swingers bar 101

[kymbyr69]

I am nervous, scared in fact! This is my first time to go to a swingers bar and I don't know what to expect. I have heard tales of everything from mass orgies to gang bangs in the back room of the bar but I am curious so I am going. My best friend who has been many times has convinced me that we will have a great time and who knows, maybe a very exciting experience. We go in, sit down and order our drinks and we notice several really good looking guys two tables over from us. They are looking but will they come introduce themselves to us? Will we get the nerve to introduce ourselves? Maybe after another drink.........

 

[Garry Bishop]

*Garry hadn't realy known what had come over him that night. Sure he had gone into bars before but this would be his first time going into a swinger's joint. But then again he had wanted to try something new for a while now. So shrugging a little he pushed the door open and made his way inside, the sounds of of people mingling, a couple making out in a corner booth, the light smell of smoke in the air all filling his senses. Okay so maybe this wasn't as different as the bar he usualy went to but it was a change of scenery. Garry stood about six foot tall and had wavy blond hair that he kept trimmed. He was wearing a pair of relaxed fit jeans, a white t-shirt and a blue denim jacket. His eyes were a light blue and his face held somewhat of a boyish charm to it. Looking around once more he made his way over to the bar and took a seat*

 

[kymbyr69]

Anyone can reply, I am new to all of this so please tell me if I am going about this wrong. Thanks

 

[kymbyr69]

As I watched him walk in I was mesmerized by him but how do I go about meeting people here? Do I just walk up and say "Hi, My name is Kym" or do they do it different in a swing bar? I probably look like a lost tourist in a bad neighborhood but I really want to meet this guy...........

 

[kymbyr69]

walking subtly past this tall good looking guy, with the pretense of buying another drink I bump into him and say excuse me. I want to stop and talk to him and he looks like he might be interested so I tell him that I am Kym and this is my first time in a swingers bar. He laughs and tells me that it is also his.

 

[Garry Bishop]

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Kym? That's a nice name...first time here huh? Yeah mine too. *Smiling to her I offer to buy her the drink instead. After all it might make a good impression on her as an offer of friendship* My name is Garry.Garry Bishop. *Oh boy now I sound like somone from a james Bond flick.Only I don't drink dry martinies (sp?)*

 

[kymbyr69]

Thank you! I would love a drink and no, you don't sound like someone out of a James Bond movie. I hate james bond and you certainly do alot more for me than he does. I laugh. What made you decide to try out a swingers bar Gary? I hope I am not getting too personal but I sort of want to know where the evening is going to go and he doesn't seem offended by my question.......

 

[Garry Bishop]

Oh I just thought I'd try something new for a change. Granted this place doesn't seem all that different but it is a change of scenery. *Smiling to her I signal the bar tender who comes over after convincing a customer that he had enough..and the tender proved to be right as the customer passed out over the bar after he had walked away. Turning back to Kym I give her a warm smile* I'll have a Madori Sour please...*Turning to Kym I give her a warm smile* What would you like?

 

[kymbyr69]

I have never tried one of those so I think I will have the same. "smiling warmly" I really like to try new things. I guess that is why I am here. Do you live here or are you out of town too? I am here visiting my best friend, in fact, she is over there at that table waiting for me, but she will be fine for a while unless you would like to come over and sit with us...

 

[Garry Bishop]

No..I live here...well not here *he added trying to make a joke* A few blocks from here though. *Turning back to the tender he nodded* Get the lady one of those as well. *The tender nodded and fixed her one and set it up on the bar beside his* Hmmm...okay, I'll join you at your table..lead the way. *He smiled to her again as he took a sip from his drink*

 

[kymbyr69]

I can feel his eyes on me as he walks behind me to the table. Char, this is Gary, we just met at the bar, he is going to sit with us and just maybe we can talk him into a dance or two....(we are actually kind of looking for a guy to share for the night but we don't want to tell him that just yet) I am a tall 5'9" blonde with blue eyes, straight nose, high cheekbones and nice curves, Charli is 5'7" blonde with blue eyes and a sort of turned up nose, she is the confident one in this situation, I am basically a virgin, not even sure how to introduce the subject.........

 

[Garry Bishop]

(Hmmm..sounds interesting *s*)

*As I took the seat I nodded to Charli and extended a hand to her* Nice to meet you as well..*I said as we shook. Taking another sip from the drink I look again to Kym* So Kym, are you enjoying your visit so far? *As I talk to her I find it hard not to keep from staring..although I know I am...it's just that there are some htings that are hard to take your eyes off of...I hope she doesn't take offense or find it rude* So..what do you girls like to do for fun?

 

[kymbyr69]

Well, I reply, I was hoping you could help us out in that department. *still wondering if he is up for a sharing experience??* We are just out to try some new things and see what this place is like, would you like to dance?

 

[Garry Bishop]

A dance? *I took another sip from the drink and set it down. Instead of answering her with words I stood and offered my hand to her with a smile as I nodded to the floor, which wasn't exactly crowded yet as it was still early evening. As she took my hand I led her out to the floor giving Charli a look that said "Don't worry, I wont keep her for long, after all she is your guest". One song was already coming to a close and after it had ended another one started up. Okay so was something different from my usual place, the DJ didn't waste time on song selection..only unlike the last one this was a bit more slower* Alright..* I said to her* Should I lead or would you like to?

 

[kymbyr69]

I can smell his cologne as we are dancing slowly and closely together...what is that scent? mmmm, it does smell nice. I am swaying gently in his arms, letting him lead of course. I feel as though I could float right now, the new ideas, the new bar, everything is just so exhilirating! I hope he is as excited as I am to be doing this for the first time. I have not been out to any bar in several years and now here I am, in a strange town, in the arms of a handsome stranger, dancing, having the time of my life. It almost seems too good to be true. I look up into his face to see if he is enjoying it as much as I am........

 

[Garry Bishop]

*I wa smiling when she looked up into my face . I had a hand on her sholuder and one on her waistline as I held her respectfuly hwile our bodies swayed to the music, and I found the scent of her perfume to be sweet and intoxicating. I don't want the evening to end but I know it has too sooner or later* Your a good dancer *I told her quietly as my eyes met hers, the light catching in my eyes causing them to shine a little* To tell the truth..I feel like I could dance with you all night if I could.

 

[kymbyr69]

I also don't want the dance to end but I figure that he probably has other things to do and somewhere else to go, then again, why would he be in a swingers bar if he wasn't looking for a companion for the evening. Maybe things will still last a while. I am not looking for a relationship, just companionship and maybe some education in lovemaking, up til now my experience has been an ex-husband that was only interested in pleasing himself. Now I am free to experience and want to feel that pleasure myself and this georgious man dancing with me would sure be a nice teacher, if only I weren't so shy around new people. ~sigh~ I could look into his eyes all night long too, and his hand feels so strong on my waist, if only he would pull me a little closer to him...

 

[Garry Bishop]

*As if reading her mind I pulled her closer to me slowly and found that I head to step between her legs in order to keep from tripping her up* You know...if I tipped the DJ here maybe I could get you a request in.. *Ismiled to her and then grinned slightly*

 

[kymbyr69]

laughing softly, I tell him that my favorite song is "You look wonderful tonight" by Eric Clapton. I think I have forgotten there were any other people in the room except us, *when he pulled me closer I could feel the muscles in his body and ached to feel them without the shirt in the way* I have not felt so relaxed and exhilirated at the same time in my life and I can only imagine what is going through his mind right now. When he whispers in my ear, his breath is warm and pleasant, a sensation that is very arousing in itself. I wonder if he knows what a turn on it is to be treated so sweet. Wondering also if he knows that there is a deeper more passionate side to me that with the right coaxing is dying to come out.....for now, the dance will have to do but my mind is running in circles of things I would like to do with him in a room not packed with people......

 

[Garry Bishop]

*Relcutantly I stepped away from her and slowly lowered my hands letting them fall by my sides, brushing down her arms as they did so.* I'll be right back..don't go anywhere. *I said with a smile as I turned and headed for the DJ's booth. Looking back to her I placed a five in the jar* I'd like to make a request..."You look wonderful tonight" by Eric Clapton...the request goes ou to Kym from Garry. *Nodding to me the DJ rifled quickly through the cd's and grinning pulled it out* "Your in luck buddy..got it on single" *Nodding my thanks to him I returned to Kym and finsihed up the last bit of the dance with her* "This next song is a request..Eric Claptons "You look wonderful tonight" and it goes out to a lucky lady named Kym..from Garry" *The DJ said...and then the lights gradualy turned down low as the music started playing...and it just wasn't instrumental, the words of the song accompanied it as well. Again I took her into my arms and held her close, feeling her heart beat as she felt mine, strong and full of life as it beat in my chest. I was starting to fall for her...I realized this. But I hardly knew her, we had just met. Maybe it was just one of those things though that you hear about n stories. I knew that if my friend Jason were here he'd probably say I was crazy. As we danced I kept looking into her eyes smiling and enjoying the closeness of our bodies. I couldn't help but wonder if her friend was watching us or not...I didn't care realy...right now I was happy*

 

[kymbyr69]

Happy didn't even begin to cover the feeling I had at that moment, I was dancing with the most handsome man in the bar, to the all-time most romantic song ever and he had dedicated it to me! I am pretty sure that there was a fairy godmother fluttering around somewhere! I came here looking to play and now what? Was I really getting emotional vibes from him? I thought all guys wanted was a quick piece and a seeyalater! My friend would tell me I was nuts but all I could think of was that I was dancing with him and I didn't ever want to stop! He was humming to the tune and staring into my eyes, it made me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room, or maybe even the only woman in the room. If I died right now I would die happy and this is bliss!

 

[Garry Bishop]

*As I hummed along with the song I began to hold her just a little closer..not too close though or we'd be falling rather than dancing. The song lasted for several minutes but when it finaly came a close it seemd like forever had gone by as I had looked into her eyes all the while through and at one point I found myself mouthing the words of the song to her. The light gradualy turned up again and the music stopped to allow the DJ a short break. It took me a few seconds to realize this as I continued to dance with her and it was a passer-by that braught this to my attention....spoiled sport...laughing a little I nodded and braught our dance to it's own close by giving her a gentle hug. But...then I found I was having a hard time letting go and if it werent for my need to use the rest room I probably wouldn't have* Ummm...I need to use the rest room..*I told her with a sheepish grin* I'll be right back. *Smiling to her I made my way through the crowd but I couldn't help but think..would she still be here when I returned? Or would some other guy have picked her up...this wsn't exactly your normal kind of bar*

 

[kymbyr69]

I felt so silly at the disapointment that flowed through me when the dance ended. He was off to use the restroom and I guessed I had better go and see how Charli was doing. When she asked me about this guy I had been with the whole night I told her that he was the most wonderful person I had ever been with even though we had barely met. She rolled her eyes and said that we were supposed to go out and find someone to share and that I hadn't been doing much sharing so far. I told her that I was not sure that Gary was into that sort of thing and I was very sorry but I was having such a good time with him I didn't want to be bothered. She hugged me and said that was allright if he wasn't, but it would be a shame since he was such a good looking guy. I ended the conversation when I saw him walking toward us again.

 

[Garry Bishop]

*Smiling to them both I took my seat once again. She was still here...apart from laughter and other conversations there was no music s the DJ was on break* I have to say...you're a pretty good dancer Kym...*I said then looked to Charli then back to Kym* Either one of you swing dance? *I asked with a slight smile. I knew I could and I also knew they were going to have a couple of those tonight as well..one of my reasons for being in here..but you can't do that alone. It would be alright if neither of them could though..after all it wasn't something widely taught now*

 

[kymbyr69]

Hey now, I quipped...is that where this bar got it's name? *we laughed* I have never learned swing dancing and Charli has only tried it once or twice. We both agree that we would like to learn but since there is no music maybe we should wait a few minutes. I ask Gary what he does for a living and sort of expecting him to say fireman or policeman, wait for him to answer me, Charli is listening intently too while looking at several other guys in the place that have caught her eye...