of you two (preferably together) that's up to date and clear.

I promise you, pictures will get you a lot more responses.