Sweet sadist seeks his sweet girl

[Snoozebutton2]

Just sticking my toe in the water to see if any ladies are seeking serious long term connection.

 

[babyjane20011]

hi snooze

Just sticking my toe in the water to see if any ladies are seeking serious long term connection.

would you like to chat

nancy

 

[GreenEyeVixen]

Can a Sadist be sweet?

 

[Que]

Can a Sadist be sweet?

Of course!

Refusing to hurt a masochistic damsel in distress would be, just mean!

 

[GreenEyeVixen]

Oh yes it would. Lol

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Remember even the devil is suave, but my point is I am not seeking an assembly line of playmates. But a true partner so we make both our lives enriched and meaningful.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

New Year

Seems a lot of the ads are still for online only or short sessions. Wonders if there are many out there seeking something that takes longer than making a pot of coffee.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Peeks in

It seems that so many seek the quick fix, where are those for the slow burn???

 

[AKS]

It seems that so many seek the quick fix, where are those for the slow burn???

All I have really found here is the quick fix type... Sadly.

 

[secretdesire68]

the quick-fix does seem to be the prevalent theme here.

 

[wyshes]

Still trying to get the sweet sadist is that like an awful masochist ??

 

[Snoozebutton2]

the quick-fix does seem to be the prevalent theme here.

Yes they want attention and emotionless play.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Still trying to get the sweet sadist is that like an awful masochist ??[/QUO

Not sure there

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Wanted to thank those sweet ladies who gave me support and kind words. It gives me hope there is serious minded ladies out there.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Peeks in and and wishes a good morning to all

 

[Que]

Still trying to get the sweet sadist is that like an awful masochist ??

A sweet sadist would be one that is willing to put a delightful hurt on a masochist when she implores, "hurt me?". A mean sadist would say, "No."

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Bumps to see if any ladies still seeking???

 

[SquishyBits]

Good luck in your search. I think many of the ladies who want a partner tend to be a bit more reserved online. There are double the amount of men on here so double the amount of messages for a quick fix. I'm not knocking that urge but it can be hard to sift through when that is not what you are looking for. Patience and hope are key. Chin up! Your person is out there for you.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Good luck in your search. I think many of the ladies who want a partner tend to be a bit more reserved online. There are double the amount of men on here so double the amount of messages for a quick fix. I'm not knocking that urge but it can be hard to sift through when that is not what you are looking for. Patience and hope are key. Chin up! Your person is out there for you.

Exactly, and talking first and getting to know the other person can be best part so no need to rush.

 

[Earthgoddess]

Sadists are often sweet

Most of the sadists I play with are deliciously sweet. They often check in on me and ask in very gentle voices if it hurts,enough. They also tend to make sure I understand that they are doing it for my own good, these activities are enrichments. Having been in the scene for decades I highly recommend sweet sadists because they make you feel so vulnerable and precious and they know exactly how to coil themselves deep in your brain and make you want, no crave, whatever they have in store.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Most of the sadists I play with are deliciously sweet. They often check in on me and ask in very gentle voices if it hurts,enough. They also tend to make sure I understand that they are doing it for my own good, these activities are enrichments. Having been in the scene for decades I highly recommend sweet sadists because they make you feel so vulnerable and precious and they know exactly how to coil themselves deep in your brain and make you want, no crave, whatever they have in store.

A lot of us have that Daddy Dom in us and love to cuddle after.

 

[Earthgoddess]

Exactly

Discipline is often best when tempered with a lap to redeem oneself in after.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Discipline is often best when tempered with a lap to redeem oneself in after.

Heart and hearth

 

[Earthgoddess]

Home is where the heart is

I should think that most people with the inclination to consider themselves a Daddy would also be gentlemen who study a bit of psychology or sociology to assist them in seeking partners. Seeking out folks who blush perhaps when told you are pleased, or maybe those who lower their eyes when complimented. I would also imagine it takes strength and reserves of patience not to become an enabler, to become a man who encourages growth and autonomy whilst fostering an entwined heart.

 

[Conager]

I should think that most people with the inclination to consider themselves a Daddy would also be gentlemen who study a bit of psychology or sociology to assist them in seeking partners. Seeking out folks who blush perhaps when told you are pleased, or maybe those who lower their eyes when complimented. I would also imagine it takes strength and reserves of patience not to become an enabler, to become a man who encourages growth and autonomy whilst fostering an entwined heart.

Submissives are no more or less likely to come with defects one should not "enable." Just as in any other pairing, ypu select the healthiest partner option, you don't select a mess and magically create a healthy partner.

If I were to generalize at all, from my admittedly limited anectdoal experience with submissive women, I would suggest that submissive women tend to have more strength of character, not less.