Sweet, Sexual, BBW Looking for Romance

[Seshena]

Okay *sigh*....I'm actually posting one of these *smile*. Oh well *shrug*, why not.....right?

I'm a 35 (almost 36) year old, divorced, mother of one beautiful three year old daughter. I am a "bigger woman", but I'm not butt ugly *grin*. I'm trying to do this with a sense of humor so that it doesnt come out too sappy. Is it working?

I am looking for a man who is honest, doesn't cheat, LOVES to do things like, go to the movies, go to zoos, go to aquariums......someone who loves to do tacky yet fun touristy things. I am looking for a man who will be my friend, my companion, my lover......someone who has an open mind when it comes to sex and is willing to do anything in the pursuit of OUR pleasure so long as we are both willing. I would love for this man to be close to me, even in the same state......but......he doesn't have to be. I don't MIND long distance relationships as long as there are visits, as long as efforts are made to get to know one another. I know that it takes time to get to know someone whether you live five states away or five blocks away.......the man I want is someone who will commit to that......commit to getting to know each other to see if there might be something more there. I'm very independent as far as life goes, but I'm not built to be alone. I desire very much to care for a man.......to make him feel loved, desired, wanted......but at the same time, he must do the same for me. I'm not high maintenance, but I do require attention....I want someone to make me feel wanted and desired.....someone who will ask me "hey do you wanna go out with me and the guys tonite to the sports bar"....doesnt mean I'll say yes and ruin the guys night out......just means I want to be asked or considered. Sometimes I think this is too much to ask for.......other times I think....."fuck that, I deserve that"......I'm just like every other woman out there......only kinky *grin*. Okay that was more attempt at humor *smile*.

Anyway, if this sounds interesting to you or you want to know more about me to see if you might be interested......you have options.....post here, PM me here or email me at Bates763@yahoo.com.

And if nobody is interested, well......I can't say I didn't try *wink*. Hope you all have a great week filled with lots of orgasms *even if they are self induced*.

 

[Seshena]

Someone has made mention to me that I forgot to say where I was from...my apologies. I am in the state of Louisiana......for more specifics, email me or something. Hope that helps......

 

[sassylilthang]

hey

Hey girl....bump and good luck!

 

[Seshena]

Hey girl....bump and good luck!

thanks sassy......dont think itll help though.....seems like most people who are replying are married males saying "good luck" or things of that nature.....

perhaps i need to clarify.......i'm not looking to have an online/internet only thing with a married man who is no longer fulfilled........i would like the male to be single......so that future visits and stuff are a possibility......i dont want to seem too picky or anything...LOL....but ya know...

 

[Seshena]

Oh yeah....I guess a few other things I should clarify.....things that have been mentioned to me in the few PMs I have in fact gotten......someone mentioned how they dont want an "online romance".....I need to clarify that while we would be getting to know each other and stuff via emails and IMs, i dont want this to be an online romance.....i want to get to know someone a bit, see if eventually we would be interested in meeting face to face.....if things worked out like that and no, not even talking about sexually right off the bat...just in general.....then id like more visits here and there....ya know? i hope that makes sense.......

and i guess a little more about me......even though im a bbw i love to do things outdoors.....i love to go horse back riding, i love to go hiking in the mountains....i love to go hunting, i love four wheeling.......i do shoot pool but im way out of practice....i love to read, i love movies especially vampire or horror flicks...but im also into action movies like biker boys, too fast too furious or what not......im not a girly girl...im not into frilly dresses and stuff....i wear jeans, tennis shoes or ropers......i guess im a bit of a redneck but its not like i swill beer from a can *grin*....hell i dont even drink......anymore.

well i guess thats it...i just wanted to ramble some more *smile*....i hope you all have a great day

 

[xxxyz]

well, we're a long way apart, but if ever you need some online stimulation to keep you going for the time being...

Oh yeah....I guess a few other things I should clarify.....things that have been mentioned to me in the few PMs I have in fact gotten......someone mentioned how they dont want an "online romance".....I need to clarify that while we would be getting to know each other and stuff via emails and IMs, i dont want this to be an online romance.....i want to get to know someone a bit, see if eventually we would be interested in meeting face to face.....if things worked out like that and no, not even talking about sexually right off the bat...just in general.....then id like more visits here and there....ya know? i hope that makes sense.......

and i guess a little more about me......even though im a bbw i love to do things outdoors.....i love to go horse back riding, i love to go hiking in the mountains....i love to go hunting, i love four wheeling.......i do shoot pool but im way out of practice....i love to read, i love movies especially vampire or horror flicks...but im also into action movies like biker boys, too fast too furious or what not......im not a girly girl...im not into frilly dresses and stuff....i wear jeans, tennis shoes or ropers......i guess im a bit of a redneck but its not like i swill beer from a can *grin*....hell i dont even drink......anymore.

well i guess thats it...i just wanted to ramble some more *smile*....i hope you all have a great day

 

[Seshena]

well, we're a long way apart, but if ever you need some online stimulation to keep you going for the time being...

while the offer is great, just not what i want *smile*......thank you though.

 

[Seshena]

Ya know....it's kind of weird.....this is in fact a generic, general board for personals here on literotica.....yet, i find that when i view other personals placed on here, they get hardly any response.....as i'm noticing with mine.....is it that this is simply a place where people only want to respond to ads that say "looking to fuck and suck you hard"??

I would think that personals placed on Literotica would be a great place for people to connect who are perhaps into the same kind of kinky sex or for people who know that while sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship it is a prime factor for them in a relationship. A place to find someone who wants to enjoy all the little things in life with someone but also wants to have that wild, spicy, hot porno sex every single day they are together.....

Ah well......I guess we shall see what becomes of this.....this is after all only my observation.....I could be wrong......it could in fact be me.....

 

[jlocke]

...maybe it's because you used the evil "c" word. Well look at the bright side, you could be flooded with responses from a bunch of guys that you didn't want anything to do with anyway. Were I closer, I would enjoy nothing more than to strike something up. Alas, such is the nature of fate...

 

[tolyk]

I don't think as many people browse the personal threads actively.. most just seem to write a blurb and check their own thread for any responces..

I have one question for you.. either I'm blind, or I didn't see you state anywhere about location ? I mean, if you wanted the relationship to eventually lead into meeting, one must know where the other lives

Nevermind, just read and saw Louisiana.. I am blind long day at work. I'm Canadian..

 

[Seshena]

...maybe it's because you used the evil "c" word. Well look at the bright side, you could be flooded with responses from a bunch of guys that you didn't want anything to do with anyway. Were I closer, I would enjoy nothing more than to strike something up. Alas, such is the nature of fate...

i see, so perhaps its because i used the word commit....well if read correctly one would see that i didnt ask for commitment to me....i asked merely for the commitment of getting to know someone.......just to make that extra effort to take a little bit of time out of ones day to email or IM or something.....oh well.....if i dont see much of anything here after sunday ill just let it die...along with any wishful thinking...lol

 

[Seshena]

I don't think as many people browse the personal threads actively.. most just seem to write a blurb and check their own thread for any responces..

I have one question for you.. either I'm blind, or I didn't see you state anywhere about location ? I mean, if you wanted the relationship to eventually lead into meeting, one must know where the other lives

Nevermind, just read and saw Louisiana.. I am blind long day at work. I'm Canadian..

thank you for correcting yourself canuck *smile*

 

[jlocke]

i see, so perhaps its because i used the word commit....well if read correctly one would see that i didnt ask for commitment to me....i asked merely for the commitment of getting to know someone.......just to make that extra effort to take a little bit of time out of ones day to email or IM or something.....oh well.....if i dont see much of anything here after sunday ill just let it die...along with any wishful thinking...lol

Oh I totally got it. Just sayin'...lol. Too bad you're not getting the desired response, you seem quite cool.

 

[tolyk]

thank you for correcting yourself canuck *smile*

Hey now, don't go there yank... *evil grin*

 

[Seshena]

Oh I totally got it. Just sayin'...lol. Too bad you're not getting the desired response, you seem quite cool.

thank you.....i am actually quite cool *smile*.....if i do say so myself...i know how to take care of man and i can fuck like a porn star *grin*....but perhaps my talents will continue to be wasted on myself.....

 

[Seshena]

Hey now, don't go there yank... *evil grin*

lol I'm sorry.....please dont take offense....just trying to have a little fun *smile*

 

[tolyk]

lol I'm sorry.....please dont take offense....just trying to have a little fun *smile*

So was I, that's why I called you a yank

I was married to a woman from Louisiana.. I know it's an insulting title (was just playing too)

 

[Seshena]

So was I, that's why I called you a yank

I was married to a woman from Louisiana.. I know it's an insulting title (was just playing too)

wow, good thing im not actually FROM louisiana or i might take offense *smile*.........so you arent married to her anymore? *being nosey*

 

[tolyk]

wow, good thing im not actually FROM louisiana or i might take offense *smile*.........so you arent married to her anymore? *being nosey*

Well, I am, but we're seperated and in the midst of a divorce.

 

[Seshena]

Well, I am, but we're seperated and in the midst of a divorce.

i see, sorry to hear that...hope it works out for you

 

[tolyk]

i see, sorry to hear that...hope it works out for you

Oh, it's working out just fine for me Getting the divorce aren't I

 

[Seshena]

Good Morning Everyone.......well so far, I've had a few nice PMs and an email or two sent to my yahoo address.........thank goodness I've gotten SOME responses huh? How depressing if I hadnt......LOL.

Anyway........just in case you are thinking about it but unsure, just do it.......never hurts to say hi and see what if anything we might have in common to start a conversation with.

 

[gbd]

Remember the CSN song ...

" ... if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with."

By excluding married men you may be leaving out many potential partners. Some married men stray because their wives can not perform (mine) and yet love their wives. Other men stray because they are really looking for greener pastures. Other men stray because they are dogs.

By emailing/chatting a bright woman, like yourself, can figure them out.

We are not complicated.

 

[Seshena]

" ... if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with."

By excluding married men you may be leaving out many potential partners. Some married men stray because their wives can not perform (mine) and yet love their wives. Other men stray because they are really looking for greener pastures. Other men stray because they are dogs.

By emailing/chatting a bright woman, like yourself, can figure them out.

We are not complicated.

why on earth would i want a married man that strays??? being only divorced for six months now from a man who cheated on me the entire nearly six years we were married........why would i want someone else who cheats???? no....i stand firm....

 

[Seshena]

Well, I gave it a shot......doesnt seem that there are too many people interested in the same thing that I am.
Thank you to those who were kind of to PM, IM or email me......

I think those of you that did were either married or in your early twenties.....neither of which work for me.

For those of you that read this message, dont bother posting to this thread, I wont be checking it again. I guess you could say I see how futile it was......

Thanks again though to those who did say hi.

Best wishes to everyone.

A~