Swingers...aka friends that care and share

[jeninflorida]

Think I've exhausted the LW idea bank...so what about swingers!

Is it best to have the fiction characters jump in or baby steps?

Think we all know lw attracts the trolls but what about group?

 

[HeyAll]

Baby steps for me.

The build up is always fun. Perhaps the wife is reluctant for various reasons. Perhaps she's afraid of having her reputation ruined if word got out.

Here's fun idea: Perhaps her mother is a lesbian, and she's afraid that if she swings, she might enjoy other women just a little too much. lol

 

[ProfQ1955]

Baby steps, wife has a wild friend/neighbor that is always testing the boundaries. with her bedroom talk of neighbors exploits her husband gets on board then it just happens.

 

[sirhugs]

fewer trolls in Group than LW.

either jumping in or baby steps works.

maybe the jumping in occurs when wife jumps into the swimmming pool & looses her top. The other hubby steals it, won't give it back. Then his wife says, "yo make you more comfortable, I'll take mine off too..."

 

[jeninflorida]

Great idea...but im thinking about St. John being the setting or taking a sail boat out from there as there are ao many amazing islands

 

[joelafayette]

.....

 

[jeninflorida]

Trying to decide if they are friends before hand...and the trip down to the island brings them closer.... sun...heat....oil....surf...meow

 

[Carnevil9]

I know lots of people who are swingers (am not one myself though), and they run the spectrum from very "soft swing" to very hardcore, with many gradations in between.

I think a good story would be from the perspective of a newbie couple who are into very soft stuff (having sex in the same room with another couple having sex, or maybe just kissing and fondling other people while spouses are there), but gradually have their horizons expanded one step at a time.

 

[jeninflorida]

For the ending.....


Happy ending
Or
Happy ever after...or divorce .....


Trying to mentally visualize how the story should end

 

[emap]

Well lit style would be an orgy.

Real life there are two endings, well three actually. First, they like swinging and love each other so just keep on doing it. Second, they don't like swinging and love each other so stop and have good memories to bring up in the heights of passion when it gets old being two lovers. Third and honestly the lowest chance of, divorce because one likes to and not the other.

Alternately on three one falls for someone else and wants to have a three way marriage so to speak. The SO doesn't like the idea so fight and divorce. Most often this would be the husband deciding to add a girl and the wife not wanting lesbian sex. Almost as often it is the wife wanting to add a second man, same reason for the argument.

Now the wife adding a woman would take longer on the breakup. Mostly because men are pigs and he would be quite happy to watch. When it comes to say one or both not wanting sex with him it creates problems. Divorce comes when they start fucking when he is at work or something. This does happen, not terribly often but swingers getting a divorce because of swinging doesn't happen often anyway.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

We went to a swingers club one time. The people there were as annoying as flies at a picnic. Constant begging and pleading. And they weren't all that attractive. So we left.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Well lit style would be an orgy.

Real life there are two endings, well three actually. First, they like swinging and love each other so just keep on doing it. Second, they don't like swinging and love each other so stop and have good memories to bring up in the heights of passion when it gets old being two lovers. Third and honestly the lowest chance of, divorce because one likes to and not the other.

Alternately on three one falls for someone else and wants to have a three way marriage so to speak. The SO doesn't like the idea so fight and divorce. Most often this would be the husband deciding to add a girl and the wife not wanting lesbian sex. Almost as often it is the wife wanting to add a second man, same reason for the argument.

Now the wife adding a woman would take longer on the breakup. Mostly because men are pigs and he would be quite happy to watch. When it comes to say one or both not wanting sex with him it creates problems. Divorce comes when they start fucking when he is at work or something. This does happen, not terribly often but swingers getting a divorce because of swinging doesn't happen often anyway.

You've covered many of the bases, but there are more. There are couples who did it, enjoyed it, but eventually tired of it and gave it up. There are couples who did it, enjoyed it, but one spouse gets bored with it and wants to give it up, but the other spouse continues to play as a free agent. There are couples who are forced to retire when one party can no longer perform.

On the divorce issue, I'm pretty much in agreement. We've known dozens of swinging couples. Almost all of them are still together after many years. Only one divorced because of swinging (the husband was into it, the wife hated him for making her do it). Another divorced, but their problems ran much deeper than swinging. That was probably the only time they got along. The rest have been married for 10, 20, even 30 years. Some are still active, some are not.

 

[jeninflorida]

Think I'm going to leave it open ... where the two couples become close friends and still share beds ....

can you smell the sequel.... or is that teen spirit